In the workplace, it is very important to communicate and communicate with others. However, sometimes we encounter situations where we always have no topic when chatting with others, feeling awkward and cold. This situation not only affects our relationships with others but also negatively affects our career development. So, what do we do when we are always out of topic when chatting with others?
First, learn to find common ground. A common topic refers to a topic that both parties are interested in, which can be some hot news, common interests, work problems, etc. When chatting, pay attention to the other person's reactions and interests, find common ground, and then expand the topic. If you really can't find a common topic, you can start with some topics of general concern, such as weather, travel, etc., and gradually guide to other topics.
Second, learn to ask questions and listen. Asking questions is a great way to communicate and lead the other person to express their opinions and ideas. When chatting, you can ask some questions about the other person's work, hobbies, etc., so that the other person can feel that you care and pay attention. At the same time, you should also pay attention to the other person's answers and give full attention and feedback. When listening, keep positive body language such as smiling and nodding your head to make the other person feel your respect and understanding.
Third, learn to expand the topic. When a topic is about the same, learn to expand the topic and lead to other aspects. You can broaden the conversation by asking questions and sharing your own experiences and opinions. When expanding the topic, pay attention to the coherence and logic of the topic, so that the other party can naturally accept the new topic.
Fourth, learn to use a sense of humor to adjust the atmosphere. A sense of humor is a great moderator that can make chatting more lighthearted and enjoyable. When chatting, you can use some humorous words or jokes appropriately to make the other party feel your sense of humor and humor. However, be mindful of the moderate use of humor and avoid excessive or inappropriate humor that may cause embarrassment or misunderstanding.
Finally, learn to pay attention to the other person's emotional changes. When chatting, pay attention to the other person's emotional changes, and if the other person shows unpleasant or impatient emotions, adjust the topic or atmosphere in time. At the same time, it is also important to pay attention to your emotional changes and maintain a confident and positive attitude.
To sum up, the above five points can help us solve the dilemma of chatting with others in the workplace that is always untopical. By finding common topics, asking questions and listening, expanding the conversation, using a sense of humor to adjust the atmosphere, and paying attention to the other person's emotional changes, we can better communicate and communicate with others. At the same time, we must continue to learn and improve our communication skills, and improve our professionalism and competitiveness. I believe that as long as we continue to work hard and struggle, the future career road will be brighter and better!