In December 2019, a seriously ill 77-year-old lady caused heated discussions onlineShe asked ** for help and wanted to find her youngest son Wang Yongqiang, who had been missing for 20 years.
This dying old man had tears in his eyes, which made people very unbearableA well-wisher found Wang Yongqiang, who was far away in the United States, hoping that he could return to China.
But Wang Yongqiang looked very indifferentonly replied with seven words, and then did not come forward until his mother died.
Just when netizens scolded Wang Yongqiang for being a white-eyed wolf, things took a turn for the worseWang Yongqiang's brother and uncle revealed the hidden truth behind it.
So what is the truth of the matter, and what is the unknown past of this family?
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang's mother who is seriously ill.
Wang Yongqiang's family is poor, and there are brothers and sisters on it, and the family's expenses are very large, and his brother is still a disabled personTherefore, the parents pinned their hopes on their youngest son.
But they didn't care about Wang Yongqiang as they deserved, and they kept asking him for money since he was in high school, and Wang Yongqiang endured itBut what really made him decide to cut off ties with his family was that his parents ruined his marriage.
Under the endless demands of parents,Wang Yongqiang lives in torment every day, and he is very disappointed in the family.
Fortunately, he met a professor's daughter in college, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up. Under the pressure of his parents, he never felt the warmth of his familyAnd in getting along with his girlfriend, he felt the happiness he had not seen for a long time.
But the parents did not support this relationship, they felt that the bride price of a Beijing woman must be very high, and after getting married, Wang Yongqiang will definitely not give them any more money.
Wang Yongqiang ignored the opposition of his family and resolutely married his girlfriend. In 1999, the two got married in BeijingThe father-in-law and mother-in-law knew that Wang Yongqiang's conditions were not good, and he had no house or car, so they didn't even ask for a bride price.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang (left).
Wang Yongqiang wanted to invite his parents to his wedding, but his parents asked him to pay 1,000 yuan for the fare1,000 yuan is Wang Yongqiang's 10-month subsidy, where can he find the money at this time?
In the end, his parents still didn't come, only Wang Yongqiang's uncle came. At the wedding scene, my girlfriend's parents are there, and I only have one uncle on my side, it is false to say that I am not sad, who doesn't want my parents to witness such an important day?
After marriage, the parents still have endless requirements for Wang Yongqiang to do, otherwise they will make trouble in **. Wang Yongqiang lives cautiously, he doesn't want his father-in-law and mother-in-law to know that his family is in this situation, but his wife can't stand the endless beating of her parents-in-law
Squeezing and "sucking blood" day after day made Wang Yongqiang determined to stay away from this suffocating familyAt this time, he was already a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University, and after marriage, due to the needs of work and study, he decided to go to Japan with his wife to continue his studies.
This is a big deal after all, he told his parentsI didn't expect my parents to be very supportive, but this support is also based on interests.
Wang Yongqiang's parents thought that if he could go to Japan, he must have made a fortuneasked him to bring his brother over as well, and also to help solve his brother's marriage problem.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang's uncle.
Wang Yongqiang studied in the past, he has no power and no money, of course he can't make such unreasonable demandsParents have to make it difficult for others, and if they don't agree, they will cry and make trouble.
Wang Yongqiang can't help itI had to coax them to say that they could earn 180,000 yuan a year when they went to Japan, and when they had money, they would build a house for their families, finally calmed down his parents, and Wang Yongqiang came to Japan with his wife.
Unexpectedly, when he arrived in Japan, his parents still did not give up, and Wang Yongqiang played with his family twice a monthEvery time his parents ask for money, he gives money, and if he doesn't give it, he makes trouble.
The disabled brother needs to be taken care of, and the parents are sick againBut whenever there is anything at home that costs money, they will call Wang Yongqiang, but Wang Yongqiang can't help it.
Wang Yongqiang's life is not rich, let alone now that he is married, his small family expenses will be greaterAfter he sent the only money back to China, he could only work harder to earn money part-time.
The wife saw it, but she couldn't bear it anymoreWhen they got married, Wang Yongqiang's parents didn't come, and they kept asking him for money after marriage, completely ignoring the fact that this son still has his own life.
Figure丨Build a house.
No matter how reasonable she is, she can't stand the pair of parents-in-law who hold on to their son like bloodsuckers, and the two have friction because of this incidentNo matter how deep the relationship is, it can't withstand such a drain, and in the end their marriage came to an end.
His wife and Wang Yongqiang filed for divorce, but Wang Yongqiang was bitter in his heart, but he could only agreeHe understands that his parents are a bottomless pit, and he can't drag his wife along with him.
At this time, they were studying in Japan, and their careers should be thriving, but the two ended their marriage. It was precisely because his parents ruined his happiness that Wang Yongqiang made up his mind to cut off contact with his family.
After the divorce, the family called ** again, and this time the requirements were even more excessiveThe parents not only wanted money, but also asked Wang Yongqiang to handle Japanese immigration for the whole family.
This incident detonated the anger in Wang Yongqiang's heart,"If it does not explode in silence, it perishes in silence", he erupted in silence.
Figure丨Divorce. In the face of his parents' unreasonable request, he didn't say a word, and after hanging up, he immediately bought a ticket to the United StatesIn order to prevent his parents from contacting him, he even canceled his personally identifiable information in China, since then cut off contact with home and disappeared.
In Atlanta, he got a new job, got married, had children, and had a new familyThis time, without the oppression of his parents, he lived a very happy life.
Until 20 years after he lost contactNetizens and ** found him, hoping that he could return to China to take a look at his seriously ill old mother.
The past came flooding back to him, and he didn't want to go back to the family that would only oppress himjust said: It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs. Until his mother died, he never came forward.
In the eyes of uninformed netizens, he seems very ruthlessBut his brother Wang Guoqiang and uncle Guo Xuewu revealed the secret.
In fact, Wang Yongqiang can't be blamed for being so ruthlessBecause since he was a child, the family only had financial demands on him, but they did not give him the care they deserved.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang's uncle.
In 1969, Wang Yongqiang was born in a poor family in Changzhou, Jiangsu, the parents can only barely survive by selling rat poison.
There is also an older brother and sister on top of Wang Yongqiang, and his brother unfortunately suffered from encephalitis and gastritis before he was bornBecause the family could not afford the medical expenses, my brother was unable to follow up and was disabled.
Because my brother is disabled, my sister is a woman and her physical fitness is not as good as that of a man. Therefore, his parents gave birth to Wang YongqiangIt is hoped that he can take care of his brother and earn money for the family as a laborer.
His parents always hoped that he could go out early to work and earn money, and they didn't care about his studiesOther parents are very happy to see their children's good academic performance, but those high scores cannot be exchanged for the attention of Wang Yongqiang's parents.
Even if Wang Yongqiang is a well-known student in the class,All they thought about was when Wang Yongqiang would drop out of school to work to support his family.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang.
In order for his parents not to hinder his studies,Since he started school, Wang Yongqiang has sent all his scholarships or subsidies home, but I didn't expect that in exchange for the endless squeezing of the family.
The parents poured all their love into their older son, who was disabledThe youngest son, Wang Yongqiang, is a money-making tool for themAs long as he doesn't work, doesn't make money, and doesn't send money home, he is unfilial.
It can be said thatWang Yongqiang was born without enjoying the love that his parents should have for their children, and it is no wonder that he chose to run away from his family in the end.
Wang Yongqiang is the youngest, but he is the smartest of the three childrenHe also worked hard in his studies, and as the saying goes, "knowledge changes destiny", and he is convinced of this.
But parents don't think so, they think that if they can know a few words, they can read and write, and what is the use of reading so many books. His parents told him to stop in moderation, and when he reached the age when he could work, he went out to make money.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang.
Due to the poverty of his family, sometimes he did not even have a pen to write his homework, so Wang Yongqiang would go to the garbage station to turn over the pencil headWang Yongqiang wanted to use better grades to change his parents' outlook, but he always failed.
His parents were only perfunctory about the high-scoring test papers he brought home, and sometimes they didn't even look at themAfter being admitted to high school, Wang Yongqiang's grades were still among the best, but his family always wanted him to go out to work.
How many people hope that their children can be admitted to a good university and change their livesWang Yongqiang's parents only focused on the small profits in front of them, and never considered whether Wang Yongqiang would be like them in the future.
Fortunately, Wang Yongqiang can see it clearlyHe doesn't want to repeat his parents' lives, he needs to fight for his future. Wang Yongqiang assured his parents that he would go to school while working, which made his parents reluctantly agree.
Although the right to go to school was retained,But his parents will still instill in him the theory that "reading is useless", and he can't make money by reading all day long, and how much money other people's children have earned by going to work.
Figure丨Work-study.
Wang Yongqiang was under the double pressure from his studies and family, gritted his teeth and insisted on finishing high school。The edge of the sword is sharpened, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold. Those who can come out of the predicament will definitely make a difference.
Sure enough,After the college entrance examination, Wang Yongqiang, who was under heavy pressure, was admitted to Soochow University very competitively. However, his parents did not intend to let him go, but it was better to say that Wang Yongqiang's nightmare had only begun now.
At that time, college students had a living allowance of 4 yuan per month, and their parents heard the news from **wrote to him to send money home, and he didn't think about how Wang Yongqiang should live.
Not to mention living expenses, his parents barely gave him any moneyWang Yongqiang's daily expenses at school are all earned by his own part-time job, and his life is also very simple, he can only barely support himself by frugality.
Wang Yongqiang, who left home, not only did not get financial support from his familyInstead, I had to send home all the scholarships and school subsidies I received.
Figure丨Soochow University.
And that's not all,The parents also boasted in the village, saying that their son had been admitted to university and could help others arrange jobs. The parents just said casually with a good face, and it was Wang Yongqiang who really solved the mess.
At one point, my parents went to school and cried in the school just to ask for money, completely ignoring Wang Yongqiang's feelings.
Wang Yongqiang also devoted himself to learning during collegeIn the end, I was successfully admitted to the graduate school of this university, and the subsidy also increased from 4 yuan a month to 72 yuan.
In the face of this money, Wang Yongqiang chose to hide the subsidy from his familyHe has also grown up, and he needs more money to work, and he often can't afford the daily expenses.
But when his parents learned the news, they went directly to the school and scolded Wang Yongqiang for having no conscience. In their opinion, it is already unfilial piety for him not to work to earn money to support his family, and now he dares to hide his private money.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang (right).
Such a fuss made Wang Yongqiang feel unable to raise his head in schoolIn the end, I had to take out all the money for my parents to take away.
This incident became a fuse, allowing Wang Yongqiang to see the faces of his family clearlyNo matter how hard he studied or what kind of education he obtained, his parents didn't care, they only care about whether Wang Yongqiang can send them money.
Wang Yongqiang felt disheartenedDetermined to stay away from this bloodsucking family, the only way out is to continue to work hard to climb upSo after graduation, he was admitted to the Institute of Physics of the Chinese Academy of Sciences in Beijing for a Ph.D. degree.
It is not easy for a family to train a doctorateNot to mention that Wang Yongqiang didn't get any support from his family at all, and he got to this point completely on his own, its perseverance and determination are beyond ordinary people.
His parents learned that he had been admitted to the postdoctoral programNot only did they not feel happy for him, but they wanted him to drop out of school.
At this time, Wang Yongqiang's sister was married, and his brother was unable to workWang Yongqiang, as the only middle-aged laborer in the family, not only could not earn money for the family, but also continued to study and continue to spend money, which makes parents unacceptable.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang's letter sent home.
Until now, they have not changed their pedantic ideas, bent on letting Wang Yongqiang go out to work and make money, he didn't realize the power of knowledge at all.
It was Wang Yongqiang's repeated insistence that won him the opportunity to study. His parents also felt that it was because of his kindness that he continued to studyIn return, Wang Yongqiang should be more responsive to their needs.
In 1997, Wang Yongqiang became a postdoctoral fellow at Peking UniversityIn addition to asking Wang Yongqiang for money as always, other unreasonable demands have intensified.
They thought that Wang Yongqiang must be powerful in Beijing, and asked him to introduce his brother to workEven the problems of relatives' children going to school came to him. If Wang Yongqiang can't do it, he is unfilial.
In fact, Wang Yongqiang really couldn't do it, so his parents were very annoyed with him. Under the pressure of his parents, Wang Yongqiang's life was very difficult, which also gave him the idea of escaping.
Eventually, under the bloodsucking of parents,Wang Yongqiang cut off all ties with China and fled to the United States to start a new life.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang's parents.
In December 2019, a news titled "Wang Yongqiang, your mother called you home" became popular on the Internet, the seriously ill mother found ** and released a message on the Internet, wanting to find her youngest son Wang Yongqiang, who had been missing for 20 years, and her words were sincere and moving.
There are also ** door-to-door interviews with them, and I learned from Wang Yongqiang's parentsWang Yongqiang went to Japan for work back then, and he couldn't get in touch with him since.
Wang Yongqiang's parents' statement on ** is that Wang Yongqiang has been very talented in reading since he was a child, and he was admitted to the doctorate all the wayLater, he needed to take his wife to Japan because of work, and his parents were very supportive.
Later, because they had no money to buy medicine, their parents asked Wang Yongqiang for helpIn **, Wang Yongqiang was very silent, but after hanging up**, he could no longer be contacted.
Parents in order to find him,I asked his classmates, teachers and colleagues, as well as his ex-wife, but I didn't know where he went.
Figure丨**News.
His parents called the police in order to find him, but learned that Wang Yongqiang had cancelled his Chinese identitySince then, he has disappeared, his life and death are unknown, and he has never been heard from again.
In desperation, the parents had to pin their hopes on ** and the Internet, hoping to find their youngest son who had been absent for many years. Some enthusiastic netizens found Wang Yongqiang's foreign account, and by comparing the account and Wang Yongqiang's information, they confirmed that this was Wang Yongqiang himself.
At this time, Wang Yongqiang had settled in Atlanta, USA, for a long time, and was still married and had childrenNow he is a software engineer in the United States, with a decent salary.
The parents were very angry about thisThe long-lost son is not only alive, but also very nourishing, but he has ignored his parents for 20 years, even my mother was seriously ill and didn't come back to take a look.
*Called his** and hoped he would come back,In the face of his family's ardent expectations, Wang Yongqiang was very indifferent and resolutely refused to return to China.
Picture丨Wang Yongqiang's foreign account.
Until his mother died, Wang Yongqiang did not show up. Some people think that he is too cold-blooded, and his family worked hard for him to be admitted to the doctorate, and now he lives a rich life, but he doesn't care about the life or death of his family at all.
In the face of these masses who did not know the truth, Wang Yongqiang did not blame them, but he did not explain too muchjust left a sentence "It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs", leaving people with infinite reverie.
In the face of various speculations on the Internet, Wang Yongqiang's brother and uncle told the truthOnly then did everyone know that what Wang Yongqiang's parents said was just one-sided, and some people felt sorry for their previous slanderous words against Wang Yongqiang, after all, the full picture is unknown, no comment.
There are also people who think that blood is greater than the skyAnyway, they are all his relatives, and they shouldn't be so ruthless.
"Filial piety" has always been a beautiful virtue preached in our country, but parents should not rely on filial piety to squeeze their children, after all, children cannot choose their parents and choose their familiesThey are born with a natural, unrequited love for their parents, and some parents don't understand this.
It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs.
They think that they have given life to their child, and that the child is their possession from now on, and that they should be given what they wantAs long as there is a little bit of unhappiness, he will use the word "unfilial piety" to persecute him, which is obviously a moral kidnapping.
No wonder Wang Yongqiang finally ran away from this familyAnyone who is subjected to such endless "bloodsucking" will not be able to stand it.
They tried to sabotage his studies, ruined his marriage, and finally wanted to launch an Internet to morally condemn Wang Yongqiang againled to Wang Yongqiang in the eyes of uninformed people. became a white-eyed wolf who didn't know how to be grateful.
If Wang Yongqiang's brother and uncle did not explain the truth,Will the deceived public continue to scold Wang Yongqiang?
If it weren't for the short-sightedness of the parents, they only knew how to care about a little bit of petty profitsNow that the child has returned from school, why can't he spend his old age in peace? It can be said that this family has come to this point because Wang Yongqiang's parents have suffered on their own.
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