Have you ever met such a unique group of people in your life?
They are far from the group, they are not as human as they are often said, and they always have their own unique views on things, and this unique characteristic is often used"Maverick"and other neutral words to describe. life
However, some people use it when describing them"So it's a mystery"with"Ruthless"and other slightly derogatory terms.
In the Northeast dialect, there is a very vivid word - "across the road", and it is this word that aptly describes their unique personality. Yes, they are the kind of people who are different, as if they are walking on a different path in life.
However, such people are the kind of people who are well-informed and quick-thinking in life.
When Lao Wang was only twenty-three years old, he met a girlfriend who had been with him for three years. Ya has been in the workplace for a whole year, and her life is gradually on the right track, so the two began to focus on talking about marriage.
However, just as they were planning a bright future, Wang's father was suddenly bedridden due to cancer, and had entered the last stage of his life, suffering from diseases every day, relying only on medicine to relieve pain and prolong his life.
Wang's father was getting weaker and his health was deteriorating, and the doctor told him to go to the office, and Wang brought his girlfriend with him. There, the doctor expressed regret that the condition was irreversible and suggested that they should consider giving up**.
However, Lao Wang resolutely objected, he said that even if the family went bankrupt, he would be his father**, looking at Lao Wang's firm attitude, the doctor was not only moved, but also helpless.
However, Lao Wang's girlfriend took his hand and persuaded him to give up. Such an offer immediately angered Lao Wang, who shook his finger and angrily denounced the other party as a cold-blooded person, and then angrily parted and left.
A few months later, Wang's father passed away, leaving only the pressure of debt. In this film "The Way of Heaven", **Ying made the decision to give up when his father was dying, and his relatives and friends accused him of being cold-blooded and ungrateful.
However, it was precisely because of Ying's frankness that he allowed his fellow relatives to find themselves morally and dispel their inner doubts and contradictions. The eldest brother **Ying not only resolved the embarrassment of his relatives, but also found a balance for the psychology of his family.
*Ying ignored these comments and simply made a decision to let his father suffer less and leave with dignity. This decision allowed him to remain calm in the face of doubts and criticisms. This decision allowed him to remain calm in the face of doubts and criticisms.
Perhaps in his heart, he despised the hypocrisy of those people; Or maybe he didn't even want to laugh at it too much. This decision allowed him to remain calm in the face of doubts and criticisms. This decision allowed him to remain calm in the face of doubts and criticisms.
The so-called high-level understanding actually goes beyond the cumbersome representations of the secular, human, and social education, and goes straight to the core of the incident. These people with superior knowledge are often misunderstood by others as indifferent and ruthless, but in fact they are only more focused on important things because of their high level of intellect, and disdain for unnecessary distractions.
That choice not only saved my father from needless pain and suffering when he was dying, but also enabled him to preserve his dignity at the end of his life and better survive these difficult years! On the other hand, for these relatives and friends who are still alive, this is undoubtedly a blessing that relieves them of the heavy burden in their hearts.
In contrast, it is worth thanking that the protagonist is gifted and has broken free from the inherent shackles of the world's thinking early, and has come out of it to get a glimpse of a higher level of life wisdom and conceptual perspective.
At that time, Lao Wang was already the backbone of a large enterprise, serving as the head of the logistics support department, and his team members included security guards, cleaners, drivers and other people from all walks of life.
Lao Wang is well versed in the way of the workplace, and he is in harmony with his subordinates, and is full of laughter and intimacy on both weekdays and rest days.
Other colleagues were puzzled by this, questioning why Wang was able to establish such a deep interpersonal relationship with workers with lower educational qualifications.
Lao Wang replied calmly: "The paths of life are very different, and people's circumstances and experiences are different, so there are also differences in their understanding and perception of the world. When dealing with these people with different perspectives, we should uphold the principles of inclusiveness, learning from each other's strengths and weaknesses and being backward compatible as the criteria for handling interpersonal relationships. ”
However, in the face of questions from colleagues, Lao Wang said that the truth that summer insects cannot be said is clear, and talking about winter snow with summer insects is tantamount to disrespect, and the way to get along should be based on the principle of respect.
There is a cloud in the Buddhist scriptures: "A small flower is the whole universe, and a tree is pregnant with eternal enlightenment." "There is a unique world in every human being, and recklessly intruding into the realm of others is tantamount to an intolerable form of harassment. Rather than babbling on accusations or correcting the wrong views of others, it is better to remain silent and smile with a serene smile that is the highest level of respect and a reflection of deep humility in the heart.
The ancients often said: "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", which is not meant to express indifference and ruthlessness, but to convey a kind of mutual admiration without any entanglement of interests, and a beautiful friendship concept with a high degree of spiritual interest.
Recalling the first time when he was involved in the workplace, Lao Wang and Lao Zhang from the neighboring office formed a deep friendship because of their common cultural interests and hobbies.
The two are equally enthusiastic about literary creation, one is good at composing poetry, and the other is good at writing poems.
What is different from many of their peers is that after work, they do not indulge in alcoholic vocal music, but often invite each other to taste tea and talk about the past and the present.
However, as Lao Zhang climbed in his career and gradually became the upper leader of the company, the time spent with Lao Wang in a leisurely afternoon gradually decreased.
Seeing this situation, Lao Wang knew it, so he no longer took the initiative to invite Lao Zhang, and the relationship between the two seemed to have become relatively distant in the eyes of everyone.
His wife has reminded Wang many times that since his friends are in high positions, why don't they take the initiative to contact and improve communication? Even just helping each other may bring unexpected surprises.
In this regard, Lao Wang can always deal with it calmly, and responded with a smile: "The friendship between us is as pure and dull as flowing water, but it is always clear. If I had the strength, it would be natural for them to help me succeed. On the contrary, if I am not capable, why bother to create a ** family? ”
Later, due to the company's personnel changes, the position of office director was vacant, Lao Zhang resolutely recommended Lao Wang to take over this position, and promised that if Lao Wang was not qualified for the position, he was willing to accompany Lao Wang to resign. After years of hard work, Lao Wang finally realized his self-worth and won wide praise from the company.
When associating with knowledgeable people, what you lose may only be a brotherly friendship, but what you gain is deep understanding and resonance; It may be a lively ballroom dance party that is sacrificed, but it can get sincere heart-to-heart affection. The more knowledgeable a person is, the more cold and difficult to interact with on the surface, but in fact there are very real and pure emotions in his heart.
For those with a superior level of cognition, it may seem to be synonymous with indifference, but this is not the case.
Because these people are always able to accurately grasp the essence of things, and are not disturbed and influenced by external opinions and personal emotional factors.
In addition, they are open-minded, and even if they are aware of their own shortcomings, they are still able to tolerate and tolerate the differences between others and themselves.
In the end, they know that only peace and tranquility can last for a long time, and create a long-lasting and moving chapter with constant perseverance.