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When Yao Yuling and Ma Yan met for the first time, Yao Yuling's first impression of Ma Yan was not good, probably because she felt that Ma Yan might be her rival in the pursuit of Wang Xin. She used mean and rude language to describe Ma Yan, calling her a "little comrade who sells pickles", which undoubtedly made Ma Yan feel embarrassed and uncomfortable.
Ma Yan may also be disgusted by Yao Yuling's attitude, but she did not show it. She simply responded that she wasn't just selling pickles. This suggests that Ma Yan may not care too much about Yao's opinion, or that she doesn't want to dwell too much on this issue.
Ma Yan is also not very satisfied with her job, which she finds boring and unpassionate. She originally hoped to change her destiny through the college entrance examination, but found that she was not good at studying. This may have left her with some confusion and anxiety about her future.
Ms. Yao's sarcasm may have further deepened Ms. Ma's disgust with her work. She may feel that her work makes her unable to hold her head up in front of Yao Yuling, and she also loses face in front of Wang Xin, whom she has a good impression of.
Ma Yan came into contact with "Little Wenzhou" and became interested in the business model in the south. She decided to give up her job in a state-run store and go into business on her own. Ma Yan is a person who dares to take risks and try new things.
However, Ma Kui has a different view. He believes that only by keeping the iron rice bowl of the state-run store can he ensure the stability of his life. Therefore, he firmly opposed Ma Yan from giving up her job in a state-run store, and did not even allow her to set up a stall in her spare time.
Ma Kui's father was a typical "old stubborn", and he was very strict, if not harsh, in his approach to educating his children. He demanded that the children must do what he wanted, or face severe punishment. This way of education made Ma Yan feel very depressed, he longed for freedom and longed to get rid of his father's shackles.
When Ma Kui found Ma Yan's button stall, he forcefully demanded that Ma Yan immediately close the stall and go home. Ma Yan considered that there were still customers who were choosing buttons, so she asked Ma Kui to save her face and deal with the problem later. However, Ma Kui directly overturned the button stall and then turned to leave. Ma Yan felt disappointed and angry, which made her more determined to pursue her ideals.
The impact of Ma Kui's behavior as a father on Ma Yan, and the restrictions on the younger generation of parents' perceptions. Ma Kui never asked Ma Yan why she didn't like her job as a salesperson in a state-run store, nor did she try to understand and support her dreams. On the contrary, he suppressed Ma Yan in a brutal way, which made people feel suffocated and depressed. Ma Kui's actions reflect his desire to control and protect Ma Yan, but he ignores Ma Yan's inner needs and pursuits.
This phenomenon can be seen in many parents of the older generation, who are accustomed to using their own experiences and concepts to shape their children's lives, and to restrain and restrict their children. Although this behavior is motivated by love, it often stifles the dreams and vitality of the children, and restricts the growth and development of the children.
In contrast, Ma Yan showed the courage and determination of young people. Despite facing opposition and pressure from her father, she still asserts herself and strives to pursue her dreams, not being bound by the ideas of the older generation.
This also reveals the contradictions and conflicts between the older generation of parents and the younger generation, as well as their different understandings and pursuits of life and dreams.
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