How do you get a guy to fall in love with you?
First of all, you have to like yourself.
There is a big difference between liking and narcissism.
Like is a mirror, reflecting my own strengths and weaknesses; And narcissism is like a blind man touching an elephant, which makes me fall into endless fantasies about myself.
Now, please grab a pen and paint your light. Among your many excellent qualities, write down these 3 qualities honestly.
You see yourself.
Of the three qualities, even the one you are most proud of, if you were replaced with a flaw that you hated, would you let that flaw be exposed in the course of your relationship?
Then, you see your values.
If you don't want to be honest, that's okay, then change to a flaw that you can be brave enough to tell the other person.
The process is all about managing your expectations in someone's mind.
What do you want him to expect from you?
You have 6 balls in your hand and 3 merits in your left hand, and you throw them into the air, sparkling, spinning round and round. Someone walks over, laughs a lot, gives you a round of applause, and you have a great time.
Someone sees you holding three balls in your right hand, and you have a mirror in your heart, which is a symbol of your three inadequacies, but you haven't had time to hide them.
The man asked, can you make 4 balls spin together?
You don't dare to try.
That person encourages you, give it a try, the ball falls to the ground and I pick it up for you.
You muster up the courage and throw the ball of your right hand into the sky with all your might, you get nervous, and then the ball falls to the ground.
The person who applauded you at the beginning complained, threw 3 well, and made a fool of himself.
Then he went away angrily.
The man bends down and picks you up one by one. I smiled and told you, the posture you just dropped the ball in was so handsome, try again.
The balls were scattered all over the ground again.
You're also a little disappointed, as if you can't throw 3 balls well.
The guy picks up the ball for you again.
You ask the man, why don't you leave?
He smiled and said, "I've never seen four balls spin in circles."
Later, again and again, the balls were scattered all over the ground.
You tell the guy, forget it, no one can spin the 6 balls in a circle.
He said, you spin up 5 balls first.
The moment you spin up, he bends over, lifts his head up, and throws a ball into the sky with his other hand.
The moment when the 6 balls are in the sky, they are all dazzling, in fact, you can't tell which one is the advantage and which one is the disadvantage, the only thing you have to do is to calm down, concentrate, and then feel each ball that stays in your hand for a moment.
At that moment, you shine in someone's eyes, as bright as a star. Honestly confessing may cost you some people, but that doesn't mean you're doing something wrong. Because it is this honesty that brings you closer to the tenderness and beauty of your heart.
The longer you are in love, the lower the probability of getting married, as if time has become the enemy of love, gradually consuming the determination and expectation of two people.
Long-distance running is not a romantic thing for love.
You've been chasing a drama, you've been immersed in it, and the plot is like a magnet that attracts you and makes you want to stop. It tickles your heart and is so sweet that you can't resist.
However, to continue chasing, you need to recharge VIP, do you charge it or not?
Charge, charge.
Jump into it and you'll be pleasantly surprised to find 20 exciting episodes waiting for you to unlock. However, this is just the tip of the iceberg, and there are many more secrets waiting to be discovered in the depths. Each episode only costs 3 yuan, are you willing to pay for this endless excitement?
Charge, keep rushing.
The more you give, the more you cherish a relationship.
However, the 40-episode drama can be chased in one go.
What about after the chase?
Replace the next one.
You look at those who have been in love for ten years, eight years, five years and three years, and the plots that should be experienced have all been experienced, and then, will they be brushed twice or three times? You know all those heart-pounding, reversal, and dramatic conflicts.
did not move towards marriage at the stage of the deepest feelings, according to the plot conflict, this is the rhythm of two men and two women.
Sometimes, separation doesn't require a big misunderstanding, and it doesn't need a contradiction that is difficult to unravel.
Perhaps, just one day, when you pass by a bridal shop and see those beautiful wedding dresses, you suddenly understand that you and him will not have that future again.
It's not that he's bad, it's just that he hasn't opened his mouth, he hasn't made that eternal promise to you. All your efforts, all your rush, suddenly lost its meaning at this moment.
Whether it's a long run or a sprint, when there is no one waiting for the finish line, your feet suddenly become weak, perhaps because they are afraid of disappointment. They didn't accompany the shoes to where they had agreed.
Getting married is also something that you can figure out in an instant.
All the preparations and foreshadowing are like a carefully woven prologue, just for the day when we will step into the sacred hall of marriage. This is not the end of the story, but the beginning of a new journey, like unlocking a new chapter in love. Yes, my dear, and welcome to the second season of our relationship, which will be a much more exciting and loving world.
The moment the mountain is poor, the water begins to flow, and the moment the willow tree is darkened, the flowers bloom.
You know in your heart whether a person's heart is with you for marriage.
This is like a TV series, the occasional plot jump may be harmless, but the plot is a little thin.
When memories become the filling of the plot, it also becomes the driving force for the development of the plot to some extent.
If there is no new plot to unfold, just a continuation of the drag, then the trend of this drama will inevitably go high and low, making you gradually lose expectations.
Everyone has abandoned the drama, and they were full of expectations at the beginning.
That day, you asked, when are we going to get married.
Getting married, it's just that day you confirm whether the other party has a schedule for the next season.
It's not that day that you know the answer, it's that day that you confirmed the answer, your fate can't support the original cast of the second season, so a hasty ending is also a kind of consummation.
Getting married and breaking up are on the same day, but in the end they turn to one outcome. Feelings