Ten years after graduation, staying at home all day, without a job, completely dependent on his parents, Du Leying, the protagonist of the movie "Hot and Hot", was labeled as "gnawing the old".
Laziness is human nature, and this is something in everyone. Laziness is not terrible, it is terrible to lose motivation and direction in life. In a person's life, they often live towards a certain direction and goal, which can be very ordinary or ideal. Ordinary people pursue three meals a day, full of food and clothing; People with ideals aspire to career success or self-realization challenges on the basis of ordinary.
I don't know, have you ever wondered what kind of person you are? Whether it is a person who yearns for an ordinary life, or a person who pursues a better self. The judging criteria depend on your ability to perform. People with strong executive ability, you will work hard, endure hardship, and endure loneliness; People with poor execution may have very low self-discipline, will be half-hearted, and will be in a state of fishing for three days and drying nets for two days. Of course, the strength and weakness of execution are also related to objective factors, and you may be troubled and unable to concentrate; Perhaps the conditions do not allow it, and it is subject to the lack of funds and platforms; Or maybe the IQ and EQ are limited, the experience is insufficient, and the cognitive ability cannot keep up.
Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and everyone has unspeakable difficulties. Everyone's life is unique because of their different circumstances. Some people say that no matter how difficult life is, you must have ambition. This sentence is very real, especially in the increasingly fierce competition, if you don't advance, you will retreat. We may cringe at the blows of reality, but everyone is an individual and must learn to live without causing trouble to others, especially their parents and children.
Du Leying has been decadent for ten years, and she has also invisibly hurt her family and friends who care about her. Later, she fell in love with boxing, found the direction of her life's struggle, regained her strength, and not only returned to life, but also proved that she could do it. In Du Leying, we see that everyone's potential is huge, as long as they are willing to work hard, they have the opportunity to become a person who can be proud of themselves and others.
If you are also a person who runs for life and ideals, then remember to be a person with executive ability. Execution is a rare and valuable quality, and it is an indispensable source of power to realize the ideal of life. With the improvement of material life, sometimes what we lack is not opportunities and platforms, but execution, which is something that can be seen and touched, which is reflected in every day's actions. What you have done today and what tasks you have completed are all manifestations of execution. As the saying goes, you can't go a thousand miles without accumulating steps. Only by taking action, bit by bit, can we gather into the sea and finally welcome a bright life.
The truth may be understood by everyone, but the key is that execution is not something you want to have. Laziness is innate, and execution is nurture, and cultivating execution means defeating laziness. Laziness is latent in our consciousness and is an unconscious behavior. It's not that we haven't set goals or made up our minds, but we're often vulnerable to laziness. It seems like an endless loop, stuck in a trap that can't be changed.
We may be able to learn from Du Leying in the movie, starting from finding our own interests, meditating on the people we like and the things we love to do, dissecting ourselves little by little, and finding a way that can arouse our fighting spirit. If you have a point of interest, you must learn to persevere, insist on refining your goals, insist on putting pressure on yourself, insist on warning yourself to complete fixed tasks every day, day after day, your execution will slowly come in.
Today I am going to run three kilometers, read for one hour, talk to my family for 30 minutes, and learn a dish. Believe in yourself, you will definitely become a better version of yourself, and one day you will be able to add a halo to yourself.