I'm happy, Liu Xijun - Garden of Love.
People should get strength and happiness from liking, not spending all their strength and happiness to like.
- Anonymous
It's a time when everyone is stressed.
There is a section on the short **platform**, where a little girl is jumping happily, and an adult passing by her is also infected, and then jumps up and down.
*The title is: How long have you not been happy?
In just about ten seconds, it has attracted more than 100,000 likes and favorites, as well as more than 10,000 comments.
One of the hottest comments was: I actually laughed and cried.
This is exactly what I thought when I watched this **, it turns out that there are so many people who have not experienced the feeling of happiness for a long time.
Many people bluntly say that they want to get back to the happy self they once were.
When we were young, we looked forward to growing up, thinking that the adult world was colorful and happy.
When I really grew up, I found that the adult world is not fun, but full of all kinds of pressures and tribulations.
When I grew up, I realized that the happiness that was at my fingertips when I was a child is now difficult to achieve.
Adults also unconsciously pass on the pressure to children.
Some adults feel a lot of pressure in their lives, so they want their children to take fewer detours and are extremely strict with their children.
It is understandable to hope that the son will become a dragon and the daughter will become a phoenix, but it is also easy to cause the child's psychological burden to be too large and unhappy.
Not long ago, there was a tragedy in Wenzhou, a junior high school student, came home after evening self-study, jumped from the upper floor ......
On the night of the incident, a passer-by took pictures of the student being scolded by his mother: I took you alone after the divorce, and for you, I haven't remarried for ten years.
Perhaps, the child is sorry in his heart: Mom, I'm sorry, I ruined your life, and now you can fly freely.
This tragedy should really cause us as parents to think about what we are giving birth to
Milan Kundera once said, "The premise of having a child is that you have proven that life is happy." ”
I have now seen very openly, I don't ask too much of my children, I just do my best to learn, and the most important thing is that my children can live safely and happily.
As a parent, learn to face the pressure yourself, and you can't let your child share your anxiety just because you are stressed.
The happiness of modern people is mostly fragmented happiness.
Modern people want to be happy, and they often choose simple and crude ways to reward themselves.
For example, go for a good meal, buy yourself an expensive gift, or watch a movie, or go on a travel ......
However, these happiness seems to be fragmented happiness, very simple and direct, and it does not last long.
These joys are not heartfelt satisfaction and happiness, which ends when you laugh and then continue to be unhappy.
There's a song that says: You're not really happy, your smile is just the protective color you wear.
In the adult world, whose life is not a piece of chicken feathers?Laughing in front of people and crying later, the bitterness and tiredness in my heart can only be digested alone.
Carnegie said: Whether you are happy or unhappy has nothing to do with what you have, who you are, where you are, or what you are doing, it is only related to what you are thinking.
Sometimes I think about it, the reason why we are tired and unhappy is because we don't live according to our likes and passions.
I hope that you and I will have the courage to let go of worldly standards and constraints and live happily according to our own wishes.
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