The Spring Festival of 2024 is supposed to be a time of reunion and celebration, but for some, it has become a time of distraction and confusion. As the author describes, his mood seems to be overshadowed by the pressures of reality and the expectations of his family, and he cannot get rid of it.
The mother's words, although they carried the expectation of love, deeply pierced the author's heart. In his opinion, the hope that his efforts and intentions would be understood and recognized were dashed in his mother's coldness. This kind of parental expectation and blame invisibly put heavy pressure on the author, causing him to fall into self-doubt and helplessness.
From childhood to adulthood, we all grew up under the expectations and guidance of our parents, but when we gradually matured and began to have our own ideas and pursuits, our parents' expectations often became a heavy burden on our backs. They want us to have a better life and higher achievements, but the path they want is not necessarily the right path for us.
The author's experience may represent the voice of many people. We crave understanding and support, but we can't shake off the expectations and blame of our parents. We strive to pursue our dreams, but we are bound by the words and actions of our parents. We want to be free and independent, but we can't get rid of the responsibilities and concerns of our families.
However, life is not static, and we don't have to sacrifice our own happiness to meet the expectations of others. We can try to communicate with our parents and be honest about our thoughts and feelings, so that they can understand our confusion and confusion. We can also try to find our own lifestyle and life goals, without being bound by traditional ideas and norms.
Most importantly, we learn to love ourselves, accept ourselves, and believe in ourselves. No matter what the outside world says, we all deserve to be respected and cherished. May every confused and depressed person find their own bright path and bravely move towards the future.