In this vain society, we see the ** and status shared by our friends on various social software every day.
Some of them like to over-display their wealth, success, and love life on it for vanity satisfaction.
However, these behaviors often hide their inner insecurities.
1。Drying in material life, it is glamorous on the outside and empty on the inside
Many people love to post their brand-name bags and high-end food in the circle of friends to show off their luxurious vacation life.
These things are indeed glamorous by their appearance, but excessive showmanship only exposes one's vanity and superficiality.
A person's inner qualities are far more valuable than their outer brilliance.
Basking in material life is like dressing yourself up as a flashy empty shell, which looks like a jade tree facing the wind on the outside, but is empty on the inside.
In our pursuit of material comforts, we may neglect the richer experiences of life – volunteering, passing on culture, exploring nature, and so on.
If one's spiritual world is empty and barren, no amount of luxury can bring inner happiness and satisfaction.
Having material wealth can certainly lead to a decent life, but it does not represent a person's intrinsic worth.
Let us keep a simple and grateful heart and cherish the experience of every moment in life, so that our life will become more wonderful and abundant.
Outer wealth never brings inner peace, but inner peace can make us feel incomparably rich.
2。Expose personal relationships and hide an inferiority complex
Many people like to post photos of themselves with celebrities and celebrities on social platforms, or show their interpersonal networks to show that they have rich network resources and extensive relationships.
But excessive display actually exposes one's inferiority complex and vanity. Because a confident person does not need to flaunt his relationship and identity all the time to show his self-worth.
Relying on famous people to boost one's image is just a false self-promotion. A person with connotation should rely on his own ability and character to win the respect of others.
Having a wide range of interpersonal relationships can certainly bring certain convenience in life and career.
But the real value should be our help and love for others, not the quantity or scope of the relationship.
If we rely on vain connections to cover up our psychological emptiness because of some kind of inferiority, we will never be able to get inner peace.
Because this dependence is destined to be fragile, it cannot bring us true confidence and ease.
On the contrary, when we learn to accept our imperfections and develop our own independent personality; When we genuinely help others without expecting anything in return, our hearts will be filled with love and positive power.
This power will allow us to gain lasting self-confidence without the need for external recognition.
3。Intimate feelings, craving attention
Today, many couples like to show their affection in the circle of friends, sharing intimate ** or text between the two to show how sweet and happy they are.
Behind it is often a need to be noticed and recognized.
Some people are eager to gain the envy, blessing and recognition of netizens by showing their love, which can satisfy their vanity.
However, excessive disclosure of one's private life may not only lead to the privacy of the other party, but also arouse the disgust of others.
A mentally healthy person will follow the so-called "eight-fold" principle to find a balance that can not only show the state of life, but also protect their own space.
Loving someone should not be an existence that needs to be recognized by the outside world.
If our emotions need the approval of others to gain meaning, then it loses its original purity and serenity.
In fact, the insecurity hidden under the surface happiness is the underlying motivation for excessive affection. We crave affirmation and attention to compensate for our inner loneliness and weakness.
But true power should come from within, not from within.
When we learn to love ourselves and accept everything we have, we can find the strength to be independent and self-reliant, without the approval of others, to prove our worth.
Let's leave a true love for our loved ones, not just show it to the screen. The most precious things in life are often the most secret and mysterious.
Preserve the pure inner garden of that side and enlighten the possibility of life.
The ultimate meaning of life is not achievement, money or status, but the hearts of people we have helped, inspired and warmed.
When we are no longer driven by superficial vanity, but instead seek the true nature of life, we are able to enter the place of inner tranquility.
There, we can live confident, courageous, and loving lives with inner strength, without the need for external recognition.