The lives of adults are relatively trivial, and they will also be a little busy.
Busy making a living, busy coping with a lot of things.
No one is so easy, it's just that, although they will be busy, they will not be occupied by busyness, they will still have their own time and space.
To feel yourself, to have some leisure, to manage some relationships.
Among them, there are always people who say that a person always says that he is busy, and he will not look for himself once a week, ten days and half a month.
In this regard, busyness may be true, but it is not possible to be so busy.
No one will be so busy that they won't have time to reply to messages, and no one will be so busy that they won't have time to find you all the time.
It's just that I don't want to look for it.
A girl, after someone else introduced her to a blind date, although the first day was a working day, they chatted quite warmly, and said goodbye to each other and said good night after chatting.
It's just that immediately after, the other party didn't look for her for more than ten consecutive days. Fortunately, she didn't take it too seriously and didn't think it was very suitable.
I thought that it would be the end of each other's here, but just when she was about to forget about the other party, the other party appeared again, and said that he wanted to meet her, saying that he was too busy before, so he didn't look for her or anything.
In a situation like this, I may be busy, but I definitely don't want to look for it, and I don't have that kind of mind in my heart.
Basically, if you don't have anything to do with a person, and you don't have a certain relationship, you just get in touch for a while, and then the other party doesn't look for you, which is actually because the other party is not very satisfied, and there is no urge to continue.
Because I don't have that kind of thought, I don't take the initiative directly, and I just spend all my time on myself.
Either it will just disappear like that, or one day it will be boring, there is no choice, and you will be forced by the people around you, and then it will appear again, at this time, busy is often the best excuse.
It seems that as long as you say busy, you should be understood, there should be no objections, and a busy word should be able to cover up all the blanks.
Faded, no thoughts.
It's not familiar, it doesn't matter, some people won't look for you.
Sometimes, even if you are in a relationship and are obviously lovers, the other person will still treat you like this.
In the past, you would look for each other many times a day, but since when you take the initiative, the other party will also take care of you a little, but if you don't take the initiative, the other party will never take the initiative to send you a message and take the initiative to ask you to meet.
Between you, only you are the only one left, even if you work hard, but the other party still just seems cold.
Obviously they are lovers, but the other party always seems so strange, and the person who was not busy suddenly becomes always busy with you, which often means that your relationship has begun to have problems.
Because the feelings have faded, I don't like it anymore, so I don't miss it anymore, and I don't want to go to you anymore, even if I sometimes think of the time to get in touch, I can't lift it at all, think about it or forget it, I don't think it's necessary.
Maybe you are still struggling to support yourself, but the other party has chosen to stay away and no longer cares about your relationship.
Therefore, if you take the initiative, you can also perfunctory you, if you don't take the initiative, you can also live when you don't exist, just live how you should live, and still live your life rhythmically, it doesn't matter what you think and how you feel.
Tired, too lazy to take care of.
Between husband and wife, it sometimes seems to be the same, there is no communication and exchange between the two people.
I don't know how the other party is doing recently, what they are going through, but they don't take the initiative to find each other.
Long-distance couples are like this, even if they are couples living together, many of them are the same, which is incomprehensible.
When the husband and wife are so happy later, they are cold to each other, and they are only indifferent, which is naturally abnormal, and it is often a problem in their relationship.
After going through so long together, I think about it, there have been a lot of contradictions and quarrels in the past, not only that, but those grievances have probably not been well resolved, but they are getting deeper and deeper, so that each other is disappointed and there is no expectation.
As a result, people who were originally very close to each other began to become too lazy to pay attention to each other, just solve their own things, dissolve their own feelings, carry their own problems, and deal with them themselves in the future.
Don't dare to count on it, and it will not have any good results at all if you go to the other party, and maybe it will only make it more difficult for yourself.
Such two people, either they plan to make do like this in the future, directly accept their fate, and take care of their own affairs, or they are actually competing, first have a buffer, and then wait for each other to come to the end.
No matter how busy you are, you won't snub someone you care about very much, someone you want to go on with.
After being busy, after work, and when eating, I always take the time to find each other to maintain a relationship.
Occasionally, if I'm too busy, I always explain it first, and it won't just disappear.
You will treat your cherished care in the same way as others do.
Therefore, when a person is always telling you that he is busy, when a person is not looking for you at all, when a person seems to be non-existent, you don't have to be stupid to have expectations and keep making excuses for the other person.
It's really reluctant, you can go for it, try to reconcile, and don't let yourself lose easily.
Everything that can be done has been done, the other party has always been like this, since the other party is very busy, then let the other party be busy, you should also have a new plan, should have a new life.
Text: Tan Meng.
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