A person's life is determined by himself.
In life, no matter what happens, you can't ignore your own thoughts, and you have to understand that every step you take needs to take your own risks.
For example, when filling in the college entrance examination, we should first choose the major we like and the city we yearn for, and then listen to some other people's opinions and synthesize them.
What kind of work you face after graduating from university life is something you need to carry.
For another example, if you marry someone who will accompany you through the rest of your life, you should choose what is suitable for you and what you like, rather than blindly following the opinions of family and friends.
Whoever you are comfortable and happy with is with whomever you want, and there is no need to compromise on everything.
However, in this world, there are many women who are very soft-hearted, extremely jealous and tolerant of the people around them, and always understand the difficulties of others.
That is to say, I would rather wronged myself than let others feel bad in their hearts.
Such a person sounds very selfless, but he is also very stupid, and he is embarrassed and embarrassed everywhere in his life, and even a little breathless.
Tired? Of course tired!
Why are you tired? It was caused by oneself. In other words, if you cherish yourself as much as you tolerate others and know how to consider your own feelings, you will not be able to live so tired.
Whoever thinks from his own point of view in advance, should focus on his own comfort and happiness, and remember that there is nothing wrong with loving himself.
A woman who lives transparently, has done this".BearishI hope you are too.
Some people appear in your life, only temporarily, in layman's terms, just for a while, and will not be with you for long, and it is only a matter of time before they leave.
So, whoever shows up, you have to accept that he might leave you.
After all, you can't be sure who will be with you for how long, you can only judge his feelings for you by getting along, so as to determine whether he wants to accompany you or stay away from you.
Having a relationship does not mean that it will last forever and will never be separated.
When a man chooses to leave you, you have to be sober: no matter what you do, you are doomed, and he cannot love you and treat you as a treasure as before.
He turned away, making it clear that he didn't want to go in the same direction as you, and you should thank him for that.
Because he takes the initiative to let go, you can see his mind clearly, you don't have to dig out the love from your heart and lungs, and at the same time, you will be free to find the right person in this life.
Therefore, we should be more bearish, and we should really think about it, do not continue to pay for the impossible, and do not put hope on the impossible people for a long time.
How can success be so easy?
When you see others achieving achievements, don't be envious, let alone hate, and think about using crooked thoughts to bring a certain amount of influence and torture to the other party.
The reason why others have it is because others have always worked hard, done a lot of things, suffered a lot of hardships that you did not eat, and shed a lot of sweat and tears.
Therefore, to see a person's success, you can't just look at the surface.
An excellent person must have something shining in him, which is worth learning from.
If you know how to appreciate and learn, you have surpassed most people, and if you work hard, your life will definitely develop as you expect.
Moreover, on the road of growth, we should not care so much about the result, don't be happy when we get it, and be like a resentful woman if we don't get it.
You have to remember: as long as you work hard, be worthy of every minute, and don't have a bad attitude, then your life will definitely be wonderful, and you must not be worse than others.
Not all people are suitable to be friends, and in layman's terms, the people you meet may not become friends, or even dislike each other and become enemies.
No one can make everyone like it, can't be a good friend with everyone, and can't have too many friends.
When it comes to making friends, we shouldn't take it too seriously, don't always think that having one more friend is of great benefit to us, and don't treat everyone as a friend.
When you find that the other party is very perfunctory to you, or always uses words to yin and yang you, most of the time it makes you feel uncomfortable and has a sense of suffocation, don't be difficult for yourself.
If he treats you like this, it means that he treats you as a joke, and if you show up in his life, then you will always be a clown, and you will be bored with yourself.
Since you can't be friends, you don't have to embarrass yourself.
Whoever gets along happily and has a sense of comfort, you will have more contact with whom, and you will feel a loss when you get along with whom, and you will feel very sad in your heart, so you will cut off contact as soon as possible and no longer contact.
Summary:
No matter what time it is, you must never forget who you are living for, what is the point of your work to make money, and how you should please yourself.
Others are always others, and no matter how good you are to him, it is not as good as being good to yourself.
Spend the time and money spent on others and on yourself, and you will find that you will not only be less tired, but also get more respect and satisfaction than ever before.
Loving yourself is the most important thing and the most important thing that cannot be ignored, remember.