If a mountain is bare and unremarkable, it has no ornamental value; On the contrary, it is the kind of mountain peaks that are "horizontally seen as peaks on the side of the ridge", "thousands of walls standing", and are steep and peculiar, which is the most beautiful scenery, and it is "infinite scenery in the dangerous peak".
Life, how can it not be like this. If life is dull and mediocre, like boiled water, life has no meaning and value.
On the contrary, the kind of life full of ups and downs, ups and downs, tribulations, accidents, disasters, misfortunes, joys and sorrows, is like a "steep mountain", and from then on it has the meaning and value of life.
A political leader's political frustration and failure are the ridicule of others and his own humiliation, and some leaders are discouraged, angry, sad, and angry. In fact, that kind of "scenery and scenery" is not something that ordinary people can enjoy. There are brilliant political achievements, but in the final analysis, they are expected and unremarkable; encountered "Waterloo", with great ups and downs, but it is a steep scenery that ordinary people can never experience.
Tribulation, suffering, indeed torment; But from another perspective, it's not a beautiful sight. How can a boy with fine clothes and fine food experience that "feeling"? If Confucius hadn't been "doomed to Chen, trapped in Cai", and had tasted the sadness of the world and been displaced, would he have been able to form Confucianism? If Cao Xueqin's family had not decayed or raided her home, would she have been able to write "Dream of Red Mansions"? If Lu Xun hadn't been in decline and being looked down upon, would he have reached such a height of thought? Therefore, tribulation and suffering are actually a cup of sweet wine, and many people can't taste it if they want to.
Poverty is not necessarily a bad thing; Many young people in need are troubled by poverty and are depressed. Because of "poverty", you know the taste of hunger and see a different scenery, you ask Yuan Shikai, who died of overnutrition, "What does it feel like to be hungry?" "He never knows. Therefore, from a certain point of view, poverty is a good thing, but don't feel inferior, self-despise, and self-inferior, but try to make a fortune and change your situation.
There are many people who are bankrupt and in debt, and some people have completely given up and got by. However, "debt" is also a kind of scenery, and ordinary people can't look at it if they want to "see". The collection of creditors is exhausting; The indifference of the departure of relatives and friends and wives makes all thoughts discouraged; Heavy debt, desperate to think about. However, "putting it to death and then rejuvenating" is not so cold and fragrant? A beggar, a homeless man, a person who picks up rags, we respect him, but they will not be "in debt", so debt is also a kind of "ability" and "ability", at least, he is a person with ideals, but the method is not appropriate, the ideal is not realized, but the debt. The feeling and mood when you are in debt are like being in the middle of a steep mountain, as long as you don't despair and the sky falls, there is a way.
Career, academic, and emotional failures; If you don't get into college, you want to commit suicide; Break up and fall out of love, and want to commit suicide... Such an attitude towards life is too unambitious. What is the success or failure of a moment? Not to mention that young people have a bright future and look forward to everything, even if they are in their twilight years, they are completely knocked down and there is really no chance to turn over, what is it? At least, "appreciated" such beautiful, precipitous landscapes and scenery and knew what failure was all about. Coptis chinensis is very bitter; However, have some people ever tasted the taste of Coptis chinensis? The person who has tasted the taste of Coptis chinensis is the happiest person.
Even, being beheaded and sentenced to death is also a peculiar scenery. Like Tan Sitong, who was taken to the entrance of the vegetable market and beheaded, he finally felt that "he had the intention to kill the thief, but he had no power to return to heaven; Die a well-deserved death, quickly, quickly! "If you sit in your study and shake your head and read a dead book, how can you feel like this? There are also Xia Minghan, Qu Qiubai, Ji Hongchang, who can write the "righteous poem" before being killed? Because there is no immersion at all, there is no feeling of that situation. If it is a robbery fraud and a death sentence, it is dishonorable; However, if in order to pursue the eternal justice, truth, and freedom of mankind, like those revolutionary martyrs, then this is a "well-deserved death", a "hero of the world", and a "dangerous scenery" that ordinary people can never experience.
Don't be afraid of tribulations, sufferings, calamities, misfortunes, failures, difficulties, pressures, because they are actually good things that make us see a different landscape. On the surface, difficult failures are indeed a bad thing; However, in the long run, in substance, it is not necessarily a bad thing. At least, let us appreciate the "precipitous" scenery of life; People who "stretch out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food" may not see such a scene and scenery.
Since suffering, calamity, and failure are unavoidable and destined to be given, why not welcome it with open arms? Mr. Zhang Chengzhi said in "History of the Soul" that there is a sect of the Hui people, called "Zhehe Renye", because of the cruelty and suppression of the Qing Dynasty, so the "Zhehe Renye Sect" simply pursues death, pain, misfortune, and disaster. When encountering death and misfortune, I feel great joy, which is the embodiment of the value of life, and the light of life bursts out at that moment.
We should learn this spirit, not be negative, fearful, or afraid of things, and meet the misfortunes of life with a positive attitude, instead of being depressed, depressed, sad and hopeless.
Life has both sweets and bitterness, happiness and happiness, as well as pain and misfortune, and it is better to think about life badly than to subjectively only think about sweetness and not face bitterness. In this way, when disaster comes, there will be "psychological preparation" and less painful, pessimistic and panicked.
When one thing happens, it's a "good thing"; Even if it is a disaster, death, sickness, or disability, what if it has already happened? Will time be turned back? Will the Earth be "turned upside down"? Instead of feeling sorry for yourself and complaining about others, it is better to face it bravely.
If you can do this, you will be strong and courageous. If not, the misfortunes of life will still befall mercilessly; It's just that they will be knocked to the ground by the calamity and completely collapsed.
Therefore, with a mood of "seeing the scenery", take the initiative to meet the storm on the road of life. In this way, it is easier and detached.