Shared by: Wu Guimei.Hello everyone, I am Wu Guimei from Nanning. I am grateful to my mentor Mr. Bao Fengyuan, the wise and generous Mr. Zhaohui and all the family members who have traveled all the way, and I am grateful for my willingness to take action to learn and improve with my husband.The journey of life wisdom growth:
The 90th issue of the first order, the 47th issue of the second order, and the 24th issue of the third order.
"The 20th stage of the first order, the 16th stage of the second order, and the 6th stage of the third order.
The fourth phase of "sustainable development" and the fourth phase of "clear vision".
The day before I left for Sanya, Senior Li Xinping, as usual, sent a message asking me if I had any questions that I needed to feedback to the class, and I thought to myself, I am going to study, and what can I see in the classroom is what I should consider. So I replied to my senior: there is no specific problem, just to study.
At the beginning of the course, Mr. Bao Fengyuan asked us:What is "discernment"? I also wrote a very high-dimensional answer: see heaven and earth, see all beings, see your own nature. Writing is writing, but I know very well that my heart does not understand the deep meaning between the lines.
I thought, I can't see myself, what if I see heaven and earth? Teacher Bao saidThe first half of our life is to cultivate relationships, and the second half is to cultivate freedom. I also thought that my life relationship is like a ball of rice paste, where does it come from? So I'm looking forward to how Mr. Bao will take me to see myself and how to have the urgency of freedom.
The next lesson begins with "Mind-to-Heart". On weekdays, I often hear family members say these four words, but I only understand the literal meaning. In the past, I thought of the idea as planning and preparing first, and then executing the result.
But after the guidance of Mr. Bao Fengyuan, I understoodAt the beginning of each of our thoughts, the result is there, and all we do is see and experience the process. In this way, every time we find a problem, we always look for the cause and correct the process in the process, but we always can't solve the problem from the root, so we have been plagued by similar problems that occur again and again.
In this way, weThe most fundamental thing is to hold on to good thoughtsOnly then can we activate our good thoughts and get the results we want. The reverse is the same logic, if we don't protect good thoughts, then every thought we have will have the opposite result. Therefore, if you think about many things, what you want in your heart is often different from what you see, and the result is naturally not what you want.
I finally understood that it was because our initial thoughts were impure and unkind from the beginning, and that there was no right or wrong result, it was all the result of our thoughts. I get it tooThe true meaning of altruism: first there is spirit, then there is matter; Altruism first, self-interest later.
Teacher Bao Fengyuan guided us to reinterpret the "document package" found in the first-order course of "Wisdom of Life". We first interpret and experience the events at that time in a positive way, and then interpret and experience them in a negative way. When I interpret my "document package" positively, I feel that there are grievances, complaints, and many dissatisfaction with my father. After the reverse interpretation,My inner feeling is very touched, very warm, and I am full of gratitude for my father's strict discipline back then.
I pushed back the "document package" step by step, until I saw my inner stubbornness, disobedience, confrontation, and willful temperament. I've been reminiscing about my past experiences since I can remember, and I've found that every time it's because of my own willfulness that I messed things up.
Because of willfulness,was beaten by his father countless times and scolded until he was older; Because of willfulness,I didn't read the books well, and the teachers who used to teach also said that I was very smart, but I was disobedient; Because of willfulness,From the beginning of entering the society, he endured all the hardships, and he did a good job, but in the end he was denied by the leadership, was excluded, and was defeated repeatedly;
Because of willfulness, marriage and family relations are made like battlefield-like survival modes; Because of his willfulness, he has affected many people who are related to him up and down every time, and has brought many adverse consequences to his family, relatives, company, and team.
In the past, when I was younger, I would say at every turn: "Lao Tzu is gone!" "I was happy, but I cheated the people around me who trusted me. It turns out that this is my natureSquander a lot of good things with willfulness. Before, I couldn't figure out why I was like this. Is it that I don't work hard? I'm working hard to be a person, but why don't I feel a little light? I've been so confused for half my life!
At this moment, I want to thank my teacher for his guidance, and I finally understand myselfWhat you cultivate in this life is surrender! Smoothing out the "willfulness", starting from learning the spirit of altruism, and nourishing the heart of compassion bit by bit.
Finally, I would like to say thatI also saw the mental needs of my husband. Before, I never wanted to know what kind of person he was, and I didn't want to know about him, feeling that I didn't need to know what he was, and I felt that he couldn't do anything like me anyway.
I am very grateful to Mr. Bao Fengyuan for his order, he told me to slow down, wait for Mr., listen to him more. Teacher Zhaohui said, Mr. is a BMW, and if I use this BMW well, I will be more relaxed. I'm very grateful to God for matching me with this BMWI used to be arrogant and couldn't see the existence of my husband, but now I see that we are the best complementary, mainly because he is making up for all my shortcomings.
In the past, I always blamed him for pulling me back, but now I see the truth, it is a gentleman who keeps pulling me, so I won't fall into the pit. I'm very grateful that I can see clearly in this life and understandThere is no right or wrong in the past, everything is the law of balanceThanks to Mr. Bao Fengyuan for giving me a good prescription, let me firmly believe that I will not be confused anymore, believe in the power of belief, and let myself cultivate unlimited freedom in the second half!