There are many reasons why the book "The Courage to Be Hated" should be recommended. First of all, it is based on the ideas of Alfred Adler, a master of psychology, Adler, the founder of individual psychology and a pioneer of humanistic psychology, who had a profound influence on Western psychology. The book unfolds in the form of a dialogue, making otherwise esoteric psychological and philosophical issues accessible and understandable. It not only analyzes the root causes of various troubles in life, but also provides countermeasures to solve them1.
In addition, the book is discussed in an argumentative manner, which convinces the reader more of the theory by showing conflicts and contradictions. It is the underlying logic of life, not just providing some superficial skills or methods. The book not only talks about theory, but also emphasizes the relationship between theory and reality, and provides practical solutions1.
The Courage to Be Hated also emphasizes the important point that all troubles stem from relationships. The book mentions that people often lose their freedom because they live in the expectations of others for fear of being hated by others. Adler believed that in order to achieve true freedom and happiness, one needs the courage to face the dislike of others and learn to separate the issues of life, not to interfere with the problems of others, and not to allow others to interfere in their own issues. Such separation helps to unravel complex interpersonal threads and find one's place and sense of belonging2.
Overall, this book is not only suitable for general readers, but also for professional counselors. It provides readers with a new perspective that helps people understand themselves and face life's difficulties in order to achieve personal growth and happiness.