Life needs to be sensitive to every favorable moment, otherwise you will miss the opportunity and leave a lifetime of regrets. When the rich man announces that he is about to feast on guests, a clever bachelor discovers the opportunity like a cat with a keen sense of smell.
He did not hesitate, let go of his fear, took the initiative to go to the banquet, and boldly welcomed this opportunity. At the banquet, the rich man hit him off at first sight and directly recruited him as his son-in-law.
How did this bachelor grasp this wonderful life encounter?
A dinner that had to be attended: After Lu Gong was retaliated against by the enemy, he took refuge in the county magistrate of Pei County, who was close to him. In order to show off his majesty and face, the county magistrate held a grand reception banquet and invited local tycoons and officialdom colleagues.
The invitation to the county order is undoubtedly a signal, and some people in the county have also begun to try to take this opportunity to approach and win over the county order to reserve contacts for their official fortune. This dinner is not only a new starting point for Lu Gong, but also a small test for the county order in the officialdom.
Liu Bang is a pavilion chief, although he has an official position, but his wallet is empty. He always wanted to visit Lu Gong, but he couldn't go to see him because of his tight money. However, when he heard that Gong Lu was going to hold a banquet, he realized that this was a rare opportunity.
He wanted to make himself more lucky by attending this banquet and building relationships with people with heads and faces. In addition, he felt that he did not have enough strength to visit the county order and Lu Gong alone, and the large number of people invited to this banquet was suitable for him to fish in troubled waters.
In the end, he didn't want to miss the opportunity to eat. So, he pretended to attend a banquet that he was not invited. When he arrived at the scene, he breathed a sigh of relief, because he found that the person in charge of the reception turned out to be his good **.
Xiao He's words were heard by Lu Gong in the house, thinking that it was a VIP coming, and immediately came out to greet him. Xiao He, who received him, saw the warm welcome of Lu Gong, so he kindly reminded him: "Liu Bang likes to exaggerate when he speaks, please bear with me." ”
However, Duke Lu turned a deaf ear to Xiao He's warning, and instead warmly received Liu Bang. Lu Gong has a unique eye for people, and he did not look down on Liu Bang today because he has no achievements.
This time, Liu Bang came not to eat, but to expand his social circle. In order to realize our ideals, we must expand our circle of friends and find a social circle that suits us, which is the first step to success.
Of course, in order to improve social efficiency, we also need to distinguish useless social interactions and actively avoid them, so as not to waste time and money, or even affect our mood.
The rich man personally arranged the marriage between the bachelor and his daughter, not on a whim. Lu Gong, who usually likes to show people's appearance, saw Liu Bangyingting's appearance, and decided that he was different from ordinary people, and he would definitely do something in the future.
Lu Gong, who had a thought in his heart, ignored his wife's opposition and his daughter's wishes, and directly confessed to Liu Bang: I am willing to marry my daughter to you. After Lu Gong returned home, he was reproached by his wife: You often praise your daughter for being special and should marry a nobleman.
The county magistrate's family is close to us, he once took the initiative to propose marriage but did not agree, but now he easily marries his daughter to a pavilion chief. Lu Gong replied confidently: You don't understand what this is, believe in my physiognomy technique.
Born from the heart"The views of the ancients do not completely determine a person's future, and modern people have a broader vision. Face reading is a reflection of our personality and life situation, people with good faces are more likely to make a good impression, while people with poor faces may make people feel uncomfortable.
Physiognomy is not the same as wealth, the key lies in how we live and with what kind of mentality we face the hardships of life. So, let's live with a positive mindset and let physiognomy be a manifestation of our personality rather than a determining factor in wealth.
Lu Gong took a fancy to Liu Bang at a glance, and the reason was not limited to his physiognomy. As a pavilion chief, although he is not wealthy, he also has a certain social status. His circle of friends is rich or expensive, which shows his unique vision for expanding his social circle.
The people of that era lived in hardship, but it was also an era full of opportunities for those who had insight. Liu Bang is a person with a sense of mission of the times and good at seizing opportunities.
He knows how to seize the moment and create better opportunities for himself. One person's power is limited, but with the support of the circle of friends, he can achieve great things. Before ascending to the throne, Liu Bang already knew how to make friends with heroes all over the world, gather all kinds of heroes around him, and work together for a goal.
As a leader, Liu Bang's future is limitless.
The Liu Bang clique had a wide social base, and they were good at judging the situation and seizing the best opportunity in the turmoil and strife, and finally established the national government. In a seemingly unattainable dinner, Liu Bang won a new opportunity in life.
The road of life is tortuous and needs the help of nobles. As human beings, friends are the precious treasure of our life, they lend a helping hand when we are in trouble and bring us new hope; Give strength and transmit positive energy when we are lost; They share wisdom and broaden our horizons; They are like life coaches, helping us to become enlightened.
The more friends the merrier, and I sincerely hope that we can all make more mentors and friends.