The profession of an actor does not rely on hard work alone to succeed, but also needs the blessing of opportunities.
Many excellent actors are facing such a situation, and their acting skills are superb but their reputation is not high.
Those who work hard will always usher in their own spring.
Actor Sui Junbo is well-known to the audience for her role in "The World", and finally she waited for this opportunity.
Many viewers who like her can't help but care about her private life.
Only then did she find out that she had a relationship with Jin Dong.
When Sui Junbo was born, he happened to encounter the reform of the factory.
Unfortunately, her parents were laid off.
In order to continue her life, Sui's mother set up a stall in front of the textile factory every morning to sell breakfast, and went to the hotel to clean people's houses in the evening.
My father drove a taxi day and night.
They don't want to make more money, they just want to earn it.
Because they knew that the Sui family was in difficulty, their relatives extended a helping hand.
Sui Junbo had no money to pay for school, so his aunt and uncle took out their savings for her to study.
You know, in those days, there weren't many rich people.
The economic conditions of the aunt and uncle are similar to those of the Sui family, but even so, they are still willing to do their best to help the Sui family.
At that time, when Sui's father was holding the money given by his relatives, tears of emotion fell: "If I make a comeback in the future, I will definitely not be able to lose everyone." ”
Looking at such a moving scene and feeling such a warm family affection, Sui Junbo made up his mind: "When I grow up, I want to work hard to make money to repay my aunt and uncle!" ”
With such ambition, Sui Junbo began to study hard.
In addition to reading, she also learned dance.
At that time, Sui Junbo went to practice dance every day after school, and went home to do his homework after practicing dance, and he didn't have time to rest at all.
Seeing their daughter working so hard, the Sui family's parents were relieved and distressed: "Child, we know that you are sensible, but you should also pay attention to your body and rest more." ”
It doesn't matter, I can fight again. ”
Sui Junbo didn't listen to his parents' persuasion at all, and plunged headlong into the ocean of learning and couldn't extricate himself.
At that time, Sui Junbo was only 10 years old.
It is said that opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared.
After graduating from middle school, Sui Junbo was admitted to ** Minzu University with excellent results, majoring in dance.
At that time, Sui Junbo was already slim and became a big beauty.
Seeing that his daughter had grown up, Sui's father set a rule for her: "Don't fall in love until your job is stable." ”
Their family was originally more traditional, and Sui Junbo's university was still so far away from home, Sui's father was afraid that his daughter would be deceived, so he set this rule.
Don't worry, I only have two things on my mind: learning and making money. ”
At first, Sui Junbo didn't think about falling in love, all she thought about was to repay her aunt and uncle.
Because practicing dance requires controlling her body, she does not eat staple foods for half a month, only vegetables and fruits.
Sometimes hungry eyes are black before daring to eat an egg.
Later, when practicing dance, Sui Junbo often fell, and his legs were full of black and blue.
Once, she accidentally hit the glass while dancing, and the glass shards directly scratched her hand.
The doctor originally wanted to give her stitches, but Sui Junbo was afraid of leaving a scar, so he endured the pain without stitches.
Even then, she kept dancing.
At that time, the teacher also advised Sui Junbo: "You are injured, just rest for a while." ”
It's okay, my hand hurts, but my leg is okay and I can still jump. ”
If it had been on other people, he might have given up this profession a long time ago, but Sui Junbo didn't.
She never cried out of pain, nor did she complain of any bitterness.
In Sui Junbo's eyes, after the bitterness is over, the sweetness will come.
That's just the way it is.
In 1998, Sui Junbo was recommended by the dean to appear on the big stage and became the C heroine of the Tibetan dance "Cradle of the Cow's Back".
Later, she was also admitted to the performance department of the ** Drama Academy.
In this way, Sui Junbo went from a simple dancer to a full-fledged TV actor.
That year, Sui Junbo was 20 years old, which happened to be the age when love first opened.
This time, Sui's father reminded her again: "You are not allowed to fall in love until your job is stable, and if you want to talk to someone, you must pass my level." ”
Sui's father is protecting his daughter in his own way.
But this can't stop fate from coming.
When he first entered the Chinese opera, the first person Sui Junbo noticed was Jin Dong.
At that time, Jin Dong was relatively mature, and his voice was also very calm.
So Sui Junbo thought he was a teacher, so she hurriedly stepped forward and asked, "Teacher, where is the girls' dormitory?" ”
Jin Dong was stunned for a moment, a hint of consideration flashed in his eyes, and he spoke: "I'll take you there, and I'll help you get the luggage." ”
After speaking, he took the initiative to take Sui Junbo's luggage and walked towards the girls' dormitory.
At that time, Sui Junbo still thought: "This teacher is so good. ”
Who knows, when she entered the class later, she found that Jin Dong was sitting on the seat.
At that time, Sui Junbo knew that Jin Dong was not a teacher, but his classmate.
You weren't a teacher, why didn't you make it clear at the time? Sui Junbo walked up to Jin Dong and said with a little annoyance.
Jin Dong looked at Sui Junbo with a smile in his eyes.
I saw that you were very skilled in calling me a teacher, so I was embarrassed to interrupt you. At that time, Jin Dong was still young and had a naughty personality.
Looking at Jin Dong's appearance, Sui Junbo was really angry.
She felt that this man was very fond of taking advantage of small advantages.
So after that day, Sui Junbo didn't talk to him anymore.
originally thought that these two were just passers-by in each other's lives, but they didn't expect that in a part-time job, the two met again.
Because of poor family conditions, Sui Junbo has always been in a state of work-study.
She found a waitress at a restaurant near her school.
At first, Sui Junbo thought that the whole class was working part-time, but she didn't expect that in this restaurant, she met an old acquaintance, Jin Dong.
Jin Dong's family conditions were not very good since he was a child, and his parents didn't take much care of him.
So his food, clothing, housing, transportation, including tuition, are basically earned by himself.
Seeing that Jin Dong was also working as a waiter and working part-time, Sui Junbo was very surprised.
I didn't expect you, a 'little teacher', to work here. Sui Junbo teased Jin Dong.
Jin Dong responded to her joke with a smile: "I didn't expect you, a 'primary school student', to also work and study." ”
Because of this experience, Sui Junbo and Jin Dong have a lot of common language, and they have become a pair of happy enemies.
Whether it's at work or at school, the two either tease each other or joke when they meet.
At that time, many classmates saw that the relationship between the two was so good, and they were interested in matching them.
Feelings are such a thing, sometimes they really can't stand the coaxing.
The people around him coaxed and matched, and Sui Junbo and Jin Dong really became a couple.
At that time, Sui Junbo had already left behind the rules that her father had set for her.
When he was a freshman or sophomore, Sui Junbo and Jin Dong still had a close relationship, because the two years of study were not too heavy.
Later, in their junior year, both of them started filming.
In 2001, Sui Junbo starred in two dramas "Starry Sky of the City" and "Asking for Love" in one go.
Both dramas have no less than 20 episodes, and filming one will take three or five months to stay in the crew.
On the other hand, Jin Dong is the same, he first starred in the TV series "Five Color Field" and then participated in the ** drama "Fruit Girl".
Although he is not as busy as Sui Junbo, his work tasks are not small.
Couples need to maintain their relationship often, and their young couple has been separated for a long time and can't see each other, plus it is inconvenient to play ** every day in the crew.
In this way, the relationship between Sui Junbo and Jin Dong became more and more distant.
But at that time, the two of them hadn't thought about breaking up.
Until one time, Sui's father went to visit his daughter at school and overheard that his daughter was in a relationship with a boy named Jin Dong.
At this moment, Father Sui's anger suddenly rose.
When he found his daughter, he was bitterly criticized: "How did I educate you before, didn't I say that I wouldn't let you fall in love?" The outside world is so chaotic, and you are so young, what if you are deceived and let me and your mother? ”"Dad, you take the matter of falling in love too seriously, and I'm fine now. ”
Sui Junbo felt that her father took things too seriously, how could she be deceived when she was a good person in school and did things in a down-to-earth manner?
Because the Sui family has a daughter, Sui Junbo, the whole family loves her very much, and they don't want her to be hurt in the slightest, and they can't do it if they are in danger.
You haven't experienced the test of society yet, how do you know how to fall in love, you hurry up and break up with that kid, I don't allow you to be together! ”
Sui's father didn't give his daughter a chance to refute, and left after saying this.
Looking at the back of his father leaving, Sui Junbo's heart began to waver.
She thought back to the days when she got along with Jin Dong during this time, and found that there was no passion between them, and sometimes they didn't talk a lot when they met, and they were even more ordinary than ordinary classmates.
Moreover, she will often film in the entertainment industry in the future, and her work may be busier than now, in this case, their relationship will only become colder and colder.
In that case, long pain is better than short pain......
In the college graduation season, Sui Junbo and Jin Dong broke up.
Although their relationship was already very cold when they broke up, after all, they had a relationship before, and there was not much contradiction between them, so Sui Junbo was still a little sad in his heart.
During that time, she was always unhappy.
Later, one day, when Sui Junbo was surfing the Internet, he saw the news that Jin Dong and Jiang Shan officially announced their love.
At that moment, her heart ached suddenly, and she felt like her things had been snatched away.
Her tears flowed involuntarily.
Others asked Sui Junbo what was wrong, she wiped her tears, and said with some frustration: "I feel like I missed a good person." ”
Sui Junbo is not a person who loves to entangle, now that Jin Dong has a new life, it is time for her to start a new life.
So she put all her mind on work.
From 2003 to 2007, Sui Junbo successively starred in dramas such as "** Day", "Starting Heaven", "Night Rain", etc., and she soaked in the crew almost every day.
In addition to filming or filming, even after filming so many dramas, Sui Junbo's fame has always been mediocre and has not made any waves.
Until 2008, Sui Junbo played the heroine for the first time and starred in the coming-of-age comedy "My Beautiful Boss".
In this drama, she plays two roles by herself, playing the role of a sister flower with different personalities.
At that time, when filming this drama, the director was still worried that Sui Junbo would not be able to play two girls with different personalities alone.
So he also persuaded Sui Junbo: "If you are struggling to act, just speak in advance, and we can find another actor." ”
As soon as he heard this, Sui Junbo immediately said: "I can do it, this is also a breakthrough for me." ”
After agreeing to play the two roles, she began to read the script all night to analyze the similarities and differences between the two characters.
Hard work pays off.
These two roles were played very well by Sui Junbo.
After the TV series was broadcast, she also received a lot of praise, and at that time, Sui Junbo's fame had just been opened.
And what really made Sui Junbo popular was a TV series called "Gang of Men".
This drama is played by Sui Junbo and the old drama bones Sun Honglei and Huang Lei.
She plays a free-spirited urban girl in the play.
The role played by Sui Junbo is very real, and it is very in line with the appearance that girls in the current society yearn for.
So after the show was broadcast, countless people became fans of Sui Junbo, and many people said that they would take the role played by Sui Junbo as a role model and work hard.
Sui Junbo finally became famous, her salary increased a lot, and her family conditions improved.
At this moment, Sui Junbo waited for too long.
She took out most of her savings and bought a house and a car for her parents, then for her uncle and aunt, and everyone who helped her.
At first, my uncle and aunt didn't accept it.
Later, Sui Junbo said: "We are relatives, I feel the love you have given me, and now it is time for me to repay you well." ”
Looking at this sensible child, my uncle and aunt were very pleased.
They didn't hurt Sui Junbo in vain.
Looking at the harmonious appearance of the family, Sui's father felt very warm in his heart, but there was one thing that made him very annoyed.
It's that her daughters are in their thirties, and they haven't fallen in love and got married.
Girl, now that you have a stable job, why don't you fall in love yet? Are you still angry with your father? ”
In fact, since Sui Junbo missed Jin Dong, Sui's father could see that his daughter was very unhappy during that time.
So he also reviewed himself.
I found that the older generation and the younger generation have different views, and they should not impose their own ideas on their children, and they should respect their children's ideas.
I know my dad is for my good, but I can't rush the relationship, and I want to go with the flow. ”
Sui Junbo's mind is all in his career, and emotionally she has already followed fate.
Seeing that his daughter was so uninterested in lifelong events, Sui's father began to get anxious again.
It was the father's fault before, but now you really should start a family, otherwise you will have another child when you are older, and your body will not be able to bear it. "Sui's father is worried about his daughter's health.
Sui Junbo understands her father's thoughts, but at the moment she feels that fate has not arrived.
If fate hasn't arrived, then look for fate.
Sui's father and mother began to frantically introduce her to her in order to let their daughter get married as soon as possible.
At the beginning, Sui Junbo's parents introduced Sui Junbo to a senior white-collar worker, commonly known as a "high-quality man".
The other party has a big oily hair, a pair of black-rimmed eyes, and then wears a serious blue suit, which is a bit like the cartoon Detective Conan.
Sui Junbo was stunned when he saw the other party for the first time.
Her first impression of him was not good, but politeness had to be there.
During the conversation, Sui Junbo always maintained a dignified and gentle demeanor.
At first, the two chatted okay, but then the other party said: "After marriage, I want to live with my parents." ”
As soon as he heard this, Sui Junbo's face began to feel a little wrong.
She feels that young people are more independent nowadays and want to have their own space, and she doesn't want to live with her in-laws after marriage.
Because children and biological parents will have conflicts when they are together for a long time, let alone living with their in-laws, there may be more conflicts.
Sui Junbo told the other party:
I don't want to live with my in-laws, couples need independent space, and this does not affect filial piety, even if I don't live together, I will treat my in-laws like my biological parents. ”
Distance produces beauty.
Sui Junbo and the high-quality man disagreed, and in the end, the two broke up unhappily.
After that day, Sui Junbo said to his parents: "Don't introduce me again, my own feelings are in charge." ”
Seeing that their daughter was angry, the Sui family's parents were also helpless, but they didn't want to give up.
So the old couple took Sui Junbo's agent for a meal, and asked the agent to introduce Sui Junbo to the object.
Because Sui Junbo has been filming outside for a long time, the people she contacts are only known to her agent.
The agent agreed to the request of the Sui family's parents, and began to look for a suitable candidate without Sui Junbo.
Finally in 2012, the agent found a very nice male.
The other party is a cutting-edge director, talented, and money, the key is that there are no scandals, and he has a good relationship with Sui Junbo.
found a suitable candidate, and the agent reported it to the second elder of the Sui family as soon as possible.
After all, he is marrying his daughter, and Sui's father has always been "tricky", as long as there is a little bit of badness, he is unwilling to let his daughter contact the other party.
Unexpectedly, this cutting-edge director happened to have an appetite for Shangsui's father.
Whether it is knowledge or character, Father Sui thinks this man is very good.
He immediately made a decision: "I just want this young man to be my son-in-law!" ”
Say it's too late, then it's too fast.
After filming here, the agent on the other side arranged for Sui Junbo to meet with the cutting-edge director.
Indeed, there is a father and a daughter.
Sui's father's son-in-law, Sui Junbo also took a fancy to it.
The two soon fell in love, and in 2013, they entered the palace of marriage.
Because Sui Junbo and the cutting-edge director are low-key people, their wedding scene was not made public, but it is said that the event was very luxurious, and Sui's father drank several glasses of wine excitedly.
Sui Junbo is a person who is willing to pay for the family, and after marriage, she originally wanted to be a housewife and take good care of her husband.
A year after her marriage, she gave birth to a daughter.
Although Sui Junbo did not give up her career for the sake of her family, she reduced her work and devoted more time to her children.
She educates her daughter, more of a free-range state.
Because of the ups and downs of childhood, Sui Junbo knows the importance of childhood to a child.
So she doesn't put a lot of pressure on her daughter, she just hopes that her daughter can grow up happily and healthily.
The daughter is impatient, Sui Junbo will not come up and blame, but let her learn to play the piano.
You can improve your skills and patience at the same time.
Perhaps it is precisely because of such a healthy education method that her daughter's growth path is very happy, and she has a good relationship with Sui Junbo.
Sometimes when I saw Sui Junbo staying at home for too long, I would urge her: "Mom, go back to work quickly, your work is also very important." ”
The husband also said: "I am in this family, I will take good care of my daughter, you can go and do your own business." ”
The sensible daughter and tolerant husband made Sui Junbo very pleased.
As of 2024, Sui Junbo has been married to her husband for 11 years, and her daughter is 10 years old.
The life of their family of three is not lively and vigorous, but it is definitely stable and happy.