Do you have a mobile phone or tablet in your hand?
Tired of each other? Don't do your homework?
Divine Beast "Home, your winter vacation getting along mode, are you okay?" Now you are "mother and son filial piety" or "look at each other and hate each other"? In fact, to build and maintain a good parent-child relationship, some tips may be able to help you.
This is especially important for primary school students, who lack companionship, are lonely, and have nothing to do at home, will soon be satisfied in electronic products, and it is easy to be inseparable from electronic products.
Take your children out for a walk during the winter vacation, so that they can open their senses and increase interaction in the natural environment; Even at home, parents can play some parent-child games and indoor sports with their children.
When taking away electronic devices, parents need to think more about their children: what can they do without their phones, tablets and TVs?
Parents need to guide their children in a timely manner, provide them with sufficient resources and activities, accompany them to explore fun, develop hobbies, and develop good habits. For example, make more full use of community education resources (such as libraries, museums, gymnasiums, science and technology museums, etc.), or activities that require hands-on work and patience to enrich children's winter vacation activities.
Please pay more attention to all kinds of activities around you, actively participate, so that children can experience fun in real life, and experience a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment, so that the attractiveness of electronic products to children is likely to be reduced.
The things your child is interested in, the animations they love, and the games they play can make you good friends who don't talk about anything. To be an adult who doesn't disappoint the fun, we only need to change our identity.
In such a conversation, will the child talk about his hobbies to his mother again? Probably not, she just thinks her mother is very unhappy.
The rustiness of the parent-child relationship is often in some "ruined" moments.
Some time ago, there was a more extreme case on the short ** platform - "My daughter made four dishes and one soup, and was blamed by her mother". * It was sent by the mother herself, and the general content was that her daughter made four dishes and one soup, but she felt that it was a waste, and said, "Am I going to praise you?" You've cooked so many dishes for me? How are the two of us going to eat now? So many dishes! * may only reflect a corner of the mother-daughter life, and we cannot judge this mother as "terrible" on this basis. But in terms of facts, her words and deeds at that time were really "disappointing".
"Not disappointing" is a kind of empathy ability, a decent and friendly mode of expression and getting along.
If you continue to talk like this, there will be more empathy between parents and children, and there will be more and more words to share.
Children are part of the family and are responsible for some household chores, such as sweeping the floor, drying quilts, and tidying up the wardrobe. This is also a necessary part of cultivating children's independent living ability and sense of responsibility. Use the vacation time to let children learn to cook and stir-fry, make dumplings, nail buttons, sew clothes, etc. Parents should be patient, do not substitute, but encourage. In the company of family, communicate moods, exchange life, and feel the harmony of family.
The growth of children's spiritual world needs the guidance and help of parents. When parents and children read a book together, it is easy for children to feel that reading is a very happy thing, and then they are more willing to read spontaneously. This holiday, you might as well talk to your children about the gains they have gained in the past year, the friends they have met, and the books they have read. Make a book list, find a quiet place, and read quietly together.
Every fulfilling holiday is a beautiful prelude to accumulating energy and starting a new stage. During the winter vacation, children's lives should also be relaxed, with a detailed plan and a clear implementation process and results. Let the children enjoy the warmth and companionship, gain confidence and growth, and end this pleasant and meaningful holiday!