Since Sister Shanglang became popular, Wang Xinling has ushered in the second spring of her career.
The song "Love You" spread all over the short ** platform, and the boys who Liu Genghong couldn't take it jumped Wang Xinling one after another, and even bought mangoes for him**, vowing to do it"You have one vote, I have one vote, and Xinling 80 can still dance".
Thanks to this wave of dividends, Wang Xinling's schedule is visibly busy, releasing new **, holding concerts, recording variety shows, ......
Especially recently on the stage of "The Sound of Life", Wang Xinling played very high-
The First Time I Loved" and "Eyelash Curl" are familiar memories to kill;
sang "Those Flowers" with Han Hong and reinterpreted the campus folk song;
Collaborated with the Erguna Band in "My Home", which brought people to the vast and vast prairie.
The career is proud, but the love field is disappointed again.
There is a song called "Insincere" in the new **, and the lyrics are written straight to the heart:"You keep saying you love me, but you give your promises to others.", can't help but wonder if Wang Xinling was deceived by a scumbag again.
Later, Wang Xinling responded to the breakup rumors at a public event:"My love life is sugar-free, and my work is full sugar".
He has broken up with Lan Weiwen, who has been dating for more than 6 years, and said that he is in good shape, and he has looked forward and walked forward.
But it's still a pityWhy is Wang Xinling always unable to escape the scum-sucking physique, and frequently stumbles in his feelings?
"Sweetheart Master".In the years when Wang Xinling became popular, he was catching up with the young generation of immortals in the Chinese music scene.
In particular, the competition among female singers is particularly fierce, Jolin Tsai, Stefanie Sun, Xiao Yaxuan, Liang Jingru, Zhang Shaohan, SHE, etc. have their own characteristics.
In such an unprecedented involution environment, Wang Xinling successfully survived.
There are many famous songs"Love You", "The First Time to Love", "Eyelash Curl", "I'll Be Good", "The Quiet Sea That Summer" ......
Popular all over the streets and alleys, KTV dominates the screen of the Divine Comedy, pick out any song and come out, it is a full-level memory kill.
can also afford to watch and act in a romance drama"The Wedding Dress of Heaven", "Smile Pasta" and "Peach Blossom Girl" were all popular hits, and countless people stayed in front of the TV and waited for updates.
Wang Xinling plays either a carefree innocent girl in film and television dramas, or a pearl held in the palm of her hand, with a smooth life and sweet love.
But in reality, she is a bitter haha.
Growing up in a single-parent family, I lived with my mother. Because of the divorce and the pressure, my mother suffered from depression, had a bad temper, and sometimes called Wang Xinling.
's mother has always had a dream of stardom, and she intends to train her daughter to make her debut, and let her sing and dance as a child star when she was in her teens.
Later, Wang Xinling proposed to go to Huagang Art School, but her mother didn't say a word and sold the car to make up for her tuition.
Huagang Art School is a well-known star-making factoryLike Lin Zhiying, Big and Small S, Aya, Wu Peici, Rainie Yang, Wei Ruxuan, etc., all started from here and started their star careers.
In 2000, Wang Xinling, who was in his third year of high school, was selected by the director who came to the school for casting, and played a cameo role in the TV series "The Car is Chasing", knocking on the door of the entertainment industry.
Soon became popular and popular, and her peers in the circle also praised her.
Lin Jiaxin said that she was cute and professional in acting; He Junxiang praised her for being very good at taking care of people; Competitor Zhang Shaohan also commented that she is straightforward and doesn't think too much.
It's just a pity that no matter how prosperous Wang Xinling's career is, he can't stop him from falling in love.
In the world of feelings, there is always a law:The better the girl, the more attractive the scumbag. Gillian is like this, and Wang Xinling has not escaped.
When he was 15 years old, Wang Xinling met his first love, Ou Dingxing.
She is sweet and fair-skinned, and her classmates at Huagang Art School call her"Milk".
Such a girl was dazzling in the crowd, and soon Ou Dingxing noticed her and asked for warmth.
Ou Dingxing is handsome, and he played Shancai's friend Chen Qinghe in "Meteor Garden", and he was sought after because of his likable personality, and he also filmed a few dramas after that, but they didn't make any splashes.
The reason is that the character is too poor.
One is that he is not emotionally single-minded, when he fell in love with Wang Xinling, he was teasing everywhere; The second is a bad reputation, and he has been accused of stealing motorcycles, notebooks, and selling fake shoes on the Internet.
At the age of 17, Wang Xinling, who made a guest appearance in "The Car is Chasing", fell in love with Fan Zhiwei, an actor in the same crew.
At that time, Fan Zhiwei was rumored to have had an affair with Xu Ruyun and Yang Yazhu, and broke up with Wang Xinling because of splitting his legs.
But self-proclaimed"Love spineless".Wang Xinling, blatantly violated the company's regulations not to fall in love, and has been dating him separately for nearly 6 years.
Such a humble didn't come in exchange for a long time, and he was stabbed in the back after the breakup.
He bluntly said that he had beaten Wang Xinling, and also said that Wang Xinling was not ** when he was with him at the age of 17, and he felt very uncomfortable.
At this time, Ou Dingxing jumped out to make up for the knife: Wang Xinling and himself were in love, and they only kissed, so it should be **.
In that conservative era,This incident dealt a great blow to Wang Xinling, who took the pure route.
It's a pity that after planting twice in a row, Wang Xinling still hasn't changed the habit of "looking for a man in the garbage heap".
After a few years, she fell in love with Taiwanese actor Yao Yuanhao again, and before she had time to enjoy love, she was put on the hat of "little three".
Yao Yuanhao and model Sui Tang have been in love for 7 years, during which they are divided into three parts.
The timing of Wang Xinling and Yao Yuanhao together is very delicate, the man thinks that the two have broken up, but the woman thinks that Wang Xinling has intervened and said her heart"It's like being cut by a utility knife. ”
In the face of **, Yao Yuanhao did not come out to clarify, and Wang Xinling was scolded bloody. The public's verbal criticism forced her to clarify with tears in her eyes:"I'm not a junior. ”
The Taipei Arena concert, which had already been scheduled, was also forced to suspend because of this incident.
Soon after the two broke up, Wang Xinling's private photos suddenly leaked on the Internet.
* The person is Yao Yuanhao, but he doesn't admit that he spread it, and then the haunting Fan Zhiwei jumped out again:"Some people's ex-boyfriends are always bad"., implying that Wang Xinling has a problem.
But wait, it seems that this sentence also scolds itself.
By the way, Fan Zhiwei's character is really not good, after Sister Wang Xinling Lang became popular, he rubbed the heat again: they are all swans.
But fate didn't like him eitherOver the years, he has lost his hair and baldness, his life is embarrassed, and his mental state is worrying, and he was photographed working as a waiter in a hot pot restaurant, which is also regarded as retribution.
It's just that poor Wang Xinling, every time a relationship comes, she is fully devoted, but she is bruised all over her body in the emotional world and disappointed again and again.
It must be admitted that Wang Xinling is a love brain.
Her career was trapped by the name of "Sweetheart Master", and the transformation was not smooth on the one handBut the bigger blow is that I met scumbags again and again, and my reputation was damaged.
It can be said that she is a typical slag-sucking physique girl.
She comes from a broken family.
My mother was pregnant unmarried, and she had already made an appointment for ** surgery in the hospital, but she temporarily repented and finally gave birth to Wang Xinling. After her parents divorced, she was forced to grow up and take care of her younger brother like a little mother, caring and thoughtful.
When I grew up, I used to arrange everything silently with my friends.
In love, she shows endless flattery, and the other party can make her very happy even if she just laughs. Behind the flattery, there is a curse that he has put on himself: "you are not worthy" and "you are not worthy".
The reason for this stems from the lack of unconditional love from parents in childhood, to the point of believing that you have to give to be worthy of love.
She desperately wants to be loved, hoping that someone can satisfy her emotional needs to make up for the regrets she once hadEven if the other party is scum.
is not only in the glamorous entertainment industry, we can see that big stars have such a lack of emotional pattern, and in real life, many girls are also trapped in the vicious circle of frequent encounters with scumbags.
The damage of the family of origin has been done, how can we change and repair our own wounds in adulthood?
First of allLearn to have the ability to be alone.
There is a very important criterion for judging whether a person has the ability to love, that is, whether he has the ability to be alone.
Do things that can give you energy first, enjoy your single time, study, travel, drink tea, and enjoy flowers, which are all good choices.
First get along with yourself and don't be afraid of loneliness, so that you can have the confidence to fight with the outside world.
Let go of the obsession in your heart to be loved.
Hoping to be loved, guarded, cherished, and held in the palm of your hand is actually a kind of servility. To be loved is not to love. To be loved is to be controlled.
Two-way love and active love are the processes that are carried out by oneself with a sense of control.
The second is to slow down the pace of loving others.
When love comes, don't be too quick to determine the relationshipGive yourself a buffer of a month or two to observe the other person's character and character.
Scumbags don't become scum overnight, and they usually always show clues.
If the other person is doing something that hurts you, don't rationalize it for the sake of maintaining the relationship.
You must firmly say "no" to all behaviors that will hurt you, vicious derailment, splitting legs, and staying away as soon as possible to keep safe.
The third is to praise yourself more and give yourself positive psychological hints every day.
When we grow up to be adults, we can become our own counselors. Give yourself encouragement and praise every day, and practice trusting yourself and believing that you are worthy of love. "I am loved because I deserve to be loved, not because the other person has given me a favor. I deserve to be loved, to be loved a lot. First, improve your evaluation of yourself and your recognition of yourself. ”
When you try to satisfy yourself over and over again, you no longer need to rely on others to fill you and satisfy you. Such a self becomes more and more confident, determined, and easier to get love.
Only in this way can you have a good relationship and the life you desire.
Finally, of course, I hope that all girls like Wang Xinling can save themselves, jump out of the cycle of fate, be treated gently by the world, and live a safe and happy life.
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