The old man's wedding**, kowtowing and calling his daughter-in-law's mother, the wife wants to divorce, and the father and son break up.
At her son's wedding, Bao Xia angrily recalls an incident that embarrassed her. Her wife, Wang Laohan, knelt in front of her daughter-in-law in front of everyone and called her mother.
The mediators were stunned by this scene. Since then, the son and daughter-in-law have never come home, and the daughter-in-law can't help but cry whenever she thinks about it.
Why did such an unexpected thing happen to this wedding? What is the reason for Wang Laohan's behavior? This has to start with Wang Laohan's request for help.
He is in his fifties and should have enjoyed the joy of family, but because of his son's marriage, he and his daughter-in-law had a lot of conflicts. Now, his wife is insisting on a divorce, and he hopes that the mediator will help with his wife's ideological work to stop the divorce.
In order to find out the truth, the mediator returned home with Wang Laohan, and found that Wang Laohan's wife, Bao Xia, was very disgusted with him, thinking that it was okay to have no man, but it was not okay to have no children.
Under the persuasion of the mediator, Bao Xia agreed to let Wang Laohan enter the home.
Wang Laohan was dissatisfied with the daughter-in-law his son was looking for, thinking that she was from a remote place and was not worthy of his son's marriage. The mediator asked the woman's mother, Bao Xia, for her opinion, and Bao Xia said that as long as her son liked it, she would support it.
However, Wang Laohan not only did not listen to the advice, but also frequently sent text messages to his in-laws to abuse them, and even his daughter-in-law would receive these messages on her mobile phone.
Wang Laohan's son is determined, he will not marry his girlfriend, regardless of his father's opposition, the two secretly held a wedding, Wang Laohan came to the door many times, and even ran to the woman's mother's house, hoping to stop the marriage, but in the end to no avail.
In order to make up for the family's regret about her son's wedding, Baoxia decided to hold another wedding for her son at home, and also to give her daughter-in-law a satisfactory answer. However, the development of events was unexpected by Bao Xia.
It turned out that Bao Xia's husband was "holding back his big moves" at the wedding, and when everyone was eating, he walked to his daughter-in-law and knelt down and called his daughter-in-law "Mom". When the mediators heard this, they all exclaimed in surprise and asked Wang Laohan for help if there was such a thing.
Wang Laohan admitted frankly, and said that he had told his son that if he insisted on marrying his daughter-in-law, he would call her "Mom" at the wedding.
Bao Xia is very disappointed and bitter, and her husband has behaved selfishly and stubbornly in the matter of his son, regardless of the feelings of his family, just to prevent the marriage. This makes Bao Xia completely disappointed in him and begins to have doubts about their marriage.
The mediator asked Wang Laohan why he opposed the marriage, and Wang Laohan replied that his daughter-in-law's mother's house was in a remote place, and even in their village, neighbors said that their family lacked heart.
The mediator then asked about his daughter-in-law's situation, and Wang Laohan said that she was the same, but his son was obsessed. Bao Xia thinks that these shortcomings are not a problem, she thinks that her daughter-in-law is very good, there are no shortcomings, and even showed the mediator her daughter-in-law's **.
The mediator praised the daughter-in-law for being very beautiful, with big eyes and double eyelids that were very charming.
Bao Xia praised her daughter-in-law for being more than 1.7 meters tall, outstanding in appearance, and a **. She felt that her daughter-in-law surpassed her son in terms of appearance and height, and she didn't understand why her husband had an opinion about her daughter-in-law.
The mediator asked Wang Laohan if he felt that his daughter-in-law was not beautiful, and Wang Laohan bluntly said that he didn't want to see Yan Ling's people, but the mediator believed that whether it was appropriate could only be used to speak with future facts.
Mr. Wang insisted that she would not allow her daughter-in-law to come to his house either.
Although the mediator tried his best to convince Mr. Wang, he always insisted that he was not at fault. Bao Xia said that it was because of her husband's stubbornness that she decided to divorce and showed traces of the smashed door.
She said that after marriage, her son and daughter-in-law did not go home to live because they were afraid of Wang Laohan, and later her daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, and Baoxia invited her daughter-in-law to come back for confinement in order to ease family relations, but she didn't expect Wang Laohan to still be stubborn, and smashed the door with a brick a week later.
Wang Laohan argued that he was drunk that day, no one responded when he knocked on the door, and no one answered the **, so he smashed the door in anger.
Because of her husband's words and deeds, Baoxia made her daughter-in-law unable to live at home with peace of mind, and finally was forced to go back to her parents' house for confinement. The mediator asked Bao Xia about the current situation of her son and daughter-in-law, and Bao Xia said that since that incident, her son and daughter-in-law have never returned, and the two will feel scared and uneasy when they mention him.
In order to end this painful married life, Bao Xia decided to sue the court for divorce and provided her son's ** as evidence. Xiao Wang said in ** that his father abused him, his mother and daughter-in-law on the street and scribbled on the door and wall, which made it impossible for them to live a normal life.
Xiao Wang added that as long as he didn't mention it, his life with his daughter-in-law would become peaceful, but as long as he mentioned it, his daughter-in-law would cry bitterly and her heart was full of grievances.
The mediator asked Xiao Wang if he was in ** now, and Xiao Wang replied that he was in Yanling. The mediator asked Xiao Wang if he could come back and talk face-to-face, but Xiao Wang refused without hesitation, claiming that he could not afford to provoke and could hide.
It can be seen from this that Xiao Wang still harbors a deep resentment towards his father. The mediator criticized Wang Laohan, as the head of the family, for only wanting to establish authority and not allowing others to challenge his dignity, while ignoring the feelings of his family.
At the same time, he also pointed out that Wang Laohan did not make the whole family live better, and this practice was too extreme and selfish. Hearing the mediator's words, Wang Laohan finally realized his mistake and said that he would ease the relationship with his wife first.
The mediator suggested that he apologize to his son and daughter-in-law, so that the father-son relationship might be saved. After hearing this, Wang Laohan nodded and said that he would take action as soon as possible.
Xiao Wang's parents did not approve of his marriage to his girlfriend, but he did not give up because of this. However, when he married his girlfriend and had a child, his father Wang Laohan began to object, and even sent abusive text messages to his daughter-in-law at the woman's house, and kowtowed to his daughter-in-law and called her mother.
This kind of behavior made Xiao Wang feel very embarrassed and painful, and also affected the reputation of the entire Wang family. Although Wang Laohan's behavior made Xiao Wang feel very dissatisfied, he did not resent his father because of it.
On the contrary, Xiao Wang chose to forgive Wang Laohan and tried his best to ease the relationship with his father. He believes that as long as they can communicate and understand each other sincerely, they will be able to repair their relationship and re-establish trust and love for each other.
For Xiao Wang, forgiveness is not forgetting, but accepting and understanding. He knew that everyone had their own shortcomings and mistakes, including his father. He chose to forgive because he hoped that he would be able to bridge the gap between them and allow them to rebuild their relationship, rather than allowing the mistake to continue to affect their lives.