When it comes to concentration, every child is actually innate. As a baby, you will find that the little baby will always stare at the mother in the mother's arms; When he finds out that he has feet, he can play with his feet for a long time; When he can sit up and play, he can hold a toy and pick it for a long time ......All of this shows that children are focused.
But as the child grows up, many times when his parents tell him something, he doesn't seem to be listening at all, and he won't take action after listening. "I feel like I'm playing the piano to a cow.
First, ask for warmth when your child is focused
Children actually have time to focus, focus on building blocks, and focus on hard thinking, but many parents always care about their children and always disturb their children in the name of "shushing the cold and asking for warmth".
If you want to see if the child is studying hard in the room, you will bring fruit to the child's room and take the opportunity to see what the child is doing. As soon as I made a delicious one, I couldn't wait for the child to eat it, and kept calling the child outside. If you feel that your child is tired from studying, let your child come out and rest for a while.
The child could have been very focused on doing things, but after being disturbed by his parents, his mind ran away and he wanted to return to a state of concentration, and he needed to adjust again. Parents interfere with their children for a long time, and children are always in this conditioned reflex and cannot calm down to do things.
Second, help your child control the time and urge your child to do things
Parents have a scale in their hearts, thinking that their children should complete their learning tasks early, and when they see that their children are not moving, they can't help but urge them to "do it quickly", for fear that their children will not do it or do it too late.
The child's mind is full of the urging of his parents, just like being on a "tight spell", his mood is anxious, his thinking and behavior are affected, and he cannot concentrate on doing things step by step according to his own plan.
I have also made this mistake, my child focuses on my urging, and it is difficult to concentrate on learning, and the learning efficiency and grades are greatly affected.
Give your child enough patience
Sometimes, we may shout many times and the child does not hear it, then he may be focusing on his own business, you might as well look for the child, see what he is doing, and use enough patience to tolerate the child's exploration behavior.
As mentioned earlier, whether it is to eat with your hands or sit on the ground and watch the ants, as long as the parents' affairs are not very urgent, it is best not to bother, because many excellent scientists and inventors have excellent concentration and like to observe things, so as long as the parents' affairs are not urgent, then let the child study more by himself and give him enough patience.
Put away your desire to control, give your child some opportunities to explore freely, and allow him to make mistakes
There are no principled questions, choose not to bother. Let the child do his own research and allow him to make mistakes, because this will allow the child to form accurate judgments about things.
If the problem of principle is wrong, it is necessary to discipline, but the judgment of any thing is to be slowly established by the child himself, and the strong desire of parents to control will prevent the child from focusing on his own things and unable to form a complete sense of self. So, allow your child to make mistakes.
For example, if a child is playing a puzzle and is putting the wrong puzzle on it, you can watch the child put it and wait for him to find the mistake himself, if he doesn't find it, you can ask the child: "Is this piece wrong?" Why don't you try this one? It's not just saying "this isn't right" to the child.
If you want to help him with his confusion, try to guide him. Allowing mistakes is allowed to let him know what is right. When you are guiding him, he can only do it right if he listens carefully, which is also cultivating the child's concentration.
Keep your child away from noise
Children have poor self-control and are easily affected by the surrounding environment, so when children are reading books or playing games, try to create a relatively quiet environment, and do not always interrupt children drinking water and eating fruits.
Studies have found that if children are regularly exposed to noise, it will not only affect their hearing, but also affect their concentration and even emotional development.
Improving concentration is a relatively common but very effective method. If a person can sit intently and read a book for 2 hours without distractions, then the effect will be higher than studying casually in the morning. This is because the focus gives the child a better memory environment.
Don't interrupt your child when writing homework, try to solve it at one time when you endorse it, don't procrastinate, similar practices are very common in life, but they are easy to be ignored by us.
Nowadays, many parents are focusing on cultivating their children's concentration, memory, etc., because memory, concentration and observation are important abilities for children's future learning and improving intelligence. It is very helpful for the child's future.
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