The case of 28 years of wrong life is also a case that occurred in Jiujiang and has a huge impact on the whole country.
I see:Xu Min had already gone to the highest level to appeal a few years ago, there are still many netizens on the Internet calling for the truth.
As a party who "changed his life for 28 years", the harm suffered by Xu Min can be imagined. The child he worked so hard to raise was not his own, and he died of illness.
The truth of the matter is indeed confusing and suspicious. The pursuit of fairness and justice in human nature also makes people have the impulse to pursue the truth.
I've actually been following this case for a long time. However,After 32 years, many truths will be annihilated in the dust and smoke of the years. It is even more difficult to find ironclad evidence。Then everything will look like a mess. So, I haven't followed the trend of reviews.
Is it a mistake or a steal exchange? It's a difficult question to identify.
If it is a mistake, the questioning and attack on Du Xinzhi will become a collective cyberbullying, which will make Du Xinzhi bear a lot of grievances and psychological pressure. So, there it is, tooShe would travel all the way to Jiujiang No. 3 Hospital, to find the events of Xu Min's unit theory.
The courts of both instances ruled that it was a "wrong exchange" and gave compensation to Du Xinzhi and Xu Min respectively. In other words, in the truth of the law, it is considered to be a mistake.
If it is a secret exchange, Xu Min will seek the ultimate truth and report to a higher department in accordance with the law, which has a certain meaning, and it is also her power.
However, the principle of the law is that "there is no doubt about the guilt". If there is no ironclad evidence, especially when the court of second instance has already made a judgment, netizens still want to attack Du Xinzhi, thenBecome unknown。Even if you have a lot of doubts, a lot of suspicions. Because those suspicions are often "".Plausible rather than absolutely
In other words, you can go further to seek support in the law, but you should not get caught up in cyberbullying and attacks.
What's more, this kind of attack is very difficult for Guo Wei to deal with. (I'm sorry, I don't know if his name is Guo Wei or Yao Wei now, if you make a mistake, please remind me to correct it.) ）
When we raise children in the world, we can get a glimpse of our feelings for our adoptive parents and our biological parents.
In psychology, a person will have more intimacy and identity with the person who grew up with him when he was a child, not just a blood relationship.
In other words, Guo Wei has a lot of memories in his mind when he was a child, Du Xinzhi grew up with him, and there are sweetness, love, and conflict ...... in his memoryThis is inseparable. These daily interactions and shared experiences will give him a sense of security, trust, and dependence.
Of course, Guo Wei's situation is not the same as this, the children he adopts are often abandoned or placed by his parents; Whether it was a mistake or a steal exchange, Guo Wei was unexpected.
ButExcept for the different motivations, Guo Wei's growth environment is the same as that of the children he adopted. There are too many similarities in his emotions and psychology
It's just that intellectually, ethically, he will be inclined to Xu Min. It will not be like an adopted child, who will often blame his biological parents. He has no blame for Xu Min. He will understand that this is force majeure.
But between him and Xu Min, there is still a lack of intimate contact, which brings psychological attachment and memory.
This may be a lesson they need to catch up.
Whether it is accusing Du Xinzhi or Xu Min, it should be something that Guo Wei does not want to see. In his heart, they all have their beauty.
If there is no ironclad evidence, with an obsession, to pursue the truth, or even attack each other, it is easy to cause Xu Min to lose points in Guo Wei's heart.
Many adopted children, when they grow up, will interact with their biological parents and adoptive parents, but they may be closer to their adoptive parents and will take on more responsibilities.
Guo Wei is different from adopted children, he is faced with a dilemma, especially his biological parents and adoptive parents, who are still attacking each other, and they are incompatible. How Guo Wei chooses is a test of his wisdom.
Focusing on the future, learning to let go, to make up for the attachment between Xiu and Guo Wei, and enjoying the belated joy of family love, may be the more important thing for Xu Min at this time.
Xu Min needs not only the truth, but also psychological healing.