In 1984, in "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" filmed by Taiwan TV, she was called "the most beautiful Zhao Min", * long and jade, heroic, bright-faced, handsome; ** Slender posture, bright eyes, picturesque eyebrows, clever smile.
However, can you imagine that she would have a very miserable childhood?
Some people have been suffering from childhood all their lives, and a broken family is enough to ruin a person's life.
Liu Yupu, born in a military family, and has two brothers, thought that as the youngest daughter, she would be cherished by everyone at home, but this is not the case.
My father was an officer and had a strong sense of dominance, and he made everyone have to listen to him, and he said everything he could.
Since she was a child, she has seen other people's children coquettish with their fathers and let their fathers hug her, but Liu Yupu has never experienced it, she knows that she has no status in this family, she feels that she must be not beautiful enough to be well-behaved, so her father will not love herself like other fathers.
When she was young, her father joined the army and her mother had to work, so she was sent to her aunt's house for foster care, but her aunt's personality was similar to that of her father, and she was very strict in her work, she was only 5 years old at the time, and the long-term pressure made her more and more withdrawn.
Later, when she was finally taken home by her parents, she happily packed her luggage, and all she fantasized about was the joy of going home, but she didn't expect that this was just the beginning of a nightmare.
If his father was not satisfied, Liu Yupu would be dragged to the bathroom to strip naked and be beaten, and his mother ignored this "education" choice. It's not just as simple as beating up, Liu Yupu later recalled:"When I was taking a shower at home, I was not allowed to close the door, and my father would come in at any time, kiss him, insult his innocence, and stick him at the slightest resistance. "
From beginning to end, the mother was silent outside, she was afraid of her husband, and she did not even dare to protect her weak daughter.
In order to get rid of his inhuman father, Liu Yupu resolutely left home and went to work and study, for today's children, he doesn't understand anything at the age of 10, which shows how difficult Liu Yupu's life was at the beginning.
Fortunately, God gave her a delicate and beautiful face, and she entered the showbiz through a chewing gum advertisement very early. Later, through the opportunity of Shaw Brothers to recruit actors in Taiwan, Liu Yupu became a contracted actor and entered the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
When she first entered the Shaw Brothers, Liu Yupu became a "beating girl" and went through the motions in martial arts films, and was later played by the great director Zhang Chexiang in "Magical Powers and Little Overlord", and the heroine Ye Qinghua of the heavyweight film "Three Breaks into Shaolin" in the history of Hong Kong kung fu films.
In 1984, Liu Yupu returned to Taiwan to develop and starred in the well-known Taiwanese version of "Heaven and Dragon Slayer".
The male appearance of "Zhao Min" in the play is eye-catching, and his cold facial features and tough eyes have become an unsurpassable existence in the later remake of "Zhao Min". also made Liu Yupu famous and a smash hit.
In the face of the rolling applause, flowers and money, Liu Yupu, who has been very inferior since she was a child, began to panic, she felt that she was not worthy of these, and she couldn't bear everyone's enthusiasm for her with peace of mind.
In the religious activities again and again, she met the pastor Zhang Jianzhong, he is very patient, kind, he is willing to listen to all the confusion of Liu Yupu, the young pastor with love is like a messenger sent by God to save himself in Liu Yupu's eyes, giving her infinite love and protection, and the girl who has never had a sense of security quickly gave everything.
They soon got married, and Liu Yupu gave up everything to accompany her husband to the United States for further study at the peak of her career.
Even if everyone dissuaded her, they did not change Liu Yupu's decision, as long as she needed the love she needed most, she could give up everything else, just like that, she started to be a housewife with peace of mind.
In 1992, Liu Yupu gave birth to a daughter.
Liu Yupu devoted herself to her husband and family, but in exchange for her husband's increasing estrangement.
After that, there were contradictions, quarrels, and then the husband began to move, punching and kicking Liu Yupu.
Even if you're in a nightmare all the time, it's better than suddenly falling from a sweet dream to a nightmare. Liu Yupu seems to have returned to his childhood, being subjected to countless domestic violence by his father, and the long-lost fear firmly grabbed Liu Yupu again. She began to show symptoms of depression.
Liu Yupu had no choice but to go to a psychiatric hospital for medical treatment, but her parents and husband felt disgraceful because the society at that time had a deep misunderstanding of depression.
People began to talk about it, all kinds of gossip came everywhere, no one could understand, and no one stood up to speak for her, and the despair again and again made Liu Yupu have suicidal thoughts.
She couldn't bear this kind of torture, coupled with her increasingly severe depression, Liu Yupu didn't want to be a burden to her family, and she didn't want to see her husband and children suffer with her, so she took the initiative to file for divorce from her husband.
When her parents learned the news of her divorce, not only did they not understand, but they were punched and kicked again.
Fortunately, the two divorced smoothly, she was isolated after the divorce, there was no economy, her life was dark, at this time she thought of suicide again, she swallowed nearly 200 heart disease pills, and wanted to end her life. Unexpectedly, her parents looked at her in a daze, but they were still indifferent.
In her father's eyes, her life was very despicable, and in the end, her friends rushed to save her, and Liu Yupu, who saw through all this, was disheartened and broke off relations with her father.
After leaving home, she became more and more depressed, until she committed suicide many times in 09 to no avail, and finally swallowed drugs at home.
What's even more ridiculous is that Liu Yupu was not discovered in time after committing suicide, and Liu Yupu's body was found after a long time.
can imagine how chilling her family environment is, which can defeat a star with strong psychological quality.
As I write this, I am very saddened.
Psychologists say: "The family of origin is a person's fate, and a person is inextricably linked with his family of origin, and these connections will affect her life." ”
What kind of despair will make her choose to commit suicide again and again, if she doesn't love, why did she choose to give birth to her in the first place.
Just like the former hit drama "It's All Good", the damage brought to Su Mingyu by the original family can never be eliminated, even if Su Mingyu has grown up**, she still has no way to bravely express the love in her heart, she is afraid of stable and close love, because she has never gotten it before.
At the end of the article, I hope that every child can be treated well, and every marriage should be treated with caution.