Filial pietyAsChina has been up and down for 5,000 yearsHistorical significanceCulture, has always maintained a strong vitality. In ancient times,Filial pietyThe embodiment is not limited to the period of death, but also the filial piety of the deceased. Therefore, after the death of a loved one, people will follow the custom of "keeping filial piety for three years" to express their remembrance and nostalgia for the deceased. The ancients had a unique understanding of life and death, and these ideas and concepts have been passed down to the present day through ancient sayings. For example, "the deceased is great", "the earth is peaceful", "the fallen leaves return to the roots" and so on, these sayings represent the ancients' understanding and reverence for life and death.
After the death of the deceased, the portrait plays an important role and is often placed in a prominent position in the family to express nostalgia and remembrance of the deceased. However, with the changing times, people'sLifestyleIt has also changed. How to properly place and dispose of the remains has become an issue worth discussing.
1. Avoid placing posthumous images in the hall
In ancient books and folk traditions, there is a saying: "If you don't put the statue of your ancestors in the hall, you will lose your wealth and lose your wealth." The meaning of this proverb is that the statue should not be placed in the living room (hall), otherwise it will lead to alienation of people and loss of financial luck. We can understand the deep meaning of this sentence from the following three aspects.
First of all, as a portrait of the deceased, the posthumous portrait is used to remember and remember. Placing it in a hall will give the atmosphere a sense of seriousness and oppression. For visiting relatives, friends and guests, this atmosphere can limit their communication and association, giving each other an urge to escape. In the long run, it will lead toRelationshipsestrangement, work on the individual andlifeNone of them are favorable. Humans are social beingsAnimalsand only in good conditionConnectionsOnly in the circle can you give full play to your own value. On the contrary, ifConnectionsThe circle is alienated, and the resources for doing things will also be exhausted, which will eventually lead to a situation where "people scatter their wealth and lose their money".
Secondly, the living room is the common area of the family, where children often play and learn. If the portrait is placed in the living room, these children will be with it for a long time. However, children's minds are not yet mature and can have a profound impact on the black and white statues. In order to make the family more prosperous and for the healthy growth of the next generation, it is not possible to place a portrait in the living room for a long time.
Finally, the best way to get out of your grief is to let time fade into your memories. However, if the portrait is kept in the living room, the sad memories will always haunt the mind and cannot be shaken off. That's rightMental healthHarmful, affectslifeand the normal development of work, which may eventually lead to the occurrence of disasters.
To sum up, the correct way to dispose of it is to wrap the portrait in a red cloth and place it in a drawer or cabinet where valuables are stored. This not only expresses the nostalgia and respect for the deceased, but also fully considers the protection of the remains and the psychological needs of family members.
1. The historical evolution of the placement of the posthumous image
Initially, people placed the remains in the familyAncestral hallIt is a special and solemn place for the departed ancestors to rest and restSacrifice。However, the constructionAncestral hallIt requires a lot of money and resources, which is not realistic for the average family. Therefore, most people choose to place the statue in a room that is rarely used, such as a firewood room, a vacant utility room, etc. However, these rooms are often in an abandoned state, and placing the statues in them is not only disrespectful to the deceased, but also susceptible to moisture and growthBacteria
2. The use and meaning of red cloth
In order to solve the above problems, the portrait was wrapped in red cloth and gradually accepted by the people. Red has long been considered a symbol of good luck and festivity, as it can ward off evil spirits and absorb evil spirits. Wrapping the statue in a red cloth not only protects the statue from moisture andBacteriacan also convey respect and blessings to the ancestors. In addition, the red cloth also has a certain shielding effect, which can reduce people's direct ** to the posthumous image to relieve the sad mood.
In the issue of the placement and disposal of the statues, we need to respect traditional customs while adapting to the changes of the times and the psychological needs of individuals. As a remembrance and remembrance of the deceased, the statue needs to be treated properly. Following the wisdom and teachings left by our ancestors, we can wrap the statue in a red cloth and place it in a cabinet or drawer, which not only protects the integrity of the statue, but also takes care of the familyMental health
In addition, I think for filial pietyCultureWe should pay attention to the role of education. Through education and guidance, let the younger generation understandFilial pietyand translate it into concrete actions to promote the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. At the same time, it is also necessary to respect personal choices and beliefs, and express nostalgia and remembrance of the deceased in a diversified way.
In short, the placement and disposal of the remains need to take into account the psychology of family membersCulturebackground, but also need to adapt to the changes of the times. Respect and carry forward filial pietyCulture, which needs to be inherited and moderately adjusted and innovated. In this way, it can be better maintained and passed onFilial pietyCulturepower and vitality.