Controlling the dinner is an essential skill for professionals. The upper class strengthens the group's self-identity by organizing "high-end dinners". Compared with ordinary people's gatherings, what is the "high-end dinner" at**?
First, the identity of the crowd is high. Tickets to high-end dinners are not available to anyone, even if you have deep connections and a lot of money, but you don't have considerable social practice and cultural accumulation, it is impossible to step into the "high-end" threshold. The most significant feature of high-end people is that they are familiar with the mainstream social rules, and at the dinner table, they will never speak freely and make a big fuss, but speak softly, be courteous and courteous, take care of everyone's emotions, and listen to them talk, such as a spring breeze and drinking sweet rain, which is simply a kind of enjoyment. Confucius has a good saying, "If you don't know etiquette, you can't stand", if a person doesn't understand the rules of this era, he can't gain a foothold in society, let alone enter the high-end dinner of celebrities like carp.
Second, the content is high. Ordinary people get together, either to talk about national affairs, or to tell stories about the wind and moon, to eat gutter oil, and to the heart of Zhongnanhai, but they can neither tell profound insights nor unique views, at best, they provide some emotional value to satisfy their desire for expression and vanity. The high-end dinner often avoids the relevant topics of the mainstream society, usually breaks the topic with daily trivial things, sees the big and knows the small things, and only a few words hide infinite mysteries, which makes people feel stunned, and can't help but sigh that listening to your words and reading a book for ten years is better. In addition, high-end dinners also contain a lot of valuable information, which can point out the invisible way to people, promotion channels are often opened in high-end dinners, and wealth codes are often cracked at high-end dinners. 
Third, the bearing form is high. High-end dinner in a set of strict form to be realized, seating, drinking, toasting, circle have strict attention, a good dinner, the beginning and turn, step by step, like a movie, hearty, long aftertaste, without rich practical experience in the wine field and profound life experience, it is impossible to control this situation. If the low-level people take the liberty to participate in a high-end dinner, they will only expose their basic humanity in front of the high-level people, and they will look naked, which is really embarrassing. The high-end people are inconspicuous, sitting quietly in their positions and laughing without saying a word, and this confidence comes from being familiar with the form. 
Fourth, the dinner configuration is high. The high-end dinner may not be as sumptuous as the Manchu and Han banquets, but each dish is exquisite, refreshing and pleasant, and mellow, not too stimulating the taste buds, which is in line with the impartial and unequal golden mean, showing the gentlemanly style of high-end people. The wine used in high-end dinners is mainly vintage Moutai and Zodiac Moutai, which is aged for ten years, which is intoxicating. High-end dinners generally avoid the hustle and bustle of the city, located in the lake and mountains, winding paths lead to secluded places, once Hangzhou West Lake, how many pavilions and pavilions sing every night, drunk and dreaming of death, the rich are helpless, the poor are happy, Fangfei is withered today. A guide to finding a job in the spring