How do parents react to their child's school comments? Challenges and responses!
The role and impact of reviews.
The report sheet is a teacher's summary and evaluation of students' academic performance, and also contains parents' concerns and expectations for their children's learning and moral character. It is not only an affirmation of the child's efforts and achievements, but also a guide to the child's problems and development possibilities. Parents will have different expressions when they see their children's comments, ranging from relief and joy to disappointment and anger.
I have a student, Mr. Lim's son, who is gifted and excelling in his studies. Not only did he have excellent grades in all subjects and won many awards, but he was also a computer master, and his classmates jokingly called him"Game Terminator"。I am very pleased with these qualities of his. However, I am also a little worried, afraid that he will be too self-indulgent and always seek excitement. But I believe that if he can adjust his mindset and establish the ideal of pursuing excellence, he will undoubtedly achieve extraordinary results.
Sometimes, there are students who are very disciplined and act very energetic in class. For example, the students I teach are smart, handsome, have strong learning ability, and have stable academic performance. But at the same time, he likes to talk in class and often violates school discipline, which gives me a headache. Although the same table changed several times, but'The Prince of Talk'The name has never changed. I hope he will behave well in the new semester and abide by classroom discipline.
There is a particularly lively and cheerful student who is always willing to share his happiness with me, and he is also very serious in class. The seriousness of his studies can be seen in his assignments, and his ability to reflect on problems can be seen in his speeches. I admire his lively personality and strong sense of responsibility, and I hope he can achieve better results in the future.
Reviews of different genres.
There are many forms of comments: some teachers like to write comments in the form of ancient texts, while others use humorous language to describe the children's performance; Some teachers speak at length, while others are concise and to the point.
Some teachers like to use the ancient Chinese writing method to make the red treasure book give people a solemn and elegant feeling. For example, Lin Qingxuan's comments convey a kind of praise from the ancestors to the descendants, giving people a sense of traveling through time and space. These comments not only express the teacher's love for the students, but also reflect the teacher's intelligence and wisdom.
Some teachers also like to use humorous comments to make students feel relaxed and happy. For example, when evaluating a student who loves to chat, the teacher used:"Chatter little prince"This title not only reflects the student's chatty nature, but also eliminates his concerns about classroom discipline. Such evaluations are not only appreciated by the students, but also reflect the teacher's sense of humor.
Some teachers like to write long comments describing the strengths and weaknesses of their students, as well as their expectations and suggestions for the future. These comments give a sense of seriousness and give parents a more complete picture of their child's academic performance. While writing a long comment may require some effort on the part of the teacher, it can be a valuable reference for parents.
There are also teachers who prefer to make simple and concise comments, believing that a few words can summarize the performance and characteristics of students. No matter how concise, such comments accurately reflect the teacher's observations and evaluations. In a word", which is awe-inspiring.
Authenticity and selectivity of reviews.
The authenticity of the evaluation form has always been valued by parents. When reading the evaluation form, some parents may question its authenticity, believing that the teacher only writes about the positive aspects and ignores the negative aspects. However, we cannot ignore the intent behind the evaluation form.
These evaluation criteria are written by teachers based on their own observations and understandings, and based on students' performance during their time at school. Due to the length and format of the evaluation criteria, teachers may not be able to fully describe the questions asked by each student. Therefore, when teachers evaluate students' work, they often include students' strengths and achievements, not only ignoring students' shortcomings, but also encouraging and affirming students' efforts and progress.
In addition, teachers can also modify and adjust the evaluation form according to different evaluation criteria and requirements. For example, students in the first year of high school prefer to read evaluation forms with illustrations and ** because it is more in line with their cognition and interests.
Reflection synthesis. Feedback is an important part of home-school communication. Not only does it give encouragement and guidance, but it also gives parents a more complete picture of their child's academic performance. Parents should accept and respond to feedback rationally and calmly, do not exaggerate or deny, and strive to find out their own shortcomings and areas for improvement.
It is necessary to fully affirm and encourage the children's strengths and efforts, so that they can feel their own value and sense of achievement. At the same time, it is also necessary to clearly see the shortcomings and problems of children, and find appropriate ways and means to improve them, so that they can grow better in the future.
When teachers praise students, they try to pick out the positive aspects for praise, but this does not mean ignoring the students' problems. We need to trust in the professionalism of our teachers, understand the choices and compromises they make in their comments, and be inspired and inspired by them.
Finally, it is hoped that parents will take the comments seriously, listen carefully to the opinions and suggestions of teachers, and cooperate with teachers to promote the growth of their children. Only by working closely with each other and working together can children develop and grow in an all-round way, and can they become excellent and responsible members of society.