Introduction. We often hear the word "upbringing", so what is upbringing?
In fact, upbringing refers to a person's cultivation and self-cultivation. Well-educated people often have high quality, can abide by social morality, are very polite, and have self-cultivation.
Those who are uneducated, often show behavior that is very pompous and tiresome. When we interact with people, we should associate with educated and upright gentlemen, and try to stay away from uneducated people to avoid being influenced by them.
In ancient times, there was a word used to describe an uneducated person, which was very appropriate, called "outspoken", which means to speak very rudely, arrogantly and rudely.
Uneducated people are often very rude, showing that they speak very freely, often say some vulgar things, and behave without any rules, such as liking to suddenly pat others on the back or shoulder, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.
In the past, there was such a colleague in the company, he often spoke amazingly, and the words he said were very rude and direct, often exposing other people's shortcomings in person, and liking to mock the shortcomings of others intentionally or unintentionallyBut he thought that he was just straightforward and not malicious, but he didn't know that his behavior was actually very annoying, and it was also a sign of unculture.
Cultured people often speak in a very polite tone, never swearing, even if they are really unaccustomed to certain behaviors in their hearts, they will not complain wantonly, gentle and elegant, low-key and self-contained.
People who lack education have an obvious manifestation, that is, they like to complain.
In life, when working with colleagues and not doing well at work, the first thing is not to find the reason from yourself, but to complain that your colleagues are not doing well; If you lose the game, you also complain about your teammates' lack of strength, and you feel that your teammates can't operate and pit yourself, in short, others will always have problems.
People who are very resentful are especially fond of spreading negative emotions, and the people around them are easily influenced by it, resulting in a bad mood.
In fact, who will not encounter some setbacks in life and work, and will not empathize when encountering unsatisfactory things, but immediately blame and blame others, which will only lead to the corruption of their own popularity, unable to face their own shortcomings, and they will not make any progress.
Some people like to behave out of line in public, and these people are often uneducated, and they don't have any public morality.
For example, some people, when they go out to travel, obviously there are garbage cans around, they just like to litter in scenic spots, destroying the local sanitary environment; There are also some people who do not extinguish their cigarette butts when they take the elevator, and smoke in the elevator by themselves, endangering the health of their peers.
I used to work in Zhongshan, Guangdong, rented a house and lived in a community, the elevator clearly prohibits electric vehicles from coming in, it is clearly stipulated, but some people in order to facilitate themselves, especially like to put electric cars in the elevator upstairs, which is actually very dangerous.
Many people know that these behaviors are bad, but for their own selfish desiresFor the sake of one's own convenience, without the slightest consideration of whether or not to cause trouble to others, this kind of behavior is immoral and uneducated.
Those uneducated people in life, they are often self-centered and disrespectful to others, no matter how good you are to him, he will not take you seriously, and always put his own interests first.
For example, when you talk to someone and talk to him, he likes to interject, only cares about his own expression, and often interrupts others, which is very rude, in fact, this behavior is self-centered, which is a kind of disrespect for others.
In their eyes, there is no mutual benefit, they only care about whether they can get benefits, they don't care about the feelings of others, you help him, he won't be grateful, but will come over and bite you.
Of course, in the short term, such people may mix well in society at firstBut in the long run, such people will eventually be eliminated by society, because their essential character is not good, it is easy to offend people, ruin popularity, and they will not go long.
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