The girl killed her boyfriend, was violated and fell in love with him, Lin Yuejiao's case
Lin Yuejiao is a 19-year-old young woman who was assaulted by another man while working outside the home, but she did not choose to call the police and started a relationship with this man.
However, the man's rhetoric did not move her, but made her feel even more disappointed and hopeless. In the process, she loses so much but gains very little.
In the end, she chose to use a sharp dagger to pay tribute to her innocence. Her story makes people reflect on how we can protect ourselves from others violating our dignity and rights.
Lin Tao wanted to have another child, but Zou Xia disagreed. Although Lin Tao insisted and threatened to go bankrupt and give birth, Zou Xia was never pregnant. Lin Tao took Zou Xia to check around and took a lot of medicine, but it had no effect.
It wasn't until Lin Yuejiao was three years old that doctors confirmed that Zou Xia was no longer able to have children. Lin Tao was deeply shocked, and his gaze at Zou Xia became cold and even full of hatred. In Lin Yuejiao's memory, her parents' lives were full of stress and conflict.
Lin Tao often lost his temper with Zou Xia after getting drunk, and even beat Lin Yuejiao. This made Lin Yuejiao feel very painful, and she could only seek comfort in Zou Xia's arms.
Since then, the conflict between Lin Tao and Zou Xia has gradually escalated, mainly due to Lin Yuejiao. Lin Yuejiao spent her childhood in fear and didn't understand why her father hated her so much.
In her memory, what her father left her with were strings of chilling memories. When Lin Yuejiao was 13 years old, her father took all the family's savings, went into business with others, and left the family that existed in name only.
Lin Tao seems to have found a new sustenance, he put all his energy into business, is keen to go out to contact business, and constantly puts pressure on himself, so as to alleviate all kinds of pain "brought to him by his family".
In 1998, Lin Yuejiao was 17 years old and was already a sophomore in high school. At this time, Lin Tao had a certain economic strength, so he opened a plastic processing factory on his own, which caused a great sensation at the time, and Lin Yuejiao also became the focus of discussion among his classmates.
The classmates all knew that Lin Yuejiao's father was a great person, and guessed that Lin Yuejiao's family must be very rich. However, Lin Yuejiao herself knows that since her father had his own factory, his relationship with his mother has deteriorated even more and is irreparable.
Once, Lin Yuejiao learned from her mother that her father had given her mother an ultimatum asking her to agree to a divorce. In November 1998, Lin Tao and Zou Xia finally came to the end of their marriage because the emotional rift could not be bridged.
Zou Xia is a strong woman, she did not ask for property, not even child support, she only had one request: to award her daughter to her. Lin Tao did not completely lose his conscience, he offered to pay 50,000 yuan in living expenses to the mother and daughter at one time, and from then on "each lived his own life".
Lin Yuejiao, an ordinary girl with a story. The divorce of her parents brought her heavy study pressure, and she lost her name in the college entrance examination. Her mother asked her to repeat her studies for another year, and she had this idea, hoping to be named on the gold list next year, which would bring her a little comfort.
However, three months after repeating her studies, she suddenly learned that her father had remarried, and the woman was only three years older than her. The wedding was grand, and the whole city knew the news, and then various versions of the rumors "boiled" throughout the county.
Lin Yuejiao was under the pressure of gossip, and her words were terrifying, like a sharp arrow piercing her heart. She still insisted on repeating her studies, determined to realize her college dream, which belonged not only to herself, but also to her mother.
However, one day, when she was about to enter the classroom, she heard her classmates taunting her behind her back, and some even asserted that she would become a "problem girl". Lin Yuejiao couldn't bear such rumors anymore, she angrily pushed open the classroom door and left without saying a word.
This story teaches us that whether you are poor or rich, whether you are a single parent or a complete family, everyone has their own story and their own pressures and challenges.
We need to understand and respect everyone, and not judge and laugh at others lightly.
When Zou Xia heard that Lin Yuejiao was going to give up her studies for this, she understood her daughter's stubbornness, because she had been affected by the "cold war" between her parents over the years. She felt sorry for her daughter and felt a deep sense of guilt, and agreed to her daughter's request.
On March 17, 2000, Lin Yuejiao, under the guidance of her junior high school classmate Xiaojuan, came to Jinan and worked as a waiter in a fast food restaurant. Despite her busy schedule, she loves the feeling of being completely self-conscious.
Although she sometimes feels lost and desolate, she is content with her current life. She often thinks of her mother, and feels that as her mother's only flesh and blood relative, she has no reason to let her mother worry and miss her anymore.
19-year-old Lin Yuejiao came to Jinan, and she has become more mature in this new environment, with lofty ideals and goals. She knew that being a waitress was just a part of her life and that she needed to learn more skills.
In order to achieve this goal, Lin Yuejiao decided to learn computer science and asked her boss to approve her two-hour leave from 8 to 10 p.m. every night. Seeing her diligence and studiousness, the kind-hearted shopkeeper readily agreed and allowed her to leave the store at 8 p.m. every night.
In June 2000, when Zou Xia learned that her daughter was going to learn computer from **, her heart was full of joy, and she remitted 1,000 yuan from the post office to help her daughter pay for her tuition.
However, she did not expect that the heavens would bring her daughter a dark nightmare. At about 5 a.m. on August 3, 2000, Lin Yuejiao suddenly felt sick to her stomach.
Since there was no toilet in the store, she had to go to the public toilet on the street. She vividly remembered that it was just dawn and a little gloomy. As she walked out of the women's restroom, a man suddenly jumped out of the men's restroom, grabbed her by the waist and fell to the ground.
Before she could shout, the other party had already taken out a greasy towel to gagged her mouth, then jammed her neck with one hand, and the other hand scrambled into her skirt.
Lin Yuejiao was violated by Li Zhen, a chef who had come to Jinan to work, and she fell into deep pain and confusion. Whether to report to the police or not put her in a dilemma, she was afraid of ruining her reputation, and she was even more afraid that her mother would be sad when she found out.
In order not to make her mother sad, Lin Yuejiao decided to bear everything silently. However, Li Zhen continued to entangle, trying to get close to Lin Yuejiao. At a place where Lin Yuejiao was learning computers, Li Zhen followed her until she finished studying, and then appeared in front of her in pretended pain.
Lin Yuejiao slapped him angrily, but Li Zhen took out his own slap and slapped himself, scolding himself while beating. Lin Yuejiao looked at him indifferently and didn't say a word.
After more than a dozen slaps, Li Zhen let go of Lin Yuejiao's hand, quickly pulled out a dagger from behind and stabbed it at his left arm, bleeding red blood.
Lin Yuejiao was stunned by the scene in front of her, everything happened in a few seconds. In a panic, she subconsciously took out her handkerchief from her bag and bandaged Li Zhen's wound by magic.
Faced with this situation, Li Zhen's tears flowed down and he poured out his love and deep guilt to Lin Yuejiao. He told her that from the first time he met her, he had fallen deeply in love with her.
What happened in the early hours of that morning was because he was impulsive and didn't control his feelings, which caused harm to Lin Yuejiao. His heart was full of guilt, and he was even willing to seek Lin Yuejiao's forgiveness by self-harm.
Lin Yuejiao's heart was touched by Li Zhen's so-called "true feelings", especially his unexpected expression, which made her feel an indescribable touch. In the face of Li Zhen's "bloody confession", although Lin Yuejiao did not immediately promise anything, in her heart, she had forgiven him.
After that, Li Zhen seemed to have obtained a "gold medal" pass overnight that could approach Lin Yuejiao in a bright light, plus they lived in the same alley, people began to think that they were in love.
There was a little sister who said enviously to Lin Yuejiao: "Your boyfriend is so good, he comes at least twice a day and brings you a lot of delicious food." What a blessing you are! ”
This made it difficult for Lin Yuejiao, who lacked father's love since childhood, to find a reason to refuse all this. After openly establishing a relationship with Li Zhen, Lin Yuejiao knew that he was also from a county called Dingtao County under the provincial capital, and was three years older than him.
There is a reason for the existence and development of feelings, but the outcome is unpredictable.
On the eve of the Mid-Autumn Festival in 2000, Li Zhen asked Lin Yuejiao to take her back to her hometown for her parents' "approval". Although Lin Yuejiao felt guilty in her heart, because she didn't tell her mother the truth, but said that the store was busy and couldn't go home, she still agreed to Li Zhen's proposal and returned to Li Zhen's hometown together.
However, after Li Zhen's parents saw Lin Yuejiao, although they did not explicitly express their opposition, their attitude was not enthusiastic. After spending the night at Li Zhen's house, Lin Yuejiao returned to Jinan with guilt.
Soon after returning to Jinan, Lin Yuejiao began to notice some subtle changes in Li Zhen. He came to her less often, and stayed shorter. In the past, Li Zhen often brought some good things to her from the hotel, but now this kind of care has gradually disappeared.
When these changes became more and more obvious, Lin Yuejiao decided to ask Li Zhen for the reason. One night, Lin Yuejiao asked questions repeatedly, and finally Li Zhen vaguely told her the truth.
It turned out that Li Zhen's parents were very dissatisfied with Lin Yuejiao's sudden appearance. They told Li Zhen that as a chef, he should be patient enough to wait, choose carefully, and at worst he can't find a small waiter to make do.
Li Zhen's parents' opposition made Lin Yuejiao feel disappointed and frustrated, but she decided to stick to her feelings and not be affected by outside pressure.
Lin Yuejiao was sad and indignant when she heard about this and asked Li Zhen if he had informed his family about the incident. Li Zhen denied it, and said that his parents' views could not represent his intentions, and he would be good to Lin Yuejiao as always in the future, until the two got married and grew old together.
Lin Yuejiao believed his words, but from his wandering eyes, she seemed to see an ominous omen. So she decided to observe for a while to see what was going on. One night in early October 2000, Lin Yuejiao learned from a little sister that she saw Li Zhen hurrying south on a bicycle.
Lin Yuejiao did not hesitate, and immediately rode after him. Out of the alley, Lin Yuejiao saw Li Zhen's figure. She decided to remain silent and quietly observe. After the two rode for about five minutes, Li Zhen stopped at the gate of a small park, took out a large paper bag from the basket and ran to a girl, as if he had been waiting for a long time.
After the girl took the paper bag, she slapped Li Zhen with a pink fist. Lin Yuejiao saw everything, she ran over quickly, snatched the paper bag from the girl's hand, opened it and saw that it contained all kinds of food that Li Zhen had given her.
The angry Lin Yuejiao picked up the paper bag and smashed it in Li Zhen's face, then hid her face and cried, deciding not to look back.
Lin Yuejiao decided to have a showdown with Li Zhen, but Li Zhen quibbled that he had no feelings for Lin Yuejiao, and his parents also objected and proposed to break up. Lin Yuejiao was extremely angry after hearing this, and said that she would sue Li Zhen**.
Li Zhen said with a hippie smile that he had been in love with Lin Yuejiao, and even if he had sex, it could only be regarded as adultery. After speaking, Li Zhen left, and Lin Yuejiao cried alone.
Lin Yuejiao was disappointed and hated by the selfishness and irresponsibility of men, and decided to negotiate with Li Zhen for the last time. If she doesn't get the answer she wants, she fights back.
On the night of December 8, 2000, Lin Yuejiao came to Li Zhen's dormitory alone with a prepared dagger, and the two talked until one o'clock in the morning, Li Zhen had no remorse, and the desperate Lin Yuejiao took advantage of Li Zhen's unpreparedness, stabbed him in the heart with a dagger, and then fled.
Lin Yuejiao, a young woman who has been followed by the audience, because of a tragic incident, she transformed from a victim to a criminal, which also brought people deep thinking.
This incident is not only deeply heavy and worrying, but also gives people a deeper understanding of her biological parents, Lin Tao and Zou Xia. In an interview, Lin Tao said that as Lin Yuejiao's biological father, he had an unshirkable responsibility for this tragedy.
He admitted that he was influenced by feudal ideology and did not fulfill the responsibilities of a father, and was ashamed of his ex-wife and daughter, and also said that he would do his best to hire the best lawyer for his daughter and try to reduce her guilt.
Lin Tao's face was full of remorse and pain, and it could be seen that he deeply regretted his past actions. Lin Yuejiao's mother, Zou Xia, did not put the blame on anyone in an interview, nor did she complain about her daughter.
She just kept lamenting that her life was miserable, and her daughter was even more of a miserable person. Her voice was full of exhaustion and deep sorrow, showing the helplessness of a mother after all her hopes were dashed in an instant.
Although Lin Yuejiao was sentenced to life imprisonment and deprived of political rights for life, her experience is a wake-up call for us to realize the dangers of feudal thinking and the importance of education.
We should respect every life, respect every individual, and avoid tragedy.
From ancient times to the present, people have always looked forward to being able to raise children and inherit their ancestors. However, there are still some people in modern society who adhere to this feudal mentality. Lin Tao has been looking forward to having a son to make his life more meaningful, but when he witnessed the appearance of his daughter and the bloody case she brought her, he realized that what can really bring happiness is eternal love based on self-esteem, self-respect, and self-love.
In addition, this case is a reminder that those who play with their feelings are very likely to end up being consumed by the hatred they have planted.