During this time, the dismissal ceremony will award certificates to outstanding students, and primary and secondary schools will immediately start a happy winter vacation life. As a parent, are you satisfied with your child's grades?
My child's Chinese is okay, but his math test is not ideal, so I chose to take the initiative to communicate with my child and discuss it. What's the problem? Did we not memorize what the teacher taught, or did we not do it seriously in the process of doing the questions?
The child is also cooperative, and after discussing with me, he said that he will do his winter vacation homework seriously and will be more serious in doing the questions. Then I said that I was tired and wanted to take a bath.
I had to go and put the water in and the child went in for a bath. When I was still outside reflecting on whether I had done the right way to educate, she was already singing in the bath. It doesn't seem to have affected my mood.
My friend is also facing the situation of the child's unsatisfactory grades, she said that she was angry that she didn't eat at noon, and she wanted to communicate with the child when she went home, but the child seemed unwilling to talk to her.
Are you experiencing any of these issues? How did you solve it?
Personally, I think it is necessary to communicate with the child in a calm mood and tone, and discuss carefully and listen to the child's opinion. Avoid accusations: Not studying hard? Isn't it sloppy and so on?
Don't question and question your child. Every achievement has something to affirm and find the merits. Affirm the child's dedication and efforts, find out the problems encountered together, and discuss a good solution to solve it. Reflect on your own ways when your child is reluctant to communicate with you. Educate people to meet a better self.
In the end, as it is said on the Internet, "He just didn't get a few questions right, and he didn't make any big mistakes." No matter what achievements should not shake the love of parents for their children, we should accompany our children to grow up and move forward together.