Britain's Prince Harry's recent visit to his father, Charles III, not only seems to have annoyed him, but also left him scalded by boiling water from a family feud.
Jane Moyle, a critic of the British Royal Broadcasting Corporation and a well-known baked biscuit fan, recently published a rather inflammatory comment in the British "Daily Mail", saying that during the mourning period after the death of the Queen of England, Harry had taken a plane to visit his sick father 5,000 kilometers away, which was undoubtedly a self-inflicted act. But whose lives does the Duke of Sussex hope to save? What about his father, or his own?
Moyle describes a couple of sons who met in a hurry, and after only half an hour, Harry was chased from the palace gates, and his English brunch was not even cold. "It's incredible," our correspondent asked, which family would be willing to meet for such a short time.
Her answer was that the family was still scarred by past feuds, and one was afraid that if they sat down for tea again, the old feuds would be rekindled.
In reality, Prince Harry must have been a little unhappy with his father, as he had been visiting the organization he was currently in for several years. Moyle was right, after a series of attacks from the Prince, how could the court's advisers not have doubts about his purpose?
As Prince Harry said, this apology is a sincere act of mediation to repair the relationship with his grieving father? Or is this just an attempt to save face, to secure King Charles's throne again in the royal family's "piano seat" game? It was their first brief meeting after Harry's exile to California, suggesting that the court was still concerned that the fugitives would try to dig into the family's secrets again.
So, although Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's family were expecting their tea party across the continent to ease the conflict between the two, the fact that the situation was made even worse, which made Prince Harry's face very ugly, and he was not willing to let him stay by the fire for a long time.
Of course, without a full understanding of the entire background and complex psychological pressures of the parties, it is easy to push the blame far away. In the process of losing his beloved mother and inheriting the throne, King Charles must have felt weak, and he wanted to keep his family in front of the public. At the same time, Prince Harry has blatantly dislodged from his company, and it's hard to expect him to embrace him again in one night, or to leave the royal family freely.
With entire families struggling with grief, transition, and managing injuries, such a volatile situation, if not handled well, can have unintended consequences. Before the relationship is fully developed, perhaps a short meeting is the best way to avoid more damage.
There's a good saying: time is a painkiller. We only hope that the scars left by the past conflicts between Prince Harry, Prince Charles and the "British royal family" will slowly heal with the passage of time. Again, contact is done gradually and carefully, and to calm down new problems before pouring them out.
Although mediation required restraint, sincere effort and patience on both sides, the family's cohesion was of great benefit, as Harry showed when he strolled with Prince William, a brotherhood that filled the grieving nation with hope.
If you do it correctly, maybe when you visit the patient again in the future, there will be no new burns, and the old ones will finally heal. As the days passed, the wounds healed, and perhaps the father and son could have a half-hour meeting in Parliament.
Now, in this chaotic period of transition, the focus of the royal family's work seems to be on the interests of the royal family and the nation as a whole. However, with care, mutual understanding, and less gossip, the broken relationship of the royal family can be repaired and strengthened. You know, remedying faults is a delicate skill that requires a high degree of cultivation, and the new king has apparently decided to bring it into a new century.
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