My best friend Xiao Y's child is in the first year of junior high school, and Xiao Y always feels that the child is too hard: he studies from morning to night, and after returning from self-study in the evening, he has to do homework until nearly 11 o'clock, and he has to make up classes on weekends....
It is said that this is the daily life of elementary and junior high school students today.
I don't know if they're going to be bored with school and skip class.
I think of my student days, and I was a good student and a good child in the eyes of my teachers. Even so, I still want to skip class, and sometimes I get distracted in class: how nice it would be if I didn't have to go to school.
When I was a freshman in high school, my tablemate Xiaozhou was a girl who was as lively as a boy. On a sunny winter afternoon, Xiaozhou actually had the idea of skipping class, remembering that the first class that afternoon was a history class, and there were still about ten minutes before class, she said to me: Such a good weather, I really don't want to go to class...How about we skip class? Anyway, it's a history class, and the head teacher probably won't know, and if there are two fewer people, the history teacher will think that we are on leave.
I was a little frightened, but I was really aroused by her to skip class and go out to play, I said is this really okay, won't the teacher find out? Xiaozhou said something that I still remember: You have never skipped class, think about it, we have been students for so long, and we have not skipped a class, will you regret it when you think about it in the future?
And then....I was hooked up by Xiaozhou to skip class. In fact, the campus gate was locked, and we couldn't get out, but just ran to the roof of the teaching laboratory building to bask in the sun and chat. Enjoying the warm winter sun like this, we are already very happy. That kind of mood is like stealing half a day of leisure.
The follow-up is that we were not discovered by the class teacher, and the history teacher did not know if it was discovered, in short, there was no accountability. But I think even if I was discovered, I'm still happy to think about it now.
There was another thing that stood out. It was the third year of high school, and the schoolwork was starting to get intense. During a school-wide soccer match, our class played a game with the next class. Our class lost, and it was said that the referee was unfair. So the players in our class and the players in the next class actually made an appointment and had a fight...
Fortunately, there was no major problem, there was a blue nose and swollen eyes, but there was no hospitalization. Back then, group fights were a big deal in school. The head teacher next door was furious, and we could hear it across the wall.
And our homeroom teacher said to us in a serious manner: "Students, I understand you, I know that a boy cannot grow into a man if he has never fought since he was a child, but there are principles in fighting," he paused, and then said, "The principle is first not to be injured, and secondly, on the basis ......of not being injured, do not injure others."Hearing this, the whole class burst into laughter, and instantly felt that the head teacher was really nice and understood us....
Later, after the negotiation between the head teacher and the school leaders, the boys who fought were not punished for the first time. But everyone has also learned their lessons.
Looking back, I am very grateful to have a tablemate who will take me to skip class, and I am also very grateful to have an interesting homeroom teacher, so that my middle school years still have some color, so that there are not only two boring words to study.