When night falls, the stars dot the sky, as if it were a beautiful picture. In this quiet night, Zhang Jiajia wrote with love: "Flowers are in full bloom, and the night is an article." Dusk begins to write, and dawn is a myriad of title pages. The whole world is put together into a poem. I love you as the last line. ”
Love is the most beautiful emotion in the world, however, it is also the most heart-wrenching thing. The honey and bitterness of love are intertwined, like a thick and colorful picture, which is intoxicating and heart-wrenching.
In this flashy world, when women face the choice of love, some choose to let go, but smart women know another kind of wisdom, know how to manage feelings with heart, and create their own happiness. Just like the three key points mentioned here, they are the magic weapon that successfully attracts the hearts of men.
01 Boost your self-confidence.
Li Li, the proprietress of Zhizhenyuan in the CCTV drama "Flowers", she is not proud, but she has created her own legend on the Yellow River Road. Her unique temperament stems from the self-confidence deep inside. On the stage of life, she showed an unparalleled demeanor, unmoved by external discussions, firm and calm.
This self-confidence made her the center of attention and attracted the heart of Mr. Bao. Confidence is like a fragrant rose, attracting the attention of everyone around her. When a woman has self-confidence, she no longer needs to deliberately pursue it, and the happiness she wants will naturally come to her.
02 Improve your abilities.
Xiaofang, a beautiful and intelligent girl, could have lived a worry-free life. However, she chooses to enrich herself every day, not only to study hard, but also to use her talents in her husband's work. Her friends wondered, why was it just the life of a rich wife?
Xiao Fang smiled indifferently, she thought that even if she had wealth and backing now, she could not forget to improve herself and pursue growth. Her efforts are not just for the present, but for the future. This kind of persistence and growth made her achieve a better status in her marriage, and her husband cherished this relationship even more.
As Zhao Xinshan said: "People can only be satisfied in continuous pursuit." Xiaofang found her own ability in the pursuit, so that even if she loses her backer in the future, she can create her own world with her own ability. This is a unique kind of love for oneself, because only by loving oneself can one attract the deep love of others.
03 Improve your temperament.
In one poem, it is written: "There is poetry and books in the belly." "A woman, when she is full of poetry and books, has the temperament of both internal and external cultivation, she will exude a charming demeanor. This temperament is not only manifested in literary accomplishment, but also in dressing and personal accomplishment.
The love story of Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu has always been sung, and their love is deep and simple. An excellent woman, her attraction stems from the unique temperament in her bones. However, many people only focus on the outside and ignore the inner cultivation. An elegant, calm, and connotative woman is the one who can really attract men for a long time.
Oscar Wilde once said, "Loving oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." "Loving yourself is not a momentary romance, but the beginning of making someone fall in love with you. Women should know how to sharpen themselves with their hearts, and let the temperament of both internal and external cultivation become their best business card. Because only people who truly know how to love themselves can better feel the deep love of others for themselves.
In this world of loving and being loved, women must learn to improve their self-confidence, ability and temperament, like a gorgeous artist, carving their own happiness with their hearts. It may be a difficult process, but when you find a better version of yourself in your pursuit, you will love yourself better, and you will definitely be able to attract the person who knows how to cherish you. In this romantic and complicated stage of life, every woman deserves a happy ending of her own.
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