Dear baby, in life, you will encounter doubts and denials from others. Faced with this situation, how to deal with it? Today, I would like to talk to you about the topic of "allowing yourself to be denied, but not needing to be identified", in the hope that you can better understand yourself and be firm in your beliefs.
First of all, baby, you have to understand that everyone will be denied. No matter how good you are and how hard you try, there will always be people who have a negative attitude towards you. This is because everyone has their own opinions and positions, which are not always consistent. Therefore, learn to allow yourself to be denied and accept that this is the norm.
But, baby, allowing yourself to be denied doesn't mean you have to agree with them. You can respect the opinions of others, but don't shake your beliefs and goals because of the denials of others. You have to believe in your own worth and abilities, and believe in your decisions and choices. Don't deny yourself because of the denials of others, but prove your worth with your actions.
At the same time, baby, you also have to learn to distinguish between constructive criticism and meaningless negation. If the questioning of others is for well-intentioned, constructive purposes, you can consider their opinions, learn from them, and grow better. But if the suspicion of others is a malicious or senseless attack, you need to learn to stand firm in your beliefs and not be influenced by others.
Finally, I hope that you will always be confident and determined in the days to come. Believe in your own ability and believe that the future will be better. At the same time, learn to learn from the opinions of others and keep growing and improving. No matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, keep a positive mindset.
Love you always, Daddy.