Today, I'm going to talk about this.
A few years ago, I had a good friend and we had a very good relationship and could be said to be inseparable. He has jet-black hair and always has a hint of wit and intelligence in his eyes. Whenever I was in trouble, he was always the first to stand up and help me, making me feel warm and reassured.
One day, he suddenly came to me and said that he needed to borrow 40,000 yuan for an urgent matter. His face was full of anxiety and helplessness, and his eyes revealed deep helplessness. As a friend, I didn't hesitate to say yes and transferred the money to him. At the time, I didn't think much of it, I just took it for granted to help my friends.
However, as time went on, I found that this friend began to distance myself from me. He no longer kept in touch with me as he used to, and even when I met him on the street, he only said hello lightly. I began to feel uneasy, wondering if it was because he owed me money. So, I decided to find an opportunity to talk to him and find out the following.
Finally, one day, we made an appointment to have dinner together. I deliberately chose a restaurant with an elegant atmosphere and a warm atmosphere. The dining table is decorated with delicate cutlery and flowers, surrounded by soft **. We talked a lot about the past, and the atmosphere was quite harmonious. Just as I was about to mention borrowing money, he suddenly said, "I've never borrowed your money!" This sentence was like a thunderbolt from the sky, and I was stunned for an instant. I really didn't expect my former best friend to treat me like this.
I was very angry at the time, but I resisted my anger and told him that we had the transfer records as evidence. Seeing this, he immediately relented, promised to pay me back 30,000, and the remaining 10,000 would be paid off by the end of March, and wrote me an IOU in person.
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This experience made me deeply aware of the complexity and fragility of human nature. Sometimes, what we think of as friendship and trust may simply be based on money. Since then, I have learned to protect myself and stop trusting others easily. And for this former friend, I also chose to let go, and from then on, I didn't communicate with each other again.
However, life is always full of unexpected surprises. Just when I decided to give up the friendship, another friend showed up. He not only gave me a lot of care and help, but also reached out when I needed it most. This made me understand that true friendship can stand the test of time, and those who are hypocritical will eventually be eliminated by time.
Now, I have recouped all my loans and gained sincere friendships. Although this experience hurt me, it also made me grow a lot. I believe that in the days to come, I will become stronger and braver, and no longer be hurt by anyone.