Follow me and I will share some interesting stories and experiences on a regular basis to exchange educational experiences together.
In the past, parents would often send blessings to the class teacher in the group during holidays. Although some of these blessings are copied and pasted, they represent a part of the hearts of parents. However, this behavior has been criticized by ** and belittled as "licking". A lot of people think that doing this makes people feel bad. As a result, this trend has gradually weakened, and many parents no longer take the initiative to send blessings to the class teacher, and even when the class teacher takes the initiative to send blessings, the parents no longer respond. However, I feel that this situation is a bit excessive.
Looking back on the scene of yesterday's first day of the Lunar New Year, in the third-grade parent group, the head teacher sent a small message of blessing at 9 o'clock in the morning, not only blessing the parents, but also blessing the students, which was very thoughtful. Before the class teacher sends a blessing, no parent sends a blessing to the teacher first, so the class teacher can be said to be the "first starter". It stands to reason that the class teacher can take the initiative to send blessings to parents and students, which is a very good intention in itself. Parents should be courteous and reply with a blessing, even if it is a copy and paste, it is also a way to express their feelings. Interestingly, however, only four parents replied. Considering that the class size is not large, the group shows 51 members, and if the teachers are removed, there are probably more than 20 parents of the students. And only four parents replied with blessings, not even half of them, which is too little, and it is too bad for the head teacher. At least more than half of it can be considered passable, so as not to look awkward. I think that from the point of view of educating their children, parents should reply, or let their children reply. As we all know, parents are their children's first teachers, and in terms of etiquette, parental demonstration and guidance are particularly important. Taking the initiative to send a blessing to the teacher may be said to be "licking", a sycophant, or a stammer, but when the class teacher sends a blessing first, what does it matter if you reply? It's just basic courtesy. It's understandable not to take the initiative to send blessings to the teacher, and there is no problem, but ignoring the teacher's blessing and not replying is a bit unkind, and it doesn't conform to the norms of human sophistication. Teachers don't need parents to stutter and don't like parents to pat themselves, they just need basic understanding and respect. From the perspective of ordinary people's communication rules, when someone sends you a blessing, it is natural to respond.
In the past, parents would send blessings to the class teacher through WeChat groups or other social platforms on special holidays, such as Spring Festival and New Year's Day. Most of the time, these blessings are templated and uncreative. And these parents who took the initiative to send blessings to the head teacher were criticized and labeled as "licking". In this case, many parents no longer take the initiative to send blessings, even if the class teacher takes the initiative to send blessings, they do not reply. However, I think this situation is a bit excessive.
At nine o'clock in the morning on the first day of the Lunar New Year yesterday, the head teacher sent a message of blessings to parents and students in the third-grade parent group, wishing parents and students a happy New Year. This blessing is very thoughtful and comprehensive. Before the class teacher sends a blessing, no parent sends a blessing to the teacher first, so the class teacher can be regarded as a "starter". It is very rare for the class teacher to take the initiative to send blessings to parents and students, showing that they care and care about every student. According to common sense, parents should reply and send their blessings, even if it is a simple copy and paste, it can also express sincere feelings. Interestingly, however, only four parents replied. The class size is not large, there are about 20 parents of students, and only four people have responded, less than half of the response rate, which is really too low. At least more than half of it can be said so that it will not embarrass the class teacher. From an educational point of view, parents should reply, or let their children reply on their behalf. Parents are seen as their children's first teachers, and their example and guidance are especially important in terms of etiquette. When parents take the initiative to send blessings, people may be misunderstood as "licking", patting or stammering, but when the class teacher takes the initiative to send blessings, what is the harm in replying? It's just basic courtesy. It is understandable not to take the initiative to send blessings, after all, everyone's life is busy and busy, but ignoring and not replying to the teacher's blessing is too much, which is not in line with the principle of human sophistication. The class teacher does not need parents to pat or stammer, they just need basic understanding and respect. From a general interpersonal point of view, when someone sends you a blessing, the response is a matter of course.
As parents, we should be very grateful for the work of the class teachers, who are the guides and partners in our children's educational journey. Therefore, the active blessing of the class teacher is a kind of care and respect, and it is their attention and greetings to the parents. Sending blessings to the class teacher in the group is a way to express gratitude and respect for their work. Even if these blessings are simple copy and paste, they represent the hearts of parents.
Looking back on the past, parents would send blessings to the class teacher on special holidays, such as the Spring Festival and New Year's Day. Although some of these blessings are copied and pasted, there is a sense of gratitude from parents behind them. However, this behavior is degraded as "licking" and makes people feel uncomfortable. As time goes by, more and more parents no longer take the initiative to send blessings, and even when the class teacher takes the initiative to send blessings, they no longer respond. However, I think this situation is a bit excessive.
Yesterday, on the morning of the first day of the Lunar New Year, I just opened the third-grade parent group and saw that the head teacher sent a message of blessings at nine o'clock, wishing parents a happy new year and wishing the students healthy growth. This blessing is very thoughtful and comprehensive, which reflects the care and attention of the class teacher for the children. Before the class teacher sent out the blessing, none of the parents in the group took the initiative to bless them. It is not easy for class teachers to take the initiative to send blessings to parents and students, which shows their dedication and dedication to education. According to common sense, as parents, we should respond and send blessings, even if it is a simple copy and paste, it can also express our hearts and gratitude. However, regrettably, only four parents replied to the class teacher's blessing. Considering the small size of the class, with about 20 parents of students, this is a shameful response rate. At least half of the response rate must be considered respectful and sincere, so as not to make the class teacher feel left out. From the perspective of homeschooling, parents should reply and let their children reply on their behalf. As the first educator of children, it is particularly important for parents to demonstrate and guide etiquette. Taking the initiative to send a blessing to the class teacher may be misunderstood as "licking", patting or stammering, but when the class teacher takes the initiative to send a blessing, what does it hurt to reply? It's just basic courtesy. It is understandable not to take the initiative to send blessings, after all, life is very busy, but ignoring and not replying to the teacher's blessing is a bit unkind, and it is not in line with the truth of human feelings. The class teacher does not need the parents to stammer or pat the mouth, they just need basic understanding and respect. Judging from the norms of ordinary people's interactions, when others send you blessings, the response is a matter of course.
To sum up, parents sent their blessings to the class teachers on the special holiday, expressing their gratitude and respect for their work. However, at one point, this behavior was criticized and disparaged as "licking". Gradually, parents stopped taking the initiative to send blessings, and even when the class teacher took the initiative to send blessings, they no longer responded. However, the class teacher's active blessing is a kind of care and respect, and parents should treat each other with courtesy and reply to the blessing. This is not only a basic courtesy, but also a truth that parents should teach their children. Parents don't need to stammer, they just need basic understanding and respect. When someone sends you a blessing, the response is a matter of course.
Your attention is my motivation, and your support is the direction we are heading. Follow me and you can see my latest articles, hear my unique insights and in-depth analysis on various topics, and let's explore the ocean of knowledge together!