When getting along with people, the following three behaviors are the most cheap, and I hope you don't have any of them.
Some people, their own life is not difficult, but they always like to take advantage of others, this kind of people often do not have a big pattern, and they will not have too good connections.
No one likes to be taken advantage of, and the practice of always being selfish with others is undoubtedly offensive.
Such people abound nowadays, and they can save themselves and take advantage of others
When buying vegetables, I fought with small traders for a long time for a few cents cheaper, and when I paid for it, I was picky and deducted;
In social interactions, it is clear that friends have invited guests many times, but when it is his turn, he pushes back, which makes people dissatisfied.
When you run out of your own things, you use someone else's in the name of forgetting to buy them, and you can rub as much as you can.
It seems shrewd, but it is selfish.
For the sake of his own interests, he loses the most precious emotions in the world, and the more he occupies them, the more he suffers, and finally loses people's hearts and hurts others.
Although taking advantage is a momentary pride, I don't know that the people in this world who are willing to give you profits are people who really care about you.
When getting along with others, you would rather suffer a loss than be greedy and take advantage, so that you can become more and more blessed.
Bullying the weak and fearing the hard reflects the selfishness and narrow-mindedness of human nature.
Such people are usually only concerned with their own interests and do not take into account the feelings and needs of others.
Some people bully the weak and fear the hard, and they grovel in the face of those who are stronger than themselves;
And in the face of people who are inferior to themselves, they are arrogant.
No matter how much economic strength such a person has, how good his background is, he will not be looked down upon.
When faced with the difficulties of others, such people often dare not speak out, and even bully people who are weaker than themselves.
Don't always try to make things difficult and bully others.
While we do our own thing, we can lend a helping hand, and don't always pick weak people to bully, otherwise one day we may embarrass ourselves.
Many times, people who care too much about face often end up being even more faceless.
To be a person and do things, we must seek truth from facts.
In fact, we are clear to each other about our abilities.
Don't promise what you can't do for the sake of face, or even drag down your family.
Some people are like this, they care too much about face, especially when their friends borrow money, they obviously have no money, but they still want to save face, and they go around piecing together, and in the end, their friends can't pay it back, and they are in debt.
Over time, when everything in life revolves around "face", life naturally becomes dull and boring.
Those who die to save face are those who have no self-knowledge and insist on being people who do not match their strength.
In life, the more uninformed people are, the easier it is to fall into the trap of self-righteousness, and they never have self-knowledge.
Taking the face too seriously can only show the barrenness and superficiality of a person's heart.
Because he has no real strength, he can only slap his swollen face and become fat, and use bluff to cover up his inner unconfidence.
Conclusion: In life, we must learn to continue to experience on the way forward, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and be an upright person, and the road will be wider and smoother.
Only by quitting those behaviors that are cheap, can we truly establish high-quality social interaction and manage our lives better. February** Dynamic Incentive Program