Female blind dateMale, after the conversation, the man suspects the woman of vanity
Li, who is only 24 years old, is currently working at a medical beauty front desk with a monthly income of 3,000 yuan. She is a lover of life and enjoys shopping, watching movies and drinking afternoon tea.
Li is a moderately built, fair-skinned woman, she is 164 meters, weighs about 110 pounds, has big eyes, red lips, and looks elegant.
However, her ex-boyfriend's empathetic relationship has left her single to this day. In a blind date, Li said she hoped to find a woman with a height of 1A boyfriend who is more than 75 meters tall, has a mature and stable personality, has a stable job and a high income, and the other party has a certain plan and taste for the future.
Soon, the matchmaker introduced a boy named Han to Li. Han, a 26-year-old man who works in logistics management, earns a salary ranging from 8,000 to 10,000 yuan per month.
He is a frugal and self-disciplined boy who saves two-thirds of his salary on time every month.
Han is looking for a girlfriend, hoping that the other party has a good temper, a good character, and a height of not less than 16 meters, preferably white to work. The matchmaker arranged a meeting for the two, and Han felt that Li was good-looking and in good shape, and was the ideal girl in his mind.
The matchmaker asked Li about his impression of Han, and Li said that she was a slow-burning girl and needed further conversation to determine how she felt. The two sat down to talk, and Li made a detailed inquiry about Han's economic situation, including the down payment for buying a house, salary level and consumption.
Although Han said that he didn't want to increase the burden on his parents, Li said that his parents' help was also acceptable, and finally Li said "oh" to indicate that he was not satisfied with Han's financial situation.
When Han talked to Li, he mentioned his lifestyle. He doesn't smoke or drink, and only eats simple food for breakfast, and orders takeout or fast food at the company at noon.
After work, he usually cooks his own meals at home and rarely eats out. He saves most of his salary, which he doesn't think is a sign of a boring life. However, Li expressed dissatisfaction with this and asked him how many gifts he would give to his girlfriend if the two were together in the future, such as Qixi Festival, Goddess Day, birthday, etc.
Han said that he can still afford gifts of about 2,000 yuan, such as clothes, bags, cosmetics, etc. However, after hearing this, Li thought that the gift of 2,000 yuan was too little, because the husbands of her colleagues gave gifts of 5,000 or 6,000 yuan.
If Han only gave a gift of 2,000 yuan, how would she deal with herself in that circle?
Han didn't get angry, but asked about Li's hobbies. Li replied that she likes to go shopping with her girlfriends, drink afternoon tea, watch movies, etc.
Li and Han went on a blind date under the introduction of the matchmaker, Li cared about Han's economic strength very much, thought he was a capable boy, and very much hoped that Han could buy a very expensive gift for her.
Han was very dissatisfied with Li's behavior, thinking that she only valued material things and not character, and as a result, the two had conflicts in conversation, which eventually led to the failure of the blind date.
Li always insisted on his pursuit of material things in the blind date, believing that only material can reflect a man's value. Han, on the other hand, insists on his character and values, believing that marriage should not be based solely on material things.
Such disagreements made it impossible for the relationship between the two to continue to develop. This experience tells us that marriage requires not only material support, but also the alignment of two people's values and attitudes towards life.
Only when two people have a common understanding and expectation of marriage can a healthy and long-lasting relationship be established.