1. Be a man with a bottom line and stick to your own principles and attitudes in order to avoid being bullied.
Bottom line, the word sounds serious, but in reality, it's like a line of defense in our lives, protecting us from harm.
Imagine that if you don't have a bottom line, others may trample on your dignity at will and act recklessly on you.
But if you stick to your bottom line, others will know your attitude and will not dare to offend you easily.
I remember when I was a child, there was a classmate in my class who always liked to take advantage of others. At first, everyone was embarrassed to say it for the sake of face, but then he became more and more excessive.
Finally, one day, a classmate who is usually more serious told him that this was not right. Since then, this classmate has never taken advantage of others.
Therefore, you must have a bottom line and stick to your own principles and attitudes in order to win the respect of others and avoid being bullied.
2. In the face of other people's advice, you should affirm on the surface but deny it in your heart, and keep thinking independently.
In life, we always meet all kinds of people who will give us all kinds of advice and advice.
However, we should understand that it is we who ultimately make the decision. If the advice given by others doesn't work for us, we don't have to force ourselves to accept it.
I have a friend who originally wanted to learn a technology, but his family thought that going to graduate school was more promising. He was distressed, but in the end he chose the path he liked. As it turned out, he made the right choice.
Therefore, when facing the advice of others, we should keep thinking independently and choose the path that suits us. Only in this way can we go further in our lives.
3. Success does not only depend on hard work, but also a calm attitude towards accepting the next best results.
We are taught from a young age to work hard and strive for the best results. However, there are many times in life when things don't always go the way we want them to.
Sometimes, we put in a lot of effort and the results are not ideal. At this time, we should accept this result calmly, because success does not depend entirely on our efforts.
For example, once I participated in a speech contest at school, I prepared for a long time, but I didn't perform well in the competition.
Although I was disappointed, I told myself that it was just an experience and that I still had a lot of opportunities to prove myself.
4. Pay attention to the way and attitude of giving favors, and a sincere attitude can make people more pleasant.
There will always be people in life who need our help. When we help others, we should focus on the way and attitude.
If we help others with an arrogant or dismissive attitude, then our help may not be appreciated by others.
On the contrary, if we help others with a sincere and warm attitude, then our kindness will be more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Once I saw an old man fall down, and everyone around me was just watching. I walked over to pick him up and asked him if he needed help.
He looked at me gratefully and told me to go to the nearest pharmacy to buy him medicine. I ran over and bought the medicine for him, and he thanked me again.
Therefore, giving favors should focus on methods and attitudes. It is only when we help others with sincerity that our kindness will be recognized and appreciated by others.
5. Sometimes, it is necessary to go your own way, and only you know your own pursuit and goals.
Sometimes we are faced with choices that may cause us to go against the will of others or the traditional ideas of society.
In this case, we should be brave enough to stand up for our decision. Because only we know best what we are pursuing and what our goals are.
If we always cater to other people's expectations or society's traditional beliefs, then we may lose our direction and purpose.
For example, I have a friend who has always wanted to start his own business and make his own brand. But family and friends alike thought the idea was too risky. However, he stuck to his idea and eventually succeeded in starting his own business.
Life is like a tortuous river, sometimes we need to stick to our principles, sometimes we need to think independently, and sometimes we need to accept the results calmly.
Sometimes we need to be warm to help others, and sometimes we need to be brave enough to pursue our dreams. Hopefully, this article will inspire you to move forward better in your life's journey.