In the TV series "Parents' Love", Jiang Defu is very delicate when dealing with the relationship with Ouyang Yi and Antai. Ouyang Yi was detached from Jiang Defu, while Antai was extremely flattering. This kind of intimacy and alienation reflects the complex emotions within the family. Let's take a closer look at this deliberately maintained family relationship.
Although Ouyang Yi is not looking for fault with Jiang Defu, his attitude is quite cold, while Antai flatters Jiang Defu for the sake of the family's future. However, Jiang Defu was very close to Ouyang Yi and helped many times, but he was disgusted with Antai, but he was just okay on the surface. In fact, this kind of intimacy and alienation is not uncommon in the family, and it is often affected by the individual's personality and attitude towards the world.
Antai's presence in the later stages of the plot is not strong, and political conditions make him estranged from Jiang Defu. But the only time I landed on the island, for the sake of my daughter Anyi's future, the welcome was not warm. In contrast, Jiang Defu was enthusiastic about Ouyang Yi's family, and he was thoughtful towards Antai. This nuance reveals the degree of concern for different members of the family, as well as the variables that arise due to external causes.
Antai's excessive flattery of Jiang Defu made Jiang Defu difficult to accept, and he even felt that Antai's attitude towards him was too flattering. Ouyang Yi's attitude towards Jiang Defu is estranged, and sometimes he even intends to find fault. This difference is common in families, where excessive compliments by one partner may cause resentment by the other, and conversely, a cold attitude may also provoke resentment from the other party.
Jiang Defu's attitude towards Ouyang Yi was influenced by An Jie to a certain extent. In the early days, An Jie complained to Jiang Defu that he didn't like Ouyang Yi, but for the sake of his sister An Xin, he had to endure it. Therefore, some of Jiang Defu's "sassy operations" when receiving Ouyang Yi may be to maintain balance in the family, and at the same time it is also a kind of support for An Jie.
As a scholar, Ouyang Yi's arrogance stems from his own knowledge, while Jiang Defu has a very high impression of cultured people. As a businessman, Antaeu's profit-seeking mentality makes him appear slick but lacking in sincerity to some extent. This difference made Jiang Defu more inclined to Ouyang Yi, because he valued learned people more.
In the plot, Jiang Defu's dissatisfaction with Antai's family is mainly reflected in Antai's neglect of brother and sister friendship. An Tai's family served as a soldier for An Yi, but when they left, they did not greet An Xin's family, who were suffering on the next island. Jiang Defu's emphasis on family relationships made him more and more dissatisfied with Antai's attitude, especially the neglect of brother and sister friendship.
In general, Jiang Defu's subtle attitude in dealing with the relationship between parents in "Parental Love" is not only affected by personal personality and family environment, but also reflects the influence of social background on interpersonal relationships. This complex and subtle family relationship makes the audience think more deeply about the complexity of human relationships.
When Ouyang Yi was facing a predicament, Jiang Defu's concern for him was not out of sympathy, but based on his good impression of cultural people and his cherishing of brother and sister friendship. Although Ouyang Yi has a good family background, the arrogance on his body comes from his knowledge, which makes Jiang Defu appreciate it even more. Jiang Defu has always liked to be close to literate and knowledgeable people, and he sees them as an opportunity to learn more from them.
As a businessman, Antai's profit-seeking mentality made him appear pretentious and insincere in his dealings with Jiang Defu. His business acumen was too tactful in dealing with problems, which made Jiang Defu even more cautious about him. Between Ouyang Yi and Antai, Jiang Defu has always maintained an attitude of neither humility nor arrogance, and does not want to let himself be deeply involved.
Although Ouyang Yi's situation is embarrassing, Jiang Defu knows that he is a proud person and is disgusted by the sympathy of the outside world. After the birth of the dragon and phoenix fetus, Jiang Defu deliberately conveyed the news to Lao Ou, more like expressing his joy in a way that he liked to see. This kind of high emotional intelligence reflects Jiang Defu's deep understanding of Ouyang Yi's character and his optimistic attitude towards difficulties.
The audience questioned some of Jiang Defu's "sassy operations" when receiving Ouyang Yi, thinking that this was stimulating Ouyang Yi. However, in fact, this is the manifestation of Jiang Defu's high understanding of Ouyang Yi's emotions. He knew that what Ouyang Yi was most afraid of was the sympathy of others, so he deliberately changed the focus through some small actions, making himself the protagonist of the reception banquet and alleviating Ouyang Yi's embarrassment.
Jiang Defu's attitude towards Ouyang Yi is also partly due to An Xin's "love for the house and Wu". An Xin and Ouyang Yi are sisters, and Jiang Defu has always been very affectionate and righteous when treating family members. Therefore, his concern for Ouyang Yi is not only out of his preference for cultural people, but also includes his love for An Xin.
The Antai family's neglect of the brother-sister relationship, especially after the Antai family decided to become a soldier, did not greet the An Xin family, who were suffering on the next island, which made Jiang Defu more deeply dissatisfied with Antai. For Jiang Defu, family relationships are crucial, and the indifferent attitude of the Antai family makes him unhappy.
Throughout his parents' affection, Jiang Defu's subtle attitude shows his cherishing of family relationships and his superb ability to handle interpersonal relationships. In a complicated family, he strives to maintain the delicate balance between his parents and siblings, and faces all kinds of emotional entanglements with a cautious and sincere attitude, becoming a high-profile character in this story.