Today is Valentine's Day, chat with your female friends.
In emotion, women are more sensual and romantic, and they are more eager to be loved and pampered emotionally than the need for money. is also willing to pay for each other in emotion, but in reality, everyone has heard on the Internet that some women get unjust endings in their emotions. The final reason is because I have completely lost myself in my emotions, and today I will talk to you about some of my views on emotional growth:
Emotion 1: Make a living first, love and love.
Compared with Valentine's Day, "Money Man's Day" is more cost-effective, you have energy, economic independence, and spiritual independence, so there will be no emotional value in asking for each other in terms of emotion. The other party loves you is the icing on the cake, hello, I am hello, everyone, you can live well without you. If you have no energy, you are highly dependent on all aspects, and the other party's departure or not treating you well can make you fall into painful internal friction.
2. Be principled.
It is not rare to be loved, but it is rare to be loved by a loved one. If you sacrifice your bottom line and principles, not only will you not get the respect of the other party, but you will trample on your bottom line unscrupulously.
Three: Don't be easily PUA by the other party, and be self-loving and confident.
In a relationship, if the other party chooses four out of three and needs you to make changes, if your little fault is harmless, and the other party asks you to change only in favor of him and not you, it is not that you are bad, but that the other party wants to make you surrender to his logic by suppressing you. You yourself should be aware of your value and be confident. To find someone who appreciates you, no matter how good the other party's conditions are, you will be depressed if you don't recognize.
Four: Emotional words can be said, emotional things are less done. You can not say rational words, but you must do things rationally.
Five: For internal friction of your own emotions, no matter how long you are together, you must have the courage to decisively stop losses.
Emotions will inevitably deteriorate, and in the face of a spoiled food, no matter how expensive it is, everyone will throw it into the trash. Because I know that the consequences of eating it are serious, I will have diarrhea at least and go to the hospital at worst. And a bad emotion, make you uncomfortable every day, both parties are not nourished in the emotion and produce internal friction, this kind of relationship is no different from spoiled food, if you drag on without stopping, it is the damage to your own spirit is not self-conscious. When you think about sunk costs, you tend to get caught up in greater internal friction.
Everyone must know that good emotions must go both ways, and what nourishes you is also that nourishes him, not a person who pays 90% purely, and a person who only pays 10% to enjoy the results. It's not that loving someone requires unconditional giving, but reciprocity, love you for three points, and you have four points to give. I love you three points, you give ten points, this kind of mother-type emotion is deformed, this is called asking for hardship.
May female friends be better grown and nourished emotionally, rather than bloody lessons. You can suffer a lot of losses in life, but don't suffer too many emotional losses. 
Is that what you think?