The daughter-in-law's encounter with her "dirty and messy" in-law caused heated discussions among netizens Where is the dignity between going and staying?
A news about a new daughter-in-law visiting her in-law's house for the first time, but being asked to clean the messy kitchen has attracted widespread attention. Faced with the mess in front of her, the bride was at a loss and wondered if she should stay. This incident quickly sparked heated discussions on social **, and netizens expressed their opinions.
Some netizens bluntly said: "I suggest you leave quickly." My husband's house was so dirty, I was stupid and didn't leave. Later, I always thought she was dirty, terrifying! Dirty, lazy and poor, ruined half of my life, and then I bought a house by myself and didn't want him. This netizen's experience seems to be very tragic, and she believes that a dirty environment can seriously affect the quality of life and may even ruin a marriage.
Some netizens also said: "Leave immediately, you are a daughter-in-law, not a servant." Be dignified. This kind of mother-in-law can never come and go. This view emphasizes the importance of personal dignity and believes that as a daughter-in-law, you are not obliged to endure the mess of your in-laws' house.
Some netizens shared their personal experiences: "When I married my husband in 1992, his kitchen was even more terrifying than this, and there were a bunch of rat feces. I have to go diving home every day to clean, and I have to go uphill and downhill to carry water, and the well water is more than ten meters. This netizen's experience seems even more staggering, but she chooses to persevere and adapt.
Some netizens said: "What are you hesitating about, hurry up, if you go slowly, it's your fault." This view is more impatient, believing that the bride should make a quick decision to avoid further trouble.
The heated discussion among netizens reflects people's concern about family hygiene and personal dignity. Everyone has a different way of coping with a dirty environment. Whether you choose to stay or leave, you should respect your feelings and dignity. We should also pay attention to family hygiene and create a clean and tidy living environment to protect the health and happiness of family members.