What do you give to others when you go to pay New Year's greetings? I used to deliver drinks and biscuits.
Because we are all mothers with children at home, thinking about sending drinks and biscuits, milk and other things that children can eat, so I send these things every time.
And this year, when I went to visit the New Year, I was disgusted by others when I gave these things, and I was very embarrassed at that time.
I took a carton of Coke, a carton of sour milk, and a carton of biscuits to someone's house to pay a New Year's greeting, and I felt that the host's face was not very good-looking.
After helping me put these things down, he told us to go to dinner, and after eating, he gave red envelopes to everyone's children, he sent them to my children, and I sent them to his children.
After handing out the red envelopes, he planned to bring back the drinks and biscuits I had brought over.
When he walked into the hall and found that the biscuits and drinks had been taken apart by the child, he was very angry and scolded the child.
There are more children, and everyone is more naughty when they get together, and these drinks are placed directly in the hall, so they take them apart and drink them themselves, which is also normal.
And the relatives began to lecture the child in front of the guests, saying that he was not satisfied with these things.
Later, I went to consult others, did my relatives dislike the things I bought?
Those who came over said to me, "For the Chinese New Year, you don't always send drinks and biscuits, you buy some wine and some cigarettes to send to others."
Or buy some seafood, pork, chicken, etc., those who are older will prefer these things.
If it's just ordinary friends, young people, you can send drinks and biscuits, and for the older generation, it's better to send something more practical.
They are more particular about eating healthily, and they always feel that these things are unhealthy to eat, so they don't like you to send these things.
After listening to my friend's words, I suddenly realized that you must give gifts to your liking, and you should give chicken, duck and fish to the elderly.
If you like to smoke and drink, you should give him cigarettes and alcohol.
If you are a mother with a child, you can give her milk biscuits.
If you don't give the right gift, the money is spent, and the host is not happy, which is counterproductive.
In the future, I must have a good understanding of it before I give a gift, and then buy it on demand, what are you giving gifts for the New Year?