After a winter vacation, the child doesn't want to go to kindergarten and goes out to grind!
Try these steps and get into the park with ease!
Resonance!
Mom and Dad know that you don't want to go to kindergarten because kindergarten is different from home, and you want to stay with Mom and Dad all the time, right?
Saying this tells the child that his mother understands him, which can make the child resonate, and he will be more willing to tell his parents what happened in the future!
Understand and accept!
Mom knows that you may not be used to eating and sleeping in kindergarten, and there are some children you don't know, right?
It's normal to feel uncomfortable at first, and many children feel this way, even when their parents were in kindergarten when they were young.
Parents must learn to accept their children's emotions, allow their children to cry, refuse to go to school, and only by truly understanding their children can they get close to his heart, and then find a way.
Encouragement and guidance!
It's already amazing that you can go to kindergarten, let's take our time and don't rush. I heard that your school has chicken thighs to eat today, you come back from school and tell your mother, is it the chicken thighs at school that are delicious, or the chicken thighs made by your mother are delicious?
After accepting the child's emotions, we should encourage the child to make him feel that he is already great. Then guide the way to make the child look forward to going to school.
Gentle and firm!
When it's time for school, mom will come back to pick you up! Do you want your mom to pick you up with snacks or toys? Mommy will miss you too much, we'll see you after school!
After saying that, turn around and leave, don't procrastinate. In fact, when we leave, the children will soon be able to enter the group. The reason why the child is reluctant to go in is to express his reluctance to his mother.
Don't say the words!
Why not go to kindergarten? You say!
Don't ask like this, the child is so young, in fact, he really can't express it clearly.
You can't go to kindergarten!
This answer will suddenly scare the child's emotions back, and the child will reject the kindergarten even more.
Okay, okay, don't go, don't cry!
If you let him go, he will cry even more because you have deceived him.