Emma sat there looking at her phone, expecting that familiar name to appear. Finally, the phone vibrated and it was Jack who sent a message. "Hey, sorry about last night, I was too busy at work to make it to the meeting. Emma sighed in disappointment, she was used to such excuses. She tapped on the keyboard and replied, "It's okay, I understand." "You're so nice, I'll treat you to dinner another day to compensate you." There was a lightness in Jack's words. Emma smiled and replied, "Okay, look forward to it." In this way, Emma and Jack's relationship is ambiguous, sometimes intimate, sometimes distant. She always told herself that Jack was really busy and really cared about her. But the little uneasiness in my heart often breaks through the ground tenaciously like weeds. A week later, Emma and her friend Lily have dinner at a restaurant. Lily asked with concern, "Emma, how are you and Jack?" You guys seem to be quite ambiguous. Emma stopped talking, then smiled wryly, "I don't know, it feels like walking a tightrope." "Is he good to you? Is he genuine? Lily asked. "He said yes, but he was always busy. There was a hint of helplessness in Emma's words. At this time, there was a sudden commotion at the door. Emma looked up and saw that it was Jack and a group of friends laughing and walking into the restaurant. Jack's gaze swept over Emma, but quickly moved away. Emma felt a pang in her heart, and she suddenly understood something. It's that kind of sudden event, a moment of epiphany. Lily noticed Emma's expression and said, "Emma, you deserve better." The relationship came to an abrupt end, but Emma's journey had just begun. She begins to observe Jack's behavior, trying to discern the difference between genuinely liking herself or playing around. Through several important points, she slowly saw the reality clearly. 
Difference 1: "Scheduling".A man who likes you will make room for you, even if he is busy. Jack always excuses himself on the grounds that he is busy with work, which is obviously not an act of valuing and respecting Emma. And those who are willing to make time for you, even if it's just a short call or meeting, show their intentions. Difference 2: "Future Planning".If a man seems vague or evasive when talking to you about the future, then he may just be playing with you. Someone who truly loves you will leave a place for you in the blueprint for the future, and they will plan and envision with you. Difference 3: "Attention to detail".In terms of care, a man who really likes you will notice your little habits and needs, even if you yourself may not be aware of them. And those who are just playing around may only show interest when you are together, but lack attention in your daily life. Difference 4: "Open Relationship".When a man is willing to admit your relationship in public and is proud of it, it shows that he is serious about you. If he always avoids mentioning you or connecting with you, it could be a warning. Difference 5: "Give and Sacrifice".True love is something that comes with giving and sacrificing. If he gives up something, even a small personal habit, for the sake of your pleasure, then he probably does it sincerely. Conversely, if he always asks you to be accommodating, then you may just be an option in his life. 
We can understand that "real gold is not afraid of fire". True love is about caring and giving, and it doesn't care about personal gains and losses. As the saying goes, "it's better to have less than to overuse", don't lower your standards because of loneliness, true love will always inadvertently break into your world. As Jane Austen wrote in Pride and Prejudice, "Feelings are not to be played with." Therefore, discerning a person's sincerity and understanding his intentions is crucial in every relationship. In short, no matter what kind of emotional relationship we are in, we should remain sober and recognize the true heart of others. Remember to love yourself and don't be afraid to choose to leave those who are just playing with feelings. True love will always slowly come into your life with warmth and light. List of high-quality authors