On weekdays, Wang Bin and Zhang Ying are very busy.
They generally don't contact each other if there is nothing special, and they always go home at night to talk about anything or something.
However, on that Friday afternoon, Zhang Ying unexpectedly received a **:
"Something happened in my hometown, so I asked for leave and went back. ”
There's something going on in my hometown, but I don't know what's going on.
Wang Bin was very anxious, and he could see that this matter was definitely not a simple matter.
Zhang Ying asked him what happened?
Wang Bin said that it was too late to say, and he would wait until he got home to see what was going on and then tell her.
Seeing that she was in such a hurry, Zhang Ying was not easy to ask.
However, every time Wang Bin said that there was something at home, Zhang Ying had an inexplicable sense of fear in her heart.
I don't know why.
Zhang Ying thought that Wang Bin would arrive home that night, and he would have to say something to himself the next day.
But I didn't wait a day.
Until noon on Sunday, Wang Bin still didn't **.
Zhang Ying couldn't wait, she asked him:
"Tomorrow Monday, will you come back or continue to take leave?
Also, what happened in my hometown?
Does it matter? ”
She always has to ask, right, after all, Wang Bin's hometown is also her in-law's family.
Although she lives in the city, she rarely goes back, and she has been back four or five times in more than ten years of marriage.
However, there is always a question to ask.
"My sister has pancreatic cancer.
I can't go back for the time being, and I have to continue to ask for leave. ”
Wang Bin said these two sentences, and said that he was busy, and then hung up.
Zhang Ying was stunned for a long time.
My sister is less than forty, why did she get cancer?
Wang Bin should be there for a while.
It's time to take a leave of absence. After that, Wang Bin had no news for almost a week.
Zhang Ying knew that he must be in a bad mood;
He must have a lot to do.
Wang Bin came home suddenly on a Sunday afternoon in the second week.
He didn't tell Zhang Ying in advance when he would come back.
It came back so suddenly.
Zhang Ying looked at him with a tired look on his face, and he was very distressed.
Since returning from his hometown, Wang Bin has had two changes.
The first is that words become few, very few.
The second is that I work half an hour earlier than I used to do every day.
Seeing that he was in a bad mood and that he was silent, Zhang Ying thought about it or didn't ask.
He naturally said it when he wanted to.
There are fewer words, Zhang Ying can understand, because her sister is seriously ill and she is sad.
But why is it that you go to work half an hour earlier every day?
I've never heard him say it, and I've never heard him mention it.
She wanted to ask, especially to ask.
But before she could ask, the ** that Wang Bin received that morning gave her the answer.
"Didi taxi, right?
Okay, Master, wait a minute, I'll go downstairs right away. ”
Wang Bin obviously has a car, why should he call Didi to take a taxi to work?
He's not the kind of person who obviously has a car, but wants to be lazy and not drive, and then take a taxi to work.
Zhang Ying was puzzled.
"Wang Bin, why are you taking a taxi?
What about your car? ”
Zhang Ying couldn't help but ask.
"I can't tell you for a while, so I'll tell you when I come back in the evening. ”
Wang Bin was still putting on his shoes and was about to go downstairs immediately.
"You just wear it as you talk, what about the car? ”
Zhang Ying continued to chase and ask, because her perception told her that their car was not broken down and sent for repair, or maintenance or something.
If that were the case, Wang Bin would have told her when he came back that day.
I don't have to say that it's too late, and what I can't say for a while.
"The car, I sold the car. ”
Wang Bin put on his shoes, pulled the door and prepared to go out.
"Sold?
Why sell? ”
Zhang Ying stopped at the door and didn't let him go.
Because she didn't understand why he was selling the car.
He never said that he wanted to change the car, and the car did not take long, only four or five years.
The 300,000 car was sold, although it has been driven for four or five years, but it is still a car.
"Sell it to my sister, okay?
Do you hear me clearly?
I'm leaving. ”
Wang Bin was impatient and didn't care, and then left without looking back.
Actually, it's not that he doesn't care, he cares very much.
Why is he silent these days?
It's true that his sister is sick, and he is sad and sad, but what annoys him even more is that the car is gone, and the car is sold.
He didn't know how to tell Zhang Ying about it.
He didn't know how to say it, the impact on Zhang Ying could be slightly smaller.
But he couldn't think of a better way.
Because I can't say anything.
He understood that Zhang Ying would not let go of himself easily.
The most important thing is that when he sold the car, he didn't discuss it with Zhang Ying at all.
This time, he cut first and then played again, which is equivalent to challenging Zhang Ying's bottom line again.
However, he felt that his sister was sick in his heart, and as an older brother, he sold his car to his sister for medical treatment, and there was no problem.
It's not impossible to give money to your sister's medical treatment, but it's definitely not okay to sell the car without saying anything.
And that's what Zhang Ying cares about.
That day, after Wang Bin left, Zhang Ying sat on the sofa in a daze for a long time.
She remembered the time she bought a house, and the scars in her heart seemed to be uncovered again.
She knew that a few years ago, she could secretly give her younger brother 180,000 yuan to repay the online loan;
This time, I can sell the car directly to my sister for treatment;
The next time his parents are sick, he can force himself to sell the house.
He's not bad, and you can't say that everything he's done is wrong.
But, as my mother said back then, these qualities of his are wrong and hurt in their small family.
Because he took care of his own people, but he couldn't take care of their small family.
Nearly 300,000 cars, after driving for four or five years, have to sell for 1230,000 yuan.
Say sell, sell. She didn't know what else he couldn't do.
He has behaved well over the years and has not made any mistakes of principle.
But it was all based on his parents, and nothing major happened to his younger siblings.
If he had, he would never be at peace.
Zhang Ying felt that their home was like an extinct volcano.
It doesn't look like it will erupt, but there is always a risk of eruption.
And every time it erupts, Wang Bin will return to his parents and his younger siblings without hesitation.
He doesn't feel like there's something wrong with it.
He even felt that these were all things he should do, and Zhang Ying had to support himself and do it with him.
Indeed, as Zhang Ying expected, because when she came back that night and even in the days to come, Wang Bin really didn't give her any reasonable explanation for selling the car.
Perhaps he knew that explanations were also futile.
But more importantly, he hopes that Zhang Ying should have his own cognitive height and a certain degree of empathy.
If something happens in their hometown, they should stand up, and they should not hesitate.
Yes, he hoped that he didn't say anything, and Zhang Ying should have the same thoughts as him.
Besides, he didn't sell his car to eat and drink, and he didn't do anything illegal.
It's just that I took 180,000 yuan to repay the online loan to my younger brother last time, resulting in no money to buy a house.
Zhang Ying opened up with her mother and solved the problem.
This time, Zhang Ying chose to let go.
Because, she knows that the previous stability and dullness are all temporary, not forever.
Because, she didn't know when he Wang Bin should do something she couldn't think of.
She's old, she's middle-aged, and she's scared.
When Zhang Ying filed for divorce, Wang Bin felt unreasonable.
He felt that a woman like Zhang Ying was too cold-blooded.
"How can you see death and not save it?
How can you turn a blind eye to your loved ones?
Isn't it just a car?
Just buy it later.
You are now 13000 a month, and my salary is not as good as yours, but I also have 11000.
If we work hard, we may be able to save up to 200,000 in a year or two
And there is not much money at all, and it is only 200,000 yuan for selling cars and others.
Can these compare to my sister's life? ”
A good one doesn't have much money?
It seems that he is a big boss, and he came with a stroke of 200,000 yuan.
Zhang Ying felt speechless.
But she didn't quarrel with him or make trouble, she just wanted to be separated.
However, Wang Bin can't figure it out and can't think about it.
He will not leave, dead or alive.
In his opinion, secretly selling a car is a big deal, because he didn't tell her in advance.
However, such a thing does not lead to divorce.
He categorically disagreed.
Zhang Ying insisted on separation.
"Okay, if you really want a divorce, that's fine.
The house is for me, the child is for you.
Half of the deposit per person, and I don't pay child support. ”
Zhang Ying didn't expect Wang Bin to be able to say such a thing.
And she could see that this was not his idea of scaring himself and wanting not to divorce.
It's that he really intends to do it.
"Why should the house be given to you?
Even if we go through the legal process, no matter how uneven it is, it will be half of us.
The child belongs to the two of us, so why don't we pay child support? ”
Zhang Ying didn't give in a step, pressed step by step, she just wanted to ask him, what qualifications and reasons he had to say such shameless things.
"This marriage is for you to divorce, not me.
Then since you want a divorce, can't you agree to my conditions?
Otherwise, I won't leave, you know?
But a woman like you, it's okay to leave.
Because you don't deserve me to live with you to the end.
You don't have sisters, but you have parents, I don't believe that your parents are sick, can you see death or not save them?
A vicious woman like you, no one will want you....”
Zhang Ying didn't expect that she had taken a fancy to a man and had lived with a man for more than ten years, but he turned out to be such a person.
Is this still a person?
He didn't know that he was wrong, and he even had a bunch of fallacies.
It's speechless. Zhang Ying did not agree to Wang Bin's request, and she insisted on going through the legal process.
Wang Bin said:"Yes, I'm not afraid.
Now that there is a cooling-off period for divorce, I will say that I still have feelings for you, and I don't want to divorce.
I don't beat you or scold you, I'll slowly consume it with you.
Let's see who can afford whom.
Don't worry, I'm not like an ordinary man, what goes out to live, what doesn't go home.
Don't worry, I'll come back every day, every day.
I still have to sleep in the same bed with you, and I have to stay with you twice for three days.
Not excessive, right?
If we don't divorce for a day, you will be my wife for a day.
You have to fulfill your obligations as a wife, don't you?
Haha....”
Listening to Wang Bin's filthy mouth, Zhang Ying was disgusted.
She said to her mother
"Why didn't you wake me up with cold water?
Why didn't you let Dad hit me on the head with a stick? ”
Mother is still not in a hurry :
"Zhang Ying, it's useless to say all this now, the key is whether you really want a divorce?
If you really want to leave, then cut through the mess quickly.
It's just that the conditions can't be exactly according to him, you can talk to him, and both sides will give in one step.
So that you can get a divorce sooner and get rid of him sooner.
No matter what day he is, no matter how rich he is, his heart is poor.
Because he grew up in that kind of environment, he has a certain essential inferiority.
When it comes to a certain time, he will always show his truest side.
He will hold on to everything he can.
For example, your current house, your savings.
If you don't believe it, does he remember that I lent you money to buy a house?
He only remembers that he paid off the mortgage with you, and he didn't lose a penny from me.
Maybe now in his heart, he still thinks I'm stingy?
He thinks I should have given you the money in the first place, not let you pay it back.
In his opinion, we only have one daughter, you, and it is right to give you anything.
Over the years, you have lived a good life, and your father and I have not said anything.
Of course we want you to be good, but we know everything in our hearts.
But you know, my dad and I are always behind you and Mimi at all times.
You know, the house we bought you when you were in college, it's always there.
We rented it out, and then we kept all the rent for you.
In the future, if you need it, we will give it to you.
It's yours and will always be yours.
It's like me and your dad, like the house we gave you.
But what is not yours, will be lost one day.
I hope you don't get too sad, don't be too sad.
If you give and give, you will get it, just get through it. ”
Mother spoke eloquently, and there was no deep language.
But every sentence went to Zhang Ying's heart.
She watched her mother cry silently, and she knew that the people she was most sorry for in her life were her and her father.
If I had understood it earlier, I wouldn't have come to this point.
She only blamed herself for understanding too late.
However, this life is so long, who hasn't wet their shoes and capsized over the boat in the river of love?
Who understands everything and understands everything from the beginning?
Anyway, in the end, Zhang Ying got the house, but she gave Wang Bin 600,000 cash.
Wang Bin still insisted on the child's child support.
He said that he would marry and have children in the future, and he was under a lot of pressure.
Zhang Ying thought about it, it's not that she can't afford to raise children.
In this way, their 15-year marriage came to an end.
They were both 39 years old.
After going through this difficult marriage, Zhang Ying finally came to her senses.
What does it mean not to listen to the old man, and suffer in front of you.
As a passer-by, her parents told her in advance about the problems that might arise in her marriage with the experience of the passers-by.
But at that time, she didn't understand and didn't care.
There is only Wang Bin in her eyes, only love.
In fact, many times, many things, there is no right or wrong.
But in a specific environment, in a specific person, it is incorrect and undesirable.
Just like Wang Bin's filial piety and kindness, there is nothing wrong with it.
But for Zhang Ying, for their family, it just can't do more harm than good.
Today it's a younger brother, tomorrow it's a sister, and the day after tomorrow it's a parent.
After all, when the matter of his family comes, he will rush forward regardless of it.
Zhang Ying said that no, it is not okay, because if other relatives have three longs and two shorts, she is the culprit.
Therefore, it is wisest to withdraw.
After the divorce, Zhang Ying took her parents to live with her.
She found that she could finally put her heart on her stomach and finally settle down.
At the age of 39, she is living her own life again.
Daughter Mimi is still as good and intelligent as ever.
I was admitted to a key high school, and this time I also got a good score like the third in my grade.
Her days are bright and bright, and she is not slow.
The day came a little late, but it was okay!
(ENDS).
ps:
There are three stories in total, and today is the finale.
I've already started writing a new story, so we'll see you tomorrow!
In addition, let me say that friends who don't know how to read the previous situation can click on my avatar to enter the homepage and look at it in chronological order.