My mother-in-law tricked me into having a second child, and I regretted the birth of the child
My mother-in-law once coaxed me to have a second child, and now that the child has been born, she has failed to fulfill her promise I admire my mother-in-law very much, although she is almost 60 years old, she is very well-dressed and dressed, cheerful and good at talking, these are qualities that I admire very much.
My mother-in-law has many friends and is very popular, and I was impressed by her when I first met, and I think she is a very good woman. However, when I gave birth to the baby, I found that my mother-in-law had failed to keep her promises.
Despite this, my husband comforted me and said that my mother-in-law was a very nice person and asked me to get to know her slowly.
My mother-in-law is really a winner in life, married to a husband who loves her family. My father-in-law is a small bag foreman, and he works hard every day to make money, and the money he earns is handed over to my mother-in-law, so that she can be the master at home.
When I got married, my mother-in-law was bold and generous, and my mother asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and she gave it without saying a word. All the expenses of the wedding were borne by my mother-in-law, and after the marriage we lived with her in a big house, she liked to be lively and thought that everyone could take care of each other by living together.
However, after a long time, it is inevitable that there will be some small gaps. I am a lazy person, I like to lie in bed in the morning, things are left in a mess, and cooking is not delicious, these are bad habits in my mother-in-law's opinion, so she always likes to nag and even complain sometimes.
This made me feel very uncomfortable, so my husband and I discussed moving out. My husband was very supportive of my idea, so my father-in-law offered us hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy a house.
Now that we have our own little home, I don't have to worry about my mother-in-law anymore, and I feel very quiet. Although we have lost her care, we can make our own decisions and enjoy our lives.
A year later, I had a little princess, and my husband and I were very happy because we both liked girls very much and would be very sweet when we grew up. My mother-in-law was also very happy, she took care of me carefully during confinement and taught me how to take care of the children.
I gradually gained some experience and she helped me take care of the baby for a few months before going back and saying she had other things to do. Although I am very grateful for her help, it is really not an easy task with children.
My daughter cries a lot at night, I barely have time to rest, and I am so busy with housework and taking care of the children during the day. My husband is busy with work and doesn't have time to take care of me and the kids.
I felt so anxious when my daughter got sick and I really didn't know how I got through that time. Later, when my daughter went to kindergarten, I finally saw hope.
My husband and I both decided to nurture our daughter well and no longer consider having a second child. However, my mother-in-law was unwilling, and she often came to convince me to have a second child, saying that it would be good for us.
Actually, I understand very well that she wants grandchildren, but I don't plan to have a second child.
After we worked hard to conceive and give birth to our second boy, my mother-in-law enthusiastically promised to help us with the baby. She also took special care of me during my confinement, and everyone was happy to have such a good mother-in-law.
However, as soon as the confinement ended, the mother-in-law suddenly ran back to her hometown. It turned out that she was obsessed with square dancing, rehearsing the show every day, and when she heard that she was going to be on TV, she devoted herself to it.
My mother-in-law told me that she was going to enjoy her old age now, and that she would let me take care of the children by myself in the future, and that she was going on a trip. These words made me very sad because she coaxed me to have a second child, but now her words don't count.
I'm tired from taking care of two kids and I'm really worried about looking for a babysitter again. I hope that my mother-in-law will really fulfill her promise and help us with the children.