Two days ago, a friend confided in me: I gave a New Year's gift before the Chinese New Year, and I also prepared one for my former colleagues, one is to thank you for the help at the beginning, and the other is to maintain it, and often come and go. But the former colleague reacted quite coldly, replied with a thank you and said nothing more.
didn't reminisce about the past, didn't talk about the recent situation, and didn't even have a polite greeting. At that time, my friend had the feeling of licking the dog, and also had the illusion of being avoided, and the warmth stirred in his heart had nowhere to go, and he was somewhat congested.
Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped.
I can understand the feelings of my friends, people are born to want to connect with others, and they always want to be with each other. It's just that this expectation is our wishful thinking or two-way running, it depends on the fate between people.
The relationship between colleagues itself arises in a specific workplace, and when the relationship ends, most people will gradually drift apart, and it is very valuable to have one or two become friends. If you don't know the road from now on, you don't have to force it, just be okay.
But do good deeds, don't ask about the future.
I advise my friends not to be sad, because everyone has a different way of doing things, and we don't have to judge others by our own standards. Do what we want to do, thank you, show kindness, but please be worthy of our hearts.
As for the result, it is not subject to our subjective will, many things exist that are reasonable, and there is no need to interpret too much for others, not to go into detail, to avoid internal friction, and to make yourself a little easier.
Whether it is a relative, a lover or a friend, some people are destined to be just passers-by in our lives. And those who stop for us and stay with us, we must treat them with heart and cherish them.
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