February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Spring Festival is the most important traditional festival for Chinese, a day of family reunion, blessings from relatives and friends, and jubilation. However, for some couples, the Spring Festival is the end of their marriage and the starting point of their divorce. Recently, the Civil Affairs Bureau after the Spring Festival has encountered an unprecedented "wave of divorce". In some places, the number of divorces cannot be arranged, and even the appointment for divorce is full, and you have to wait for 5 days. In the hall, the number of people waiting for divorce far exceeds the number of people getting married, and this scene can't help but make people sigh.
This phenomenon has sparked heated discussions on the whole network, and some people say that this is the progress of society, and people's ideas are more open, and they no longer see marriage as a bondage, but as a choice. Some say that this is a moral degradation, and people's feelings are more indifferent, and marriage is no longer seen as a responsibility, but as a game. So, is the wave of divorce after the Spring Festival social progress or moral decline?
In my opinion, this is a complex issue that cannot be generalized and needs to be analyzed from multiple perspectives. First of all, we must see that the reasons for divorce are diverse, some are due to relationship breakdown, some are due to domestic violence, some are due to cheating and betrayal, some are due to incompatible personalities, some are due to financial pressure, some are due to the interference of relatives and friends, and so on. Every couple's situation is different, and their decision to divorce has its own reasons. We cannot generalize and deny their choices, nor can we blindly sympathize with and glorify their behavior. We should respect their individual rights, but also pay attention to their social responsibilities, especially the impact on children.
Secondly, we must see that the consequences of divorce are serious, affecting not only the lives of the couple, but also their families, especially their children. Divorce can bring psychological trauma to children, affect their growth, and even lead to their fear and resistance to marriage. Divorce can also be a burden on society, increase social instability, and affect social harmony. Therefore, divorce is not an easy thing to do, nor is it a casual thing, but something that needs to be carefully considered. We can't blindly follow the trend, nor can we give up easily, but we must communicate hard and try to redeem as much as possible, especially for the sake of children.
Finally, we must realize that the trend of divorce is inevitable, which is the inevitable result of social development and the inevitable reflection of the change in people's concepts. With the progress of society, people's living standards have improved, people's self-awareness has increased, and people's concept of marriage is also changing. Marriage is no longer seen as a necessity, but as a possibility. People no longer see marriage as a sacrifice, but as a pleasure. People no longer see marriage as a bondage, but as a freedom. These changes are all manifestations of people's pursuit of happiness and a way for people to realize their self-worth. We cannot deny these changes, nor can we resist them, but we must accept them, and at the same time, we must guide them to conform to social norms, maintain social order, and promote social harmony.
To sum up, I believe that the wave of divorce after the Spring Festival has both a side of social progress and a side of moral decline. We cannot blindly praise or criticize, but we must analyze objectively, treat it rationally, and guide it positively. We should respect the choices of each couple, while also paying attention to the responsibilities of each couple, especially the children. We should encourage every couple to work hard to preserve their marriage, while also supporting every couple's reasonable divorce. We should accept the changes of each couple, and at the same time guide the changes of each couple to conform to social norms, maintain social order, and promote social harmony. Only in this way can we truly realize the value of marriage and the progress of society.