【Inscription: A man loves a woman, and does not like these two things that want a woman].
Sociologist Li Yinhe once said: Love and non-love are as clear as black and white, and as clear as the nicks of a knife and an axe.
When a man, especially a mature man, falls in love with a woman, falls in love with a woman who makes him die to the ground, he is absolutely clear about his love.
Even, he can't wait to dig out his heart and lungs for this woman. Some people say, so he loves this woman so much, will he think about what he wants from this woman?
Actually, a mature man, he is only giving. Even if he wants something from a woman, then he will not want these two things at all, because it will touch the bottom line of his love.
In the movie Titanic, the male protagonist Jack is a poor painter, while the female protagonist Rose is a rich girl.
Even though Jack had no money, he never asked Rose for a penny. Instead, he uses his talent and charisma to attract Rose and make her fall in love with him.
When the Titanic sank, Jack even left the chance of survival to Rose, while he chose to stay in the sea.
When a man falls in love with a woman, he will not look at the woman's money, but really love that woman.
On the contrary, the ex-boyfriend of the best friend is a man who likes to spend women's money very much.
At the time, both had just graduated from college and had just found a job. But my best friend's ex-boyfriend kept crying poor in front of my best friend, saying that he had no money. So the usual expenses are supported by the meager salary of the girlfriend.
Until one day, his girlfriend inadvertently saw his ex-boyfriend give his mother a sum of money, and he knew that he was reluctant to spend money because he gave all the money to his mother, and his mother said that the money was to marry his wife in the future.
But when his girlfriend asked her ex-boyfriend when he could marry her, he repeatedly shirked it. Later, the girlfriend was also disheartened and directly mentioned breaking up.
A mature man, whether he has money or not, his first reaction is that he will not suffer his beloved woman. Even if you suffer yourself, you will never let your beloved woman be hurt at all. And for them to spend women's money, that is even more impossible.
Wang Lin is an independent working woman who works as a creative director at an advertising agency and has a busy and challenging job.
Her boyfriend, Li Qiang, is an enthusiastic entrepreneur who is busy with his own business all day long. Although the two love each other, they often get together less and leave more because of their respective work.
Wang Lin cherishes her personal time, which she believes is the key to her independent thinking and creativity. However, Li Qiang does not think so. He felt that since the two of them loved each other, they should be together as much as possible, even if it was worth sacrificing some personal time.
As a result, Li Qiang began to frequently call ** and send messages to Wang Lin, asking about her whereabouts and plans, and even sometimes suddenly appeared downstairs in her company to wait for her to get off work.
At first, Wang Lin felt that this was a sign that Li Qiang cared about her, but gradually, she felt a little breathless.
She tried to communicate with Li Qiang, hoping that he would understand that she needed some alone time. But Li Qiang felt that Wang Lin was alienating him, and the relationship between the two had a rift.
Until one day, Wang Lin had an emotional breakdown because of too much pressure at work, and she confessed to Li Qiang that she needed some space and time to adjust herself. At this time, Li Qiang realized how much pressure his actions had brought to Wang Lin.
He began to reflect on his actions and learned to respect Wang Lin's personal time. He no longer bothered her frequently, choosing instead to give her support and companionship in her time of need. As a result, the relationship between the two has become more harmonious.
This story teaches us that if a man really loves a woman, he will respect her personal time and space. Because everyone has their own way of life and pace, loving someone doesn't mean completely occupying her time. On the contrary, true love should be inclusive and understanding, and it is about making the other person feel warm and supported while remaining independent.
Zhang Ailing said: Love is not the whole of life.
Therefore, a mature man, if he loves a woman, will not ask for a woman's money and time. Because he knows that it is not easy for a woman to make money, and she also needs to have her own time to enrich herself. Since you love her, you must understand and respect her.