In the world of love, the words "touched" and "true love" are often confused. The line between the two seems blurred and indistinguishable.
Touch is a transient emotional response that is usually caused by someone or something touching our heart and causing a strong emotional response.
True love is a deep and lasting feeling. It's not just your feelings for the other person, it's your love for life and expectations for the future.
So how can you tell the difference between the two? Here are some important metrics:
1. Time: Contact is often short-lived, and love may be born in contact at a specific moment. True love needs time to precipitate, go through ups and downs, and go through the ups and downs of life together to deepen and sublimate.
2.Depth: Touch is often just a superficial emotional response. It can also be just affection for someone else's appearance, talents, or certain behaviors. True love is a deep-seated feeling that includes a comprehensive understanding and acceptance of the other person, including their strengths, weaknesses, past, and future.
3.Undivided attention: Touch may be just a momentary emotional impulse that changes with time and circumstances. True love requires dedication and perseverance, and requires both parties to work together to face the challenges of life and build a better future together.
4. Freedom: When we are moved, we lose ourselves and change ourselves to fit each other. True love allows us to maintain ourselves, respect each other's independence and individuality, and be willing to give for each other without losing ourselves.
Touching and true love are two completely different emotions. Touching may only be a momentary emotional impulse, but true love is a deep and lasting feeling.
If you find yourself only attracted to someone in certain moments, you may need to revisit your relationship to see if it's just crush and not true love.
If you love this person deeply and are willing to make sacrifices for him and face life's challenges together, then you probably really love him.