The New Year is approaching, and returning to the hometown for the New Year has become the choice of many people. However, when returning to his hometown, there is always a series of embarrassing problems for relatives and friends. How to answer these questions skillfully has become a pain in the hearts of many people. Here are some coping strategies to hopefully help you have a great time homecoming.
First of all, the most important thing is to keep smiling and polite when facing questions from friends and family. No matter how awkward the question is, learn to respond with a calm mind. Don't show impatience or anger, as this will only make the situation more awkward.
Secondly, for some personal questions, you can choose to answer them tactfully or change the subject. For example, if you are asked about your salary, you can say, "The job is not bad, and it is very satisfying to be able to support yourself." Then you can take the initiative to ask the other person about their recent life situation, so that the other person also has a chance to talk about themselves.
Also, if asked about relationships, simply answer: "I'm still enjoying my single life, focusing on work and personal development." "It doesn't embarrass the other person or put yourself in an awkward position.
In addition, if you are asked about some personal privacy or sensitive topics, you can choose to resolve the situation with humor. For example, if asked about weight, you can joke, "Weight? Oh, this is where I store my happiness! "It's a great way to dissolve the awkwardness and make the atmosphere lighter and more enjoyable.
Finally, if you really can't avoid a question, you can choose to be honest with it. After all, the most important thing between friends and family is sincerity and frankness. However, you should also be careful to control your emotions when answering, and don't let the awkward questions affect the whole atmosphere.
In general, the most important thing to do when faced with awkward problems from friends and family is to keep smiling, being polite, and being good at changing the topic or humorously defusing the situation. Returning home for the Chinese New Year is a happy thing, and we hope the above suggestions will help you have a pleasant holiday and share the happiness and warmth with your family and friends.
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